I don't have a strong racial preference but I really like redheads, dark skinned girls with freckles, tomboyish Asian girls, blonds with dark eyes, middle-eastern women with blue eyes. So there are some (mostly physical) preferences thatare partly depending on race. But there is no race in particular that I like more than any other, besides, these are just a few indications since every girl has her own uniqie feature I could possibly like a lot. A beautiful girl is a beautiful girl.
Okay, so your racial definition list at the beginning was very incorrect:
Caucasians = Middle Easterners, Europeans, and Indians.
Mongoloids = People from Siberia through Indonesia.
Negroids = People from Sub-Saharan western and southern Africa.
These aren't the only three racial groups, and none of the races mentioned within are "pure". For example, both India and Europe had their own unrelated indigenous hunter-gatherer populations ~30,000 years ago, but a common group of ancestors invaded both regions of the world, which is why Indians and Europeans (and Middle Easterners) have genetic affinities.
As for the media's role in shaping preferences, it's fairly important, I agree. But it's even more important in shaping the preferences of women, because women are more susceptible to social imitation than men are.
I prefer Whites, Latinas, Pacific Islanders and Arabs most, Indians and Blacks least. Native Americans and Asians are in the middle. Never met an Aboriginal woman. Those are my preferences but I could date someone of any race if I thought they were appealing.
"Australian aboregenes" lol. It's time to allow spell check for the main body of text G@G.
By the way calling them aborigines is politically incorrect. You have to say Australian aboriginal people. Saying aborigine is almost like using the N word to them.
My preference is for white women. I just find the variety in their features very attractive compared with Asians for example who are stereotyped as all looking the same. And that stereotype isn't there for no reason to be fair.
I grew up in a city with the majority being white. However, I've always been more attracted toward South Pacific Asian women since I can remember. It's possibly due to my extreme fondness of anime, and pretty much watching only anime throughout my childhood. Which could explain why I'm now married to a Filipino girl.
The complications of racial exclusiveness is confusing though, which is why I also dislike getting into this. Someone that is racially exclusive could have the same mindset for your example of having a preference. I've seen people in here put out certain races because they want to be limited to their preferences while others do it because they see those races as inferior (even if they don't say it, I can tell) by stating exscuses or insults.
@RainbowFanGirl I think it depends, I used to be racially exclusive but I saw that more as me having a preference and limiting myself to that, I didn't see any other races as inferior. I think that mindset isn't bad but it's good to try be open minded at least. There are different scenarios.
S1: A white male only dates Asian women solely for the 'fact' that they are docile, well mannerd, and dont talk back. This would be considerd festishization. The same goes in reverse with girls who only date Asian guys because of their expectations.
S2: A black man will date any race but black women, he belives in sterotypes about them, and treats them lower than other women because of his 'preference' . this is considerd racism.
S3: I saw this on reddit about not dating black and Asian women, one guy mentioned that races have a scent, and that black women have a scent that is pungent to him, he also used another word to describe our facial features which was repungent I think :/
There was also this guy on g@g that tried to justify his exclusiveness for Asian women by saying that black, white, and Asian women have different mentalities such as blacks being prone to violence and asians/white being prone to being civilized. This was obviously racist, but basically what I'm trying to say is that the mindset usually determines that, why do they only date one race?, how do they feel about their own race? Etc
I agree except with number 3. I don't believe we're attracted to people who have similar characteristics to who we grew up and around.
What a lot of people don't understand is number 1: they're afraid of being called a race traitor or being demeaned for being interested in another race or not interested at all.
I completely agree with you. Right now I like someone who is completely different from me in looks and cultural background. I would say as I've gotten older number 3 has proven to be wrong.
I don't like black woman at all. Mostly because of how they carry them self So unattractive their attitude is to much for me. K sknt like having them around me to hand out.
I like white women and native American woman. I love a cute latina and Asian girl I find most of them cute more than sexy. No no Indian girls either their cutlrw is to much for me.
But yeah no black woman I only I like 2% percent of black woman. My family and a light skined mixed girl. But even then it would only be sex.
You do realize that you essentially generalized about a whole race of women. Not all black women have the stereotypical attitudes that happen to be portrayed in the media.
Ehh I wouldn't be attracted to a black person regardless of their personality therefore I wouldn't date them...
You say it's okay to have a preference but say you're racist if you exclusivly want to date within that race. Why is it bad to focus on something you know you like?
