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From a for-profit blog run by girls telling others to be submissive in their marriage and don’t worry about careers! Unless it’s a blog telling girls not to have careers!

If you are thinking about becoming a submissive spouse you might wonder as you've read the article, what exactly is in it for you.

1. Lower chance of divorce.
2. Keep the spiciness alive in your marriage, and avoid the overwhelming boredom that plagues people's marriages.
3. Increased feelings of love, grace, and companionship with your husband.
4. If you are a housewife or stay-at-home mom, you will get financial protection and enjoy the domestic sphere, away from the hostilities of the career world.
5. Favors and special treatment from your husband, such as gifts and extra nights out.
6. Peace in the house, i. e., decreased fighting or arguing.
7. Lower risk of infidelity.
8. Ability to be your feminine self. If you are a girly-girl, this will be a given. You will enjoy your role as a submissive wife to the fullest.

I've had this question from multiple females in ailing relationships recently. Seems an expectation of men that no matter the difficulty, they will keep fighting and come back for the woman... undying love.

... and so I ask about staying power...

Imagine your beautiful mate is everything you wanted and easy, except one thing. Each day, they prick you with a small needle, not worse than a bee sting. It's ridiculous, but it's their way out outletting internal grief and you accepted their cultural behavior because they are perfect in every other way.

How many days of that can you endure.

This is the basis in some cultures, of torture...

Obviously there's a point to the analogy. Relationships have some pain which we need to endure, hopefully a lot more good and you learn to work together effectively to make each others lives better, more fun, more joyful, fulfill needs of each.

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Love seems a bit alchemy doesn't it, and maybe a notch fickle. It requires great communication, patience, giving, receiving, accepting. It's alchemy cooking...