Search Results: guys being mean

Why do some girls and women always push guys or men that like them AWAY?

Like say this guy or man that’s liked a woman for YEARS but the lady doesn’t notice or pays any attention to them. They always chase after guys that are no good or don’t like them back. I understand they have no feelings...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to stop being mean/ evil to every man I talk to due to past hurt?

I was hurt in the past by a couple guys but the last one hurt the most… it feels overwhelming talking to men because I feel scared of them hurting me so being mean is my coping mechanism but I don’t know when to turn it off

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Does girls don't approach guys if she respects him more?

In social situations everyone mind their own buisness. But guys have to approach girls. And also the case it is seen as crossing ones boundary because girls would be scared when approached by randomly lot of guys. So in...

Coolguy7398

Xper 1 Age: 25

Would you date someone that wouldn’t give you the time of day when you were obese/overweight?

I had a crush in high school and I was obsessed with him for years. Years! I dreamed that he was my boyfriend and the love of my life. Unfortunately he was so mean to me and my special needs friends. My friends didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What does it mean when a guy privately messages you a complement?

So, there is this guy in my friend circles, he never tried to talk to me he will only talk if I am near and it’s very causal and short. In a group chat for prayers, after I lead he messaged me hours after that day ‘well...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to deal with a toxic person when you can't cut them off completely?

I'm 25f and I had a "friend" that is toxic and I want to completely cut out of my life. we started off as friends, gotten really close over the past few months, ended up having casual sex a few times, we'd hung out 2-4...

Alexa18

Xper 1 Age: 27

Had a dream I was dating someone else. Meaning/insight?

I had a dream last night that I was dating someone else. I am in a relationship with someone and have been for a couple years now, but yes I do have some issues with them unfortunately. Mostly not respecting me or my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why Do Women Think Being Called 'Ma'am' Means Old?

The salutation of 'ma'am' has absolutely nothing to do with the age of the woman being addressed -- it's a term that signifies authority and respect. Guys call their female school teachers 'ma'am'. When I'm closing a sale...

Billlewis

Master Age: 62

Girls, Why are so blind about true love?

Some don’t even realize or too blind that the guy or man that has been there for them are the ones for them. They keep rejecting them and friend-zoning them. Ladies why do you keep rejecting guys that loved you for YEARS?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I just being delusional or was/maybe still is interested and did I blow it?

I’m just going to get to the point I got rejected again I’m pretty sure usually when I see a girl walking and talking with a guy I already know it’s a wrap. I was at my orientation for my job lasted 3 days she glanced at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Is SpongeBob SquarePants really just for kids?

A cousin of mine who is 13 gave me this T-shirt. My dad dismissed this shirt as being just "for kids." When I told him that my mom told me it can be pretty entertaining for adults, he said it's fine to wear around the...

InsecureLivesMatter

Xper 7 Age: 26

What does it mean when you been hooking up with this one man for a while then asks you if you have a new man?

So me and this guy have been casually hooking for a while now and recently I posted on my Instagram story talking about this one other guy I have feelings for and when he saw my story he messaged me and ask me “if I had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is it rude that I don’t want my guy friend to come over to my house because my dad embarrasses me when he asks him about a dating?

I don’t have guy friends over because my parents would ask them if they have girlfriends and why don’t they dare me and I’m a great woman. One says we’re good friends but they other three months ago joked and said they I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does every guy have the same purpose for Snapchat?

For example, like I talked to my man on Snapchat every single day, but we’ve also had a streak for nearly 800 days… But I also wonder if he actually has guy friends he talks to on there or if it has to be other women...

Noteboat01

Xper 1 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Does my ex feel regret?

Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago went no contact after he said life was busy couldn’t be in a relationship a week ago we went to our friends party and he was just looking down all the time and avoided being around me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My guy friend is being emotionally vulnerable; Does that mean he considers me a close friend?

He has been sharing his problems and worries with me. He has shared with me one of his most embarrassing moments that his friends still make fun of him for, and he is comfortable with me asking him deep personal questions...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I called a man who treated me badly for years a b*tch. Is it normal to feel this bad about it?

I have been seeing this man on and off for three years. He hasn’t been good to me and has disrespected me many times and has hurt me many times. He’s never been my boyfriend, but I kept them at arms length because I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If you are intimidated, does it mean you are going for someone out of your league?

I like brilliant men, but I am Just average in intelligence I like giant tall, thick strong guys but I'm just a chubby girl, kinda cute. Not to brag but being then sweetest girl on the planet doesn't matter if you can't...

Anonymous

(25-29)