@Ravencoffey I am attracted to Asian womenwomen. I know what I like, so I will keep persuing Asian women. I'm attracted to lots of things about them. I like certain facial features. I like learning about Asian cultures (mostly because I was always fascinated by my grandmothers collection of ancient Asian art)
Plus I especially think the Chinese, Japanese, and Korean languages are beautiful languages. Not that that is a reason I would like someone.
Mostly because I'm physically attracted to them... Sue me.
Unfortunately, I think I do; however there have been times where I've surprised myself in the girls I've dated and/or been with. In the end what I want in a girl and whatever her ethnic background isn't anyone else's business than mine. Good take though, I saw the BuzzFeed video when it had came out.
@DancingGirl - My preference would be the slim/fit (body type) with tattoos, crappy childhoods, book smart, creative and deep thinkers, music loving hippy white girls hahaha my last exgf was all that. The new girl I'm into she's also that minus the tattoos though. These are also all 3 of my LTRs, all my STR were with all bi/tri/quad/multiple-racial girls. This is just the kind of girls I am into, I would not of seriously thought about it until my boy had told me this.
@DancingGirl - The idea of alternative beauty that had came up with the whole Suicide Girl era in the early 2000's just intrigued the shit outta me and since joining the military I've got some too. It's like the body is but a book where in the mind is all the memories/stories but the tattoos give pictures to those memories/stories.
I'm a latina and have only been in a love relationship with latino men. Sexually however I feel a much stronger attraction toward white men. So everytime I had a casual fuck, it was with a white man. And I know it sounds bad but I'm going to admit it: I get turned on by their wealth or status, mainly just the thought of it, since I don't plan to get an actual relationship with them. Maybe that and their race are connected? I don't know really. Sexual preferences are weird with many people...
I have a preference fot beautiful, sexy, adorable women with a gentle witty personality not matter what race. No one ever says that when you settle down with a person of any race does that mean thats your racial prefrence? Or how about bisexuals when the settle down with a particular gender does that nean they're are gay or straight for life?
I really have no racial preference, there are plenty of women I find attractive in every race... however, I tend to avoid those Purple People Eaters. I don't wanna drink from the same fountain or eat in the same restaurant as them. Yuck!
I mean, how can anybody be attracted to a Purple People Eater? They're purple and they eat people! KEEP 'EM AWAY! Keep 'em away!
I am a 19 year old black female. I read through the first few comments from the guys... its sad to see what some said about black women. I respect it is in a persons preference but i grew up getting made fun of because im dark skinned. Im not even like super dark. I grew up experiencing that you had to have light slin to be pretty. but i do know that this impacted me a lot and made me feel ugly and unwanted. Its sad.
Um... most of my friends of white, Asian, latino, and black men have hots for black girls. Im Spanish indian chinese filipino mix. Had ex gfs from Russia well 2 of them, pale as snow. But i can't stop drooling over black girls. I'll stop now.
I'm sorry you had to experience that in the past. Hopefully it's changed for you, and you're being treated more fairly now. You're not ugly, because you're black. I've met many beautiful black women, and dated one a while back. Every race has their own sense of beauty, and people just need to find it. You might have a racial preference, but you should definitely have an open mind about other races as well.
Please never feel that you're unwanted, because you're black. It's only those who are selfish, and ignorant. That make fun of someone for the color of the skin. It has everything to do with them, and not with you. :)
I've never been with an Asian girl but I have been with all the others so too complete my list I must find an Asian girl ladies help me complete my goal spread the word far and wide
I'm Indian and I mostly find the Mediterranean/Middle Eastern looking type of men to be the most attractive.
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I'm Caucasian person, Caucasian mix with anatolian + arabic ( levanten) + Greek. Honestly I always felt attracted to people in my own and more into to them. Like mostly Mediterranean people first and then other Caucosid people. And Asians were the last in my list all the time. I don't know I never feel attracted to them sorry.
We bleed the same color. and shed the same tears, people fail to realize that. Granted they are some pedos and morons who dont deserve the time of day (and those in that "ethnic" classification or demographic destroys it for others) but everyone is an individual and it is with the company you keep.
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I don't have a strong racial preference but I really like redheads, dark skinned girls with freckles, tomboyish Asian girls, blonds with dark eyes, middle-eastern women with blue eyes. So there are some (mostly physical) preferences thatare partly depending on race. But there is no race in particular that I like more than any other, besides, these are just a few indications since every girl has her own uniqie feature I could possibly like a lot. A beautiful girl is a beautiful girl.
Okay, so your racial definition list at the beginning was very incorrect:
Caucasians = Middle Easterners, Europeans, and Indians.
Mongoloids = People from Siberia through Indonesia.
Negroids = People from Sub-Saharan western and southern Africa.
