@MovieGuy ""Why do people think ugly women have it harder than ugly men do when it comes to getting a date or romantic partner?""
If you take shy people, then yes, shy/ugly girls have it harder than shy/ugly guys.
People who claim guys have it easier even if they're ugly, are looking at confident ugly guys, but ignoring confident ugly girls. Truth is, if an ugly/confident guy asks out 100 women, and a confident/ugly girl asks out a 100 guys, she'll get more YES-es by far...
When we are younger women have it A LOT easier (the average young woman has it a lot easier than the average young guy)... With age however, the power shifts. With age guys get the power and life gets easier with time. Any comparison you'll see about how "men have it easy" uses old-rich guys and compares them to house-wifes... ignoring those same women had all the power over those same guys 20 years earlier.
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Yeah my cousins partner laughed at a guy whose dick got cut off and said he must of done something bad for her to do that. But soon as a man is accused of something he is guilty and a monster straight away both sexes have things that the other sex can't understand we are different oh and also they did a study where they placed dolls in a room and trucks in a room on children who hadn't been taught "gender rolls" and guess what the majority of the time boys went to the cars and girls went to the dolls. In my family both my parents worked while raising my brother and i so this woman were always forced to stay at home is b. s. most friends I had both parents worked. I think going to war is a lot harder then raising children same with working on an oil rig or on a fishing boat. Why is everything a competition? We are living in a time when woman have just as many rights as men if not more. Stop with the identity politics it's not helping at all just creating more division.
Guys have it harder, because the guy has to pursue the girl, take the initiative, make all the moves, ask her out, in order to start a date and relationship, the girl just has to approve of the date and relationship. Also us guys have to work harder, meaning that we have to have a job in order to make a living, having our own apartment or house, because girls will be reluctant to date a guy who is unemployed and still lives with his parents, depending on his age, mainly 25 and older.
Having been both a man and woman, I can say that women have it harder.
Just joking. I've always been a woman. All I know is that I'd rather have an embarrassing erection than be vomiting, immobile, and wanting to die once a month.
What I find funny about this inquiry is that every answer that says women have it harder is downvoted. Every response that agrees men have it harder gets an upvote. Lol
This question appeals to those who want others to feel sorry for them.
In other words, definitely not men. Just little boys.
You can downvote the truth if you want. It won't change who you are at the end of the day and you'll always be wrong.
1: Women have the choice to go through childbirth. 2: Like he said, It is a blessing not a disadvantage. and 3: Yeah sure it's a pain in the ass, not literally, but the thing is its only PHYSICAL PAIN. It goes away after awhile. But if it where about physical pain and mental pain, I'd definitely say that it's harder for men.
You wanna know why? Because men experience more mental pain than women during their women's labor. Even though women are fine after some time AFTER childbirth, MEN ARE STILL HURT BY WHAT THEY SAW THAT DAY IN THE HOSPITAL. WE CANNOT UN-SEE WHAT WE SAW.
Obviously everyone gender thinks its harder to be the opposite gender because they know what it's like to be their selves. It is both hard to be a woman and a man. But you don't know which one is harder until you have lived the experience. And since that is impossible people think that their gender is the right gender. Continue on next comment...
I don't see any women lining up to have their legs blown off in Iraq and spend the rest of their lives in a wheelchair. I didn't see any women jump out of the lifeboats and offer their seat to a man. I have never heard of a woman standing outside of a cabin while the husband and children hide inside. I don't see any women in the mines, or oil fields doing the dangerous work. I could go on typing for 5 hours...
If you're going to bring this issue up, leave the Bible out of it. If you actually read the passages in context, you will find no place in the Bible where men are referred to as superior to women.
That is because for a man to sleep with many partners he needs to have; -Attractive physically (rare genetics) -High income -Smooth talking -Great hygine -Confident -Dress smart And even with these things there's still a high chance of rejection. What women need to sleep with many partners; -Have a pussy And thats it, she will still get rejected by a few men but out of 100 would get aleast 60 while the guys would be lucky to have 1.
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@MovieGuy ""Why do people think ugly women have it harder than ugly men do when it comes to getting a date or romantic partner?""
If you take shy people, then yes, shy/ugly girls have it harder than shy/ugly guys.
People who claim guys have it easier even if they're ugly, are looking at confident ugly guys, but ignoring confident ugly girls. Truth is, if an ugly/confident guy asks out 100 women, and a confident/ugly girl asks out a 100 guys, she'll get more YES-es by far...
