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Referring to Kyle

Six months ago, my ex-boyfriend cheated me with other woman. I was desperate to move on and went to dating site and met a Greek man who immediately flew to see me.

When we were still talking online, everything goes well! However, when we met in person, I realised he cannot control his anger when he cannot get his way, which makes me scared.

After a few months passed, I still had feelings for my ex-boyfriend and did reach out to him but I got more frustrated when I learned that he was getting married to the other woman.

I was depressed because of my ex but Kyle is still beside me. I lost my job but Kyle never leaves me. He wanted to meet me again this Christmas, but I'm confused with my feelings

Unexpectedly, I met a German man named Mario who only spent a vacation in my City. He is very kind and respectful. We spent time together and we were laughing and having so much fun. I started to like him, and he admits he does too. We kissed, but we never had sex since I told him, "Not yet!." He does not get mad if things don't go his way, which I really admire about him.

After a few days together, I was shocked that I was able to moved on from my ex-boyfriend because of Mario. I am complete again; however, when he leaves, I become broken again. I missed him and I was shocked Mario blocked me. He said he hasn't moved on yet from his ex, but he really likes me a lot. He may come back. I think he needs space. I missed him and wonder if he comes back.

My question here is: Should I break up with Kyle? If so, I am afraid no one will take me seriously. And Mario won't come back.

I am already 28. I am afraid I will never get married. Or should I fight for Kostas?

My boyfriend and I have been long-distance dating for closer to 4 years, and it's been a rollercoaster for many reasons. But, recently, we both finally had an opportunity to spend a night together at a hotel and enjoy ourselves. As soon as we walked in since I had not seen him for some time, he wanted sex. I wanted to do it as well because, mentally, I thought it would be fun for us both. However, while we were doing it, he kept telling me not to take my shirt off and other stuff that seemed distant. He finished and was quiet, giving a stand-offish vibe afterwards. I kept asking him what the issue was, and he insisted it was nothing. Finally, once I got ready for the event he wanted to go to, he stated that he was worried about my health since I had gotten "bigger."

My weight has fluctuated a lot throughout the years in early adulthood, especially with working and college. When we met, I was on the smaller side, but it was an unhealthy time for me, hardly eating. I got on the hormonal IUD for him, and that caused me to gain a lot of weight.

I started crying and asked if he was ashamed of me, if he was still wanting me in that way, the works basically because of my body. He apologized a while later about it, and admitted saying that I deserve better which was also weird. I'm not sure how to really feel or go about this since he is health-crazy and wants to make sure I live a long life with him. However, his behavior did not match up to what he was saying. I mentioned it to a few friends to which they said that he might have seen better and now has a desire for that, or he's using health as a scapegoat to cover up his lack of wanting me now. What do you think? I'm afraid he doesn't find me attractive anymore but the weight is mainly because of him wanting this birth control in me. Do you think he is just using me for sex/companionship? Does he actually love me?