Search Results: getting a girlfriend

A girl im seeing said im not a priority and it makes me feel like im an afterthought. what should I do?

She and I matched on Tinder last month and our first date was amazing. Conversation just flowed naturally. A week later was our second date where things began to go downhill. I thought it was time to ask deeper question...

Silver89

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

What to do about a situationship?

I need advice or thoughts from people who aren't family. there's a guy I work with. We spend almost all day together even though we're in separate departments. He gets jealous of other guys and pretty much has a claim on...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy that rejected me in the past be concerned about me years later?

A few years ago, I went on vacation with my family to Mexico. At the resort, I befriended "Jack", and he and I just clicked. Over the course of a few days, we befriended other teens at the resort. One of these teens told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

How do I function when my career is like part of my identity?

I feel it is always something weighing heavily on me I am having to battle. For the longest of time, it was never having a real girlfriend and trying to find a woman that had never had a romantic bond. Now that I am...

IHaveRespawned

Xper 6 Age: 30

Dating

Which guy is likely to be the wisest option?

I’m currently getting attention from three guys, but one has a girlfriend, so I think he doesn’t count. Guy 1 is a model and as such, is attractive. He’s also intelligent, sensitive, selfless, down to earth and kind....

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Why is a guy that rejected me as a teen still concerned about my mental health even though we barely knew each other?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would my guy friend find be beautiful when I was 266lbs when other guys ignored me back in high school?

I always was a big girl. I was never skinny or slim at all. Starting when I was 11, I was very insecure about my size. I developed early. I started getting boobs at 10 years old, 11 I got a boot and all. I was obese I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Everyone thinks best friend is gay?

One of my closest friends is apparently bi and he's dating a beautiful female air hostess. He's had girlfriends before too and they've all been very pretty. I met him at work and already knew his dad. We hit it off...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Dating

Can getting a girlfriend be similar to sports terminology?

Like I was just thinking in bed one night thinking of the comparisons like there are guys who are always contenders for women like there are teams always contenders for titles then at the bottom you have the rebuilding...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Why do so many men not put any effort into making valentines day special for their girlfriend/wife?

I've been hearing lots of disappointing stories today about men not getting their women anything for valentines yesterday 😕 like damn its not even about the gifts but the effort...

Apple1996

Influencer Age: 29

Hobbies & Leisure

Girls, Would you or would you not want a boyfriend who has pet snakes?

I have pet snakes, I have 2 ball pythons and a Burmese python, then I previously had another Burmese python and a leopard gecko. Reptiles are my favorite animals, mainly snakes and lizards. I was told if I want a...

Louis-Deger

Xper 5 Age: 27

Family & Friends

Girls, Would you be embarrassed if your boyfriend wasn’t as strong or tough as a woman?

my girlfriend was getting in a argument with this girl at the club and I stepped in to try to diffuse the situation and the girl punched me in the crotch and dropped me to the ground. im embarrassed that i got beaten up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

What are your thoughts on dying hair vs not dying hair?

The scenario I am referring to is this: Say for example your girlfriend started getting a grey hair here and there and she decided not to dye her hair to cover the greys how would you react? Do you find a woman with odd...

thegreenyogi

Guru Age: 35

Dating

Do I have it really bad?

I turned 34 years old on February 9 and to this day, I never had a girlfriend. I've been rejected many times by girls making me really question my looks. I'm also very shy and don't know how to communicate with girls. I...

Darth09

Xper 5 Age: 35

Relationships

I made the mistake of cheating on my girlfriend a year ago and now the girl I cheated with is taunting and harassing me?

I got involved with someone a year ago behind my girlfriend’s back (yes, I know it was wrong). I made the mistake of not telling the person I got involved with about the fact that I had a girlfriend. She somehow found out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Is it wrong to be vindictive in 2025 ?

There's nothing I hate more than compulsive fake lairs and as I'm getting older I'm starting to call these types out if they mess with me or someone I care about. I hate drama but if someone tries to cause drama with me...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why is my girlfriend so upset over a joke?

We've been together for a good 4 years now so we know how we both are with jokes and silly stuff. We're always saying something completely off basis and random to eachother which sorta completes our relationship but this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I'm conflicted and I think I should end things?

My boyfriend of a few months has ADHD. I have been researching to get a better understanding and reading books/ articles about it. The first time he disappeared for a few day and I thought it was over. I texted him to...

Daisyintheforest

Xper 1 Age: 30

Relationships

Should I tell her how I feel?

For background context, I had to break up with my girlfriend because of my declining mental health late September 2024. My depression was taking a severe strain on our relationship, everyday dynamic, and frankly, I wasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My boyfriends sexual inexperience ruins the mood. How do I resolve this?

When we first started dating over a year ago I was his first girlfriend and never been with a girl. I wasn't bothered by it and I was excited to teach him a lot about women and sex. I taught him everything I liked and how...

Anonymous

(25-29)