Girls, Would you date a 30 year old guy who lives with his mom for these reasons?

[Anonymous]

I turned 30 a couple of months ago, and I live with my mom. What happend was i lived in my moms house until I was 23, and then moved into and apartment with my brother in 2017. I lived there until 2019. I moved out because my brother has an explosive temper, and I didn't want to be around it. So I've lived with my mom ever since. Mostly because my moms and alcholic, and she has a dog, and cat she often forgets to feed because she's too drunk to remember, so I do it. Also she works long hours, and I dont think her dog should be left for so long, although maybe it's not that bad anymore because he has the company of the cat. She adopted the cat recently, but im still worried about leaving her alone with the animals, because she just can't care for them when she drinks. I could come by twice a Day and make sure they are being fed, but I feel that's kind of unrealistic. What do you think?

[rosemilk]

nothing wrong with it. but it seems like you are in the accidental role of being a caretaker, which has got to suck. i hope you can get your mom and your brother some help with their issues. and i hope the animals are okay

[HelpfulWoman]

the explosive temper brother and alchololic mother are the issues, not the dude.
that said, i have a toxic family of my own, dating a dude with another set isn't something I'd really be interested in doing.

[sheikalana]

You have a valid reason to me but at some point you'll have to move on with your life too.

[elizamichale1]

I married 1