Two things to add.
1) Are we talking about average or high-status?
2) What age?
When we are younger women have it A LOT easier (the average young woman has it a lot easier than the average young guy)... With age however, the power shifts. With age guys get the power and life gets easier with time. Any comparison you'll see about how "men have it easy" uses old-rich guys and compares them to house-wifes... ignoring those same women had all the power over those same guys 20 years earlier.
Yeah my cousins partner laughed at a guy whose dick got cut off and said he must of done something bad for her to do that. But soon as a man is accused of something he is guilty and a monster straight away both sexes have things that the other sex can't understand we are different oh and also they did a study where they placed dolls in a room and trucks in a room on children who hadn't been taught "gender rolls" and guess what the majority of the time boys went to the cars and girls went to the dolls. In my family both my parents worked while raising my brother and i so this woman were always forced to stay at home is b. s. most friends I had both parents worked. I think going to war is a lot harder then raising children same with working on an oil rig or on a fishing boat. Why is everything a competition? We are living in a time when woman have just as many rights as men if not more. Stop with the identity politics it's not helping at all just creating more division.
Guys have it harder, because the guy has to pursue the girl, take the initiative, make all the moves, ask her out, in order to start a date and relationship, the girl just has to approve of the date and relationship. Also us guys have to work harder, meaning that we have to have a job in order to make a living, having our own apartment or house, because girls will be reluctant to date a guy who is unemployed and still lives with his parents, depending on his age, mainly 25 and older.
Having been both a man and woman, I can say that women have it harder.
Just joking. I've always been a woman. All I know is that I'd rather have an embarrassing erection than be vomiting, immobile, and wanting to die once a month.
So, in conclusion, men generally have a more difficult time in relationships, wheras women have a tougher time in everything else.
Sounds about right!
What I find funny about this inquiry is that every answer that says women have it harder is downvoted. Every response that agrees men have it harder gets an upvote. Lol
This question appeals to those who want others to feel sorry for them.
In other words, definitely not men. Just little boys.
You can downvote the truth if you want. It won't change who you are at the end of the day and you'll always be wrong.
@Maddygirl: I covered that in my "Double Standards" article. link
1: Women have the choice to go through childbirth.
2: Like he said, It is a blessing not a disadvantage.
and 3: Yeah sure it's a pain in the ass, not literally, but the thing is its only PHYSICAL PAIN. It goes away after awhile.
But if it where about physical pain and mental pain, I'd definitely say that it's harder for men.
You wanna know why? Because men experience more mental pain than women during their women's labor. Even though women are fine after some time AFTER childbirth, MEN ARE STILL HURT BY WHAT THEY SAW THAT DAY IN THE HOSPITAL. WE CANNOT UN-SEE WHAT WE SAW.
Obviously everyone gender thinks its harder to be the opposite gender because they know what it's like to be their selves. It is both hard to be a woman and a man. But you don't know which one is harder until you have lived the experience. And since that is impossible people think that their gender is the right gender. Continue on next comment...
I don't see any women lining up to have their legs blown off in Iraq and spend the rest of their lives in a wheelchair. I didn't see any women jump out of the lifeboats and offer their seat to a man. I have never heard of a woman standing outside of a cabin while the husband and children hide inside. I don't see any women in the mines, or oil fields doing the dangerous work. I could go on typing for 5 hours...
If you're going to bring this issue up, leave the Bible out of it. If you actually read the passages in context, you will find no place in the Bible where men are referred to as superior to women.
I agree with what555. I think it's difficult to just be human whether you are male or female.
You showed them! It needs to be the 1940s again when women were proper and not the harlots they are today
You forgot the double standard of how men who sleep around are players and kings but girls who do it are whores
That is because for a man to sleep with many partners he needs to have;
-Attractive physically (rare genetics)
-High income
-Smooth talking
-Great hygine
-Confident
-Dress smart
And even with these things there's still a high chance of rejection.
What women need to sleep with many partners;
-Have a pussy
And thats it, she will still get rejected by a few men but out of 100 would get aleast 60 while the guys would be lucky to have 1.
The toy thing is bull crap. You can throw a ball to a 4 year old boy and he'll kick it. A 4 year old girl will draw a face on it.
Because the expectations placed on women looks-wise are infinitely higher. If you try to deny that, you're completely deluding yourself.
Men deal with sexism and stereotypes as well, boohoo someone made a f***ing kitchen joke /wrists.
Wow, I can't believe you researched all of that. Very informative!