I agree with all those points. Especially with boobs, if anything personally I don't like huge saggy boobs. I tend to like small-medium ones the best, but really, as long as they aren't too big, I don't really care.
And you're right. The name-calling and shaming is retarded.
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What's the point of this article? Not saying this to be mean, but everything you believe trickles down from your most deeply held beliefs about life. If you're a materialistic asshole, you'll just be that way until your beliefs about the world change. If you actually are interested in things that aren't meaningless, as things like lust, hedonistic desire etc. inherently are meaningless, than your life will play out accordingly. It's like beating your head against the wall to write a piece like this. Either learn the root causes or don't, but don't expect things to change when you don't understand where the problems come from.
The point of this article is to share the way I think about this popular subject. To try and help insecure girls and to try to make people see how dumb the things are that they are saying. And what is this root cause what you are talking about, according to you?
Shaming others will either be a wake up call for some and motivation for others.
Rarely happens for a person to wake up one day and say " TODAY , I WILL LIFT! " They need a spark, even if it burns at first, It'll continue burning or it will die out.
Continue shaming them guys, I got your back ! Make the future look better ! ;p
there would be no body shaming if we were all comfortable in our own skin
women and men have to stop giving body shaming meaning
stop feeling shame for your body
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lloooooool!!! this was actually really funny! ' hate it when people say things like this, it is hurtful too, just like it would be hurtful to call someone 'fat'. Please stop with this nonsense. 'Guys don't like toothpicks'. STOP objectifying women like this. ' seriously? these feminists really dont know what they want
1. Nowadays when people say curvy they mean something most people I know would call fat. 2. Meh, this is something women say, no man ever said that and it's more offending to men than to women. 3. Well, I don't really care too much about breast size, but I still disagree with what you have written.
Technically, you are right about that "feminine because she is a female", but as we use the terms feminine and masculine to describe how much someone fits one's ideal image of a female or male, and you have to admit, a girl with a completely flat chest looks less like our image of a female than a girl with breasts. I am not saying though that they have to be big, as I said, it's not too important to me what size it is, it just has to be something for most people.
Okay, thanks for explaining! I disagree though, brcause feminine doesn't have to be about your body. (Even if it is, small breasts can look very feminine too in a more delicate way). Feminine is how you act, just as masculine doesn't necessarily mean muscles.
I completely agree that feminine and masculine is not only about looks, but when you don't know someone it's usually just the looks you see. And I am sorry if I wasn't clear enough, I don't think small breasts don't look feminine or less feminine, I was talking about really no breats at all.
There are other ways to describe it. The father of my best friend said "What do I want with a woman where I can catch myself a (bone) splinter during sex?"
Lol I thought about adding it wasn't my intention to insult anyone with the pictures. I was using it to illustrate how people describe curvy nowadays and I don't really agree with any of the pictures I used :p
I hate it when people call me like that, I'm skinny, I've got only 5% bodyfat, I don't care if girls don't like me that' s who I am I can't help it. <3
Well written, I like curvy slim girls so it is strange if that's considered fat which it's not , as far as breast size goes it's what ever is proportiate for their body that I like, not to small but not to big. The woman in the last picture is that.
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I think that a population consisting of people who get emotionally destroyed if someone calls them 'fat' or 'skinny' is not going anywhere. You think the pioneers that colonized America even thought about such nonsense? People seriously need to get their shit together.
In other places and times, being fat was a sign of success. Only rich people were fat. In Soviet America, everything is backwards now: All the rich people want to be skinny as though they were poor, and the poor people can't afford to be anything but fat.
Yesss! I. Loved. This. Finally someone who hasn't lost their dignity yet. I hope this opens girls' eyes to not care that much about how guys want them to look like. You go girl! <3
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I agree with all those points. Especially with boobs, if anything personally I don't like huge saggy boobs. I tend to like small-medium ones the best, but really, as long as they aren't too big, I don't really care.
And you're right. The name-calling and shaming is retarded.
What's the point of this article? Not saying this to be mean, but everything you believe trickles down from your most deeply held beliefs about life. If you're a materialistic asshole, you'll just be that way until your beliefs about the world change. If you actually are interested in things that aren't meaningless, as things like lust, hedonistic desire etc. inherently are meaningless, than your life will play out accordingly. It's like beating your head against the wall to write a piece like this. Either learn the root causes or don't, but don't expect things to change when you don't understand where the problems come from.
The point of this article is to share the way I think about this popular subject. To try and help insecure girls and to try to make people see how dumb the things are that they are saying. And what is this root cause what you are talking about, according to you?
Ok one word for you
" AWESOME " 😊👌
And I really loved the way you think your really a sweetheart 💐
Aww thanks for the sweet comment :)
Haha my pleasure 😊
Will you marry me?
