10 Things You Should Never Say To Someone

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

We've all said a few hurtful things here and there. But do you really know what words really get to people?

1) "I don't care"

2) "You're wrong"

3) "You can't do it"

4) "This is easy"

5) "Told you so"

6) "That's disgusting"

7) "Nobody likes you"

8) "Life isn't fair"

9) "Suck it up" or "Deal with it"

10) "You're Physco" or "You're crazy"

[Hidden_P]

You haven't really said why... for most of those things I can think of a reasonable example where saying that would be fine.

1. I don't care.
"What do you want for dinner?" "I don't care, whatever" Perfectly reasonable. Maybe you don't feel well and you honestly don't care.

2. You're wrong.
"2+2+2 = 10." "You're wrong." Perfectly reasonable.

3. You can't do it.
*attempting to open a jam jar* "You can't do it, can you?" *admits defeat* "No" Perfectly reasonable.

4. This is easy.
Colouring in a book. That's pretty easy.

5. I told you so.
An example from my life just the other day. I said to my boyfriend don't go that way, it's a dead end up this road. Low and behold, it was. "I told you so..."

6. That's disgusting.
Two girls 1 cup is pretty grim to be fair.

7. Nobody likes you.
Yeah this one I agree. Don't say that to people even when it's true.

8. Life isn't fair.
I actually don't see an issue with this. If anything saying this is a comfort. I would find it an insult the other way around. If there was a amputee dying man in front of you and you said "life's fair" I'd probably punch you in the tit for being insensitive.

9. Suck it up or deal with it.
Again, situations can call for this. If you see a money spider, I don't care how scared you are of them, you can walk over that tiny thing. If you've got a glass with a straw in it, you suck it up. You are too busy to be able to do something like clean a spilt glass of water. "Deal with it please". I have a much more hilarious story about deal with it but I won't go into it.

10. You're pysco or you're crazy.
Again, not nice things to say but you're crazy can be an endearing term, not meant seriously.

Merely saying you've given no context to any of this. These phrases themselves are mostly harmless. I would have more time for this take if you had given at least a sentence after each one.

[ClauseViter]

@asker wow she gotcha good.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

I was just making a simple myTake. What I meant was don't say these sorts of phrases in a hurtful way.

[Unit1]

I disagree with:

This is easy, Deal with it, a different type of life is unfair, Told ya, (because) you're (probably) wrong and that's gross.

These things can get me back to where I was before. However "This is easy" may escalate me to unwanted problems rarely to sometimes.

I learned to not say " I dont care" for way lesser dramas. I even learned to keep silent at almost all times. Silence is golden. It can save me energy, provide me with hidden (backstabbing) opportunities and keeps me for who I am: Ghost :) :) :) Also, lesser drama. Just way so much less, that it's the biggest thing I notice.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

"This is easy" Example: Teacher gives out homework that most people don't understand. That one obnoxious kid in the classroom says, "Wow, this is soo easy."
"Deal with it" Example: Your grandmother just died. You tell a friend. They say, "Deal with it."
"Life is unfair" ^ same as that example
"Told you" Everybody hates it when their little/older sibling says "TOLD YAAA"
"You're wrong: Example: You prefer Batman over Superman. You say, "Batman is awesome. I like him better than Superman." Person says, "You're wrong. Superman is better." or there is just that stuck-up person who thinks their better than everybody else.
"That's gross: Example: That one girly-girl who freaks out over anything.

[Unit1]

[That one obnoxious kid in the classroom says, "Wow, this is soo easy."] - Been there, done that. Plebs, that's all. Not my friends. I deal with it :> (btw I'm the best in my group)

["Deal with it" Example: Your grandmother just died. You tell a friend. They say, "Deal with it."] Lmao, you just brought up the worst example. This is not when you say deal with it. I say deal with it if someone has got a problem with me personally -_-

["Life is unfair" ^ same as that example] There is nothing relevant.

["Told you" Everybody hates it when their little/older sibling says "TOLD YAAA"] But it's funny :) at least for me, regardless who say's it.

["You're wrong: Example: You prefer Batman over Superman. You say, "Batman is awesome. I like him better than Superman." Person says, "You're wrong. Superman is better." or there is just that stuck-up person who thinks their better than everybody else.] I also see nothing relevant here.

To be continued...

[Unit1]

["That's gross: Example: That one girly-girl who freaks out over anything. ] - I don't see anything gross here but only a psycho bitch?

