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My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?

I had a gender reveal with my boyfriend yesterday, and he posted a story with me and asked if he should tag me in it I said yeah ofc… I was tired I went to bed and got on instagram when I woke up and saw he didn’t tag me. And this was our baby shower together. So I was like wtf, I get all these notifications from everyone that I was tagged or mentioned in their stories except him. So I’m like that’s weird so I go to his page to see if he tagged me in the comments or something like that. He didn’t so now I’m kinda confused like why didn’t he tag me. So I started thinking he didn’t want some women to see me. So I think of a women that has come between us in the past. A women who he said he had no contact with and that was blocked and it’s in the past. So I said okay and went with that but something told me to check his followers and sure enough the women is there and they are mutuals. So I called him and I was asking him what’s going on because he told me she was blocked. He then tells me that she was blocked at the time he told me but apparently we had a fight and he unblocked her and added her again and she then added him. Mind you we have not broken up since January and that breakup lasted 4 hours because not long after that I found out I was pregnant and had to tell him. And we discussed our issues and decided we should get back together and work it out. It’s now June and we have not had any breakups or periods of us not communicating. I just feel like whatever fight he’s talking about that we had, after we made up why didn’t he block her again. And also why would he turn to her in the moment it got difficult with us. He claims he didn’t communicate with her but I don't know. So this morning I didn’t have much time to talk but I told him. We need to take a break for about a week and figure everything out. And I feel he braving me to feel insecure when he told me he didn’t like how I looked 2 minutes into our gender reveal