(I'm a pushover for intelligent women)
she's 16.
Unless you live in Irak, and have a lots of goats in exchange of her, wait 2 more years
Thank you Jim :) I like older men hahaha ;) lol, you made me laugh @Ensiferum
@Ensiferum
Lol
It's like pizza. Some like it deep dish, some like it very thin. And everyone likes their owe kind of toppings.
Exactly! I just love pizza lol
And some don't like pizza at all haha ;)
Does this make gay men calzones in this analogy? Hmm...
Lol @Kalibie i like your reasoning
Shaming others will either be a wake up call for some and motivation for others.
Rarely happens for a person to wake up one day and say " TODAY , I WILL LIFT! "
They need a spark, even if it burns at first, It'll continue burning or it will die out.
Continue shaming them guys, I got your back !
Make the future look better ! ;p
there would be no body shaming if we were all comfortable in our own skin
women and men have to stop giving body shaming meaning
stop feeling shame for your body
lloooooool!!!
this was actually really funny!
' hate it when people say things like this, it is hurtful too, just like it would be hurtful to call someone 'fat'. Please stop with this nonsense. 'Guys don't like toothpicks'. STOP objectifying women like this. ' seriously?
these feminists really dont know what they want
1. Nowadays when people say curvy they mean something most people I know would call fat.
2. Meh, this is something women say, no man ever said that and it's more offending to men than to women.
3. Well, I don't really care too much about breast size, but I still disagree with what you have written.
Yeah I noticed that girls are the ones saying what guys like. Would you mind elaborating on point 3?
Technically, you are right about that "feminine because she is a female", but as we use the terms feminine and masculine to describe how much someone fits one's ideal image of a female or male, and you have to admit, a girl with a completely flat chest looks less like our image of a female than a girl with breasts. I am not saying though that they have to be big, as I said, it's not too important to me what size it is, it just has to be something for most people.
Okay, thanks for explaining! I disagree though, brcause feminine doesn't have to be about your body. (Even if it is, small breasts can look very feminine too in a more delicate way). Feminine is how you act, just as masculine doesn't necessarily mean muscles.
I completely agree that feminine and masculine is not only about looks, but when you don't know someone it's usually just the looks you see. And I am sorry if I wasn't clear enough, I don't think small breasts don't look feminine or less feminine, I was talking about really no breats at all.
That is true :)
"Bones are for dogs, men like meat" -- The most derogatory comment I ever heard about girls.
Nice take by the way.
Thank you :) I know, it is so harsh.
There are other ways to describe it. The father of my best friend said "What do I want with a woman where I can catch myself a (bone) splinter during sex?"
Yeah, that is just his personal taste so that's fine. This just shames women.
Is the first picture not body shaming xD?
https://i.imgur.com/HurrjOo.gif
Lol I thought about adding it wasn't my intention to insult anyone with the pictures. I was using it to illustrate how people describe curvy nowadays and I don't really agree with any of the pictures I used :p
2. THAT'S SO FUCKING TRUE i'm with you!!! <3
I hate it when people call me like that, I'm skinny, I've got only 5% bodyfat, I don't care if girls don't like me that' s who I am I can't help it. <3
That's odd, I'm pretty skinny, but I've never had people 'call' me skinny as some sort of insult, nor would I really mind if they did. It's true :P
Be yourself :) keep up the confidence, that's great! I want to do another take just for guys because I didn't include them here.
Well written, I like curvy slim girls so it is strange if that's considered fat which it's not , as far as breast size goes it's what ever is proportiate for their body that I like, not to small but not to big. The woman in the last picture is that.
I think that a population consisting of people who get emotionally destroyed if someone calls them 'fat' or 'skinny' is not going anywhere. You think the pioneers that colonized America even thought about such nonsense? People seriously need to get their shit together.
#firstworldproblems
In other places and times, being fat was a sign of success. Only rich people were fat. In Soviet America, everything is backwards now: All the rich people want to be skinny as though they were poor, and the poor people can't afford to be anything but fat.
Yesss! I. Loved. This. Finally someone who hasn't lost their dignity yet.
I hope this opens girls' eyes to not care that much about how guys want them to look like.
You go girl! <3
Yeah!
U said everything no need to add anything and u r right , i love it :)
trying to tell people how to use their language is worse than any kind of language that can ever be said
Pretty much if you have a nice face, your body is probably nice enough too.
Wouldn't say... in my case I dont think so
@FinnishBeautyGirl I wouldn't reject/not wanna date a girl with a pretty face JUST because she doesn't have nice boobs or a nice butt.
'Kay, propably its just me
Well written girl ! 😊
Thank you!
Welcome. 😊
this whole article revolves around "body shaming."
speaking of hypocrisy