These aren't the only three racial groups, and none of the races mentioned within are "pure". For example, both India and Europe had their own unrelated indigenous hunter-gatherer populations ~30,000 years ago, but a common group of ancestors invaded both regions of the world, which is why Indians and Europeans (and Middle Easterners) have genetic affinities.
As for the media's role in shaping preferences, it's fairly important, I agree. But it's even more important in shaping the preferences of women, because women are more susceptible to social imitation than men are.
I prefer Whites, Latinas, Pacific Islanders and Arabs most, Indians and Blacks least. Native Americans and Asians are in the middle. Never met an Aboriginal woman. Those are my preferences but I could date someone of any race if I thought they were appealing.
"Australian aboregenes" lol. It's time to allow spell check for the main body of text G@G.
By the way calling them aborigines is politically incorrect. You have to say Australian aboriginal people. Saying aborigine is almost like using the N word to them.
My preference is for white women. I just find the variety in their features very attractive compared with Asians for example who are stereotyped as all looking the same. And that stereotype isn't there for no reason to be fair.
Ah yes, it's said aborigenes in French and I mixed it up with English.
I grew up in a city with the majority being white. However, I've always been more attracted toward South Pacific Asian women since I can remember. It's possibly due to my extreme fondness of anime, and pretty much watching only anime throughout my childhood. Which could explain why I'm now married to a Filipino girl.
The complications of racial exclusiveness is confusing though, which is why I also dislike getting into this. Someone that is racially exclusive could have the same mindset for your example of having a preference. I've seen people in here put out certain races because they want to be limited to their preferences while others do it because they see those races as inferior (even if they don't say it, I can tell) by stating exscuses or insults.
Can being racially exclusive be seen as racism? I've seen people talking about this.
@RainbowFanGirl
I think it depends, I used to be racially exclusive but I saw that more as me having a preference and limiting myself to that, I didn't see any other races as inferior. I think that mindset isn't bad but it's good to try be open minded at least. There are different scenarios.
S1: A white male only dates Asian women solely for the 'fact' that they are docile, well mannerd, and dont talk back. This would be considerd festishization. The same goes in reverse with girls who only date Asian guys because of their expectations.
S2: A black man will date any race but black women, he belives in sterotypes about them, and treats them lower than other women because of his 'preference' . this is considerd racism.
S3: I saw this on reddit about not dating black and Asian women, one guy mentioned that races have a scent, and that black women have a scent that is pungent to him, he also used another word to describe our facial features which was repungent I think :/
There was also this guy on g@g that tried to justify his exclusiveness for Asian women by saying that black, white, and Asian women have different mentalities such as blacks being prone to violence and asians/white being prone to being civilized. This was obviously racist, but basically what I'm trying to say is that the mindset usually determines that, why do they only date one race?, how do they feel about their own race? Etc
Wow that's crazy :/
I agree except with number 3. I don't believe we're attracted to people who have similar characteristics to who we grew up and around.
What a lot of people don't understand is number 1: they're afraid of being called a race traitor or being demeaned for being interested in another race or not interested at all.
I completely agree with you. Right now I like someone who is completely different from me in looks and cultural background. I would say as I've gotten older number 3 has proven to be wrong.
I don't like black woman at all. Mostly because of how they carry them self
So unattractive their attitude is to much for me. K sknt like having them around me to hand out.
I like white women and native American woman. I love a cute latina and Asian girl I find most of them cute more than sexy. No no Indian girls either their cutlrw is to much for me.
But yeah no black woman I only I like 2% percent of black woman. My family and a light skined mixed girl. But even then it would only be sex.
You do realize that you essentially generalized about a whole race of women. Not all black women have the stereotypical attitudes that happen to be portrayed in the media.
You have a lot of mental maturing to do.
It not portrayed in the media it's what I seen with my own eyes and what I have dealt with own experience.
Also the media barely shows black woman in the first place unless bet or house wifes. Or maybe a guest aplerance or a random show.
Any ways u are right I am generalizing. you need to grow up and learn one bad apple spoils the bunch.
And you just proved my point by your anger
Hold this L
Ehh I wouldn't be attracted to a black person regardless of their personality therefore I wouldn't date them...
You say it's okay to have a preference but say you're racist if you exclusivly want to date within that race. Why is it bad to focus on something you know you like?
throw stuff aside and try different races of women trust me you learn a lot
@skeptic007 yeah you can learn a lot. Altough I'm not interested in dating them if I'm not attracted to them
By your own definition, you're a racist. At least you can admit it.