Retry, agree or do something else you feel like ;)

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

What I meant was
Example: You like to dip your pizza in ranch dressing. That one girl/group of friends freaks out and screams across the whole cafeteria "EWW WHO THE F*CK EATS PIZZA WITH RANCH DRESSING?" It can be embarrassing.

[Unit1]

I'm no friends with freaks.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

They don't have to be your friends. They could just be sitting at your table, not minding their own business.

[Unit1]

Been there, done that. I do not communicate with such bio organic trash.

[BaileyisDarcy]

So in other words, be me when I was younger and get nowhere in life.

None of this is actually hurtful. If you tell someone to suck it up when they're in an actual bad situation, then you're just an idiot. But if they're just complaining about their makeup or how this guy/girl who they never had a chance with anyway is ignoring them, then they need that boot in the arse.

Life ISN'T fair, it's the easiest way of saying nothing can be done about it. It also makes you look like less of a dick in place of saying no can do.

You're crazy/psycho. I get told this on the daily, not once has it offended me.

Nobody likes you. I agree to never say this one, but come on. It's a bloody kinder insult. Anyone over five who uses this as an insult is just an idiot who can't think up new insults. They are not worth your time.

That's disgusting. How's this insulting? It's an opinion, not an insult. You're disgusting on the other hand is. Unless they're just saying that about the state of your home or showering habits. Then you gotta do some cleaning.

Told you so. Well i freaking did tell you so. It's actually offensive that you ask my advice then disregard it completely.

This is easy. It is easy. It's very easy. To hurt your feelings apparently. How is this hurtful?

You can't do it. Yeah, I try not to say this to people unless I've witnessed the absolute fail. Then I say it. But don't say it if you don't know.

You're wrong. If this is true, then it's not hurtful or an insult. It's truth. Get over it.

I don't care. Are you aware just how easy you can get your siblings to shut up by saying this? Seriously, it's like magic. They will yammer on and on for hours with you just yupping, and mhmming. Then you tell them you don't care and voila. They're quiet. It's a freaking miracle.
You don't say it if it's something they really care about though. You have to show your support if it's important to them. Even if you really don't care.

[Remonster]

I think people would be better off growing some skin rather than fussing over what gets them offended the most.

Yes, words hurt, of course they do. But it's still your own choice how you're going to respond to them. Some of these expressions are just dumb/insensitive I agree with that. I would word them differently.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

It depends on how you use them. Example, they are 2 ways "I don't care" can be used. Example 1: "Do you want vanilla ice cream or chocolate ice cream?" "Eh, I don't care." Example 2: "OMGG I'M GOING ON American IDOL! IT'S BEEN MY LIFE DREAM SINCE I WAS 2!!" "Stfu cuz nobody cares bich."

[Remonster]

Yeah that's a reasonable example. If the girl in example 2 would be so excited that she couldn't stop talking about it for days on end I'd definitely get annoyed, but I wouldn't call her out on it like that. People like to dream, I have no right to crush them.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Yeah. Don't be a Simon Cowell :P

Just kidding o-o

[Remonster]

Well, in those cases I kind of prefer the harsh yet honest opinion. If a girl can't sing then there usually is little hope for massive improvement. Many things can be learned over time, but having a great voice is simply part luck.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Yeah. Basically it's Cowell's way of saying, "I said no so you can go home and improve. Then you can come back and blow me away."

[Hannah591]

Somebody in high school said no-body liked me and it hit hard for a variety of reasons and I cried throughout that lesson. #SobStory

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Aw, I'm sorry that happend :(
Well, they are lying because you seem nice and I like you for that :)

[Hannah591]

I don't really care, no-one really likes her and I'm happy with my life, who I am and how many people like me. :P Thanks.

[RationalLioness]

I would agree unless if that's how you feel about that person. I don't care for a lot of people so I'm honest about it.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

If you like causing drama, that's your own problem.

[RationalLioness]

That has nothing to do with causing drama. It's called being honest. It's not hard to comprehend.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Okay, sorry, I misunderstood.

[Pink2000]

I say number 8 and number 1 a lot to my ex bestfriend because sometimes those things should be said especially when that person just want attention.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

"Life isn't fair" I can be used in appropriate situations, but not all.
"I don't care" Ex: "OMG I JUST GOT BUBBLE TEA!" "AND I DON'T GIVE A F***!" Ex2: "Which do you prefer best, bubble tea or Italian soda?" "Eh, I don't care."

