Why are females so confusing and should I wait It out or leave?

[Anonymous]

There's a female in my life who likes me and I like her back but the issue is she has self-sabotaging tendencies because of the past trauma she believes she shouldn't be loveable and she suppose to stay alone and she’s scared if she continues with our relationship she will hurt me and says that’s the last thing she wants to do but I love her more than anything and I’m willing to stick it through but she’s reluctant, to give us a proper shot because she’s scared it’s going to fail but both want a future together and we both see each other in each other’s lives as a couple she also said she wants to deal with her issues then come back to me but I’ve tried everything to convince her to stay and give it a proper shot so should I try my best and completely move on or stay and keep fighting for this relationship?

[kylee2437]

So she’s not the confusing one in this situation, you are. She is telling you flat out that you deserve a love she can’t give at the moment and just because you love her doesn’t mean you should accept that. I know it’s sucks because she probably maybe is an amazing person BUT has tons of healing to do and she feels as if the kind of person she is right now can potentially be abusive therefore she doesn’t want to be in a situation to hurt another person. Accept it for how she feels and set her free. If it’s meant to be it will happen

[Truth0225]

Sounds toxic and negative. I know you think you love her, but it sounds like long term, she’s more trouble than it’s worth.

[TheFlak38]

typical female bullshit. she doesn't care about you.

[Asker]

Yea you where right 💔

[Asker]

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