[performerwannabe]

'Calm down'. Don't tell me to calm down, I'll throw a fucking fridge on your head.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Sorry, I did this quickly :P

[performerwannabe]

haha.. it's okay. you can create a second part. :)

[HexagonalZebra]

I'd want someone to call me Physco, sounds like a great band name.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

I meant in a mean way. But yeah, that could work.

[HexagonalZebra]

I was making fun of the typo lol

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

oh now i see it :P

[Mustachekitteh]

Nice take :) but sadly with some of them the truth does hurt when being honest. :(

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

I meant don't say these in a harsh, hurtful way. For example: you dip your pizza in ranch dip. Someone screams "OMIGOSH DISGUSTING EWWWW!!" It can be hurtful (mostly annoying). "Deal with it" If your grandmother died and you told a friend, don't you think it would be a bit rude if they said "Deal with it."

[Mustachekitteh]

That is true saying them like that can be very hurtful. :( Deal with it isn't rude if the person your saying it to is still being depressed or complaining about something none stop for months or years. It's good to express yourself but stopping everything in your life and just wallowing in self pity. That isn't healthy

[Luvme66]

Cool take... I have a bit id issues... so as always I end up saying I don't care and told you so...

I sometimes feel bad for myself

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

I sometimes find myself saying "Suck it up" when the other team loses and complains.

[Luvme66]

Well no one is perfect you know...☺

Suck it up lmao (jk)

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

:P Yup

[phanindra554plus]

Yeah, if we don't like them then we have to move on. Noneed say them and be a ride one.😱
Good take😊

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

True & ty

[fenixx0083]

The pics accompanying 2 & 9 are ducking awesome 😄😄😆

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Ha, thank you :P

[Remonster]

Quack!

[fenixx0083]

Potato!

[fenixx0083]

Err...@remonster

[fenixx0083]

@remonster

[Outofthegrey]

So never call anyone out for their shit, tell them that they improve, are being immature or childish, or push them to be a better person?

Got it.

[MarianneAusten]

This is all common sense but I say these things anyway because I really don't care. 😄

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Ah, but one day you will learn that you should of not. I made this take for future advantages. It is possible that you could lose a job or a friend to these phrases.

[YourFutureEx]

I can't live without saying these words.

in my opinion the only thing which should not be said is "I'm sorry"

[kaminalove]

Why not "I'm sorry?" :/

[YourFutureEx]

@kaminalove - My perspective was indirect. I meant don't make such mistakes/circumstances which will make you to feel/say sorry. :)

[kaminalove]

Aaah, thanks for clarifying 😄

[YourFutureEx]

@kaminalove - You are welcomed and always :)

[Anonymous]

I should never tell someone that they're wrong? Is everyone so weak minded that I have to avoid conflicting with even the most asinine opinions to prevent their emotional collapse? No, you're wrong, can't handle that? Deal with it because I don't care.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

"You're wrong" can be used in many ways. I meant in a situation like this: "I prefer dogs over cats." "NO YOU'RE WRONGGGGG!!! CATS ARE BETTERRR!!"

[Opinion Owner]

So you're preaching common sense for common phrases... You chose a pretty bad title then...

[HollywoodGlam]

Sadly, people will always say stuff like that, regardless.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Of course. But I made this for future advantages. Phrases like these can actually cause you to lose your job.
Example: Boss: "My wife just died so I will not be at work for a while." You: "Suck it up."

[abundantlyrich]

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[abundantlyrich]

Bipolar. Never dared to say it in their faces.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Same here. Allie & Whitney. Damn, I hate them so much. But arguing wouldn't make it any better.

[SurströmmingLover]

You forgot the: You gained weight...

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Sorry about that

[mithramitzmittu]

Number 6 tho XD XD XD

[Anonymous]

Nonsense. Those things can be said.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

They can be said; but should they be said?

[Opinion Owner]

Having a Drill Sergeant tell me to suck it up made me a better person as I accomplished more in life with that simple mentality than if I didn't have it and just bemoaned my situation. "Suck it up" is kind of like our family motto and my kids have gone on to great things and are quite happy.

[rAiNbOwTeRdZ]

Well, they are a Drill Sergeant. But for example: Your sister died. You tell your best friend and they respond "Suck it up." They had no right to.

[Opinion Owner]

You are right. There is a time when it certainly isn't appropriate.