@BangBadBxtches I have no problem with other races... Just because I'm not attracted to them doesn't make me a racist. -.-lll
It's funny you think black people are racist for finding white women attractive and not black people...
But SIMPLY because I am WHITE and have a preference suddenly makes me a racist.
And it's no different then going to Japan or some other area and being immeresed in a different race.
Most Japanese people only date other Japanese people. That doesn't make them racist.
I'm simply not attracted to Africans, Europeans, and Latinos.
So what do you like?
@Ravencoffey I am attracted to Asian womenwomen. I know what I like, so I will keep persuing Asian women.
I'm attracted to lots of things about them. I like certain facial features. I like learning about Asian cultures (mostly because I was always fascinated by my grandmothers collection of ancient Asian art)
Plus I especially think the Chinese, Japanese, and Korean languages are beautiful languages. Not that that is a reason I would like someone.
Mostly because I'm physically attracted to them... Sue me.
Unfortunately, I think I do; however there have been times where I've surprised myself in the girls I've dated and/or been with. In the end what I want in a girl and whatever her ethnic background isn't anyone else's business than mine. Good take though, I saw the BuzzFeed video when it had came out.
So what is your preference?
@DancingGirl - My preference would be the slim/fit (body type) with tattoos, crappy childhoods, book smart, creative and deep thinkers, music loving hippy white girls hahaha my last exgf was all that. The new girl I'm into she's also that minus the tattoos though. These are also all 3 of my LTRs, all my STR were with all bi/tri/quad/multiple-racial girls. This is just the kind of girls I am into, I would not of seriously thought about it until my boy had told me this.
What is it with tattoos?
@DancingGirl - The idea of alternative beauty that had came up with the whole Suicide Girl era in the early 2000's just intrigued the shit outta me and since joining the military I've got some too. It's like the body is but a book where in the mind is all the memories/stories but the tattoos give pictures to those memories/stories.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder;
that which one person finds beautiful or admirable may not appeal to another.
Very true!
YES. Of course I have a racial preference:
I prefer humans.
Exactly what I talked about in the first paragraph. I highly disliked those type of questions, which is why I answered them in this take.
Jaquesvol, I was gonna say the same
The green dancing girls in Star Trek...
@Bluemax Those girls from Orion? Really? :-o
I'm a latina and have only been in a love relationship with latino men. Sexually however I feel a much stronger attraction toward white men. So everytime I had a casual fuck, it was with a white man. And I know it sounds bad but I'm going to admit it: I get turned on by their wealth or status, mainly just the thought of it, since I don't plan to get an actual relationship with them. Maybe that and their race are connected? I don't know really. Sexual preferences are weird with many people...
Have you ever tried dating an Asian or a black guy?
@Rick-Lewis No I have not
Then I'll take that your prejudice. But who isnt? What has Asians and blacks done for you not attracted to them?
I have a preference fot beautiful, sexy, adorable women with a gentle witty personality not matter what race. No one ever says that when you settle down with a person of any race does that mean thats your racial prefrence? Or how about bisexuals when the settle down with a particular gender does that nean they're are gay or straight for life?
I really have no racial preference, there are plenty of women I find attractive in every race... however, I tend to avoid those Purple People Eaters. I don't wanna drink from the same fountain or eat in the same restaurant as them. Yuck!
I mean, how can anybody be attracted to a Purple People Eater? They're purple and they eat people! KEEP 'EM AWAY! Keep 'em away!
I am a 19 year old black female. I read through the first few comments from the guys... its sad to see what some said about black women. I respect it is in a persons preference but i grew up getting made fun of because im dark skinned. Im not even like super dark. I grew up experiencing that you had to have light slin to be pretty. but i do know that this impacted me a lot and made me feel ugly and unwanted. Its sad.
Um... most of my friends of white, Asian, latino, and black men have hots for black girls. Im Spanish indian chinese filipino mix. Had ex gfs from Russia well 2 of them, pale as snow. But i can't stop drooling over black girls. I'll stop now.
I mean stop day dreaming sighs. Someday someday... :( tsk
I'm sorry you had to experience that in the past. Hopefully it's changed for you, and you're being treated more fairly now. You're not ugly, because you're black. I've met many beautiful black women, and dated one a while back. Every race has their own sense of beauty, and people just need to find it. You might have a racial preference, but you should definitely have an open mind about other races as well.
Please never feel that you're unwanted, because you're black. It's only those who are selfish, and ignorant. That make fun of someone for the color of the skin. It has everything to do with them, and not with you. :)
I've never been with an Asian girl but I have been with all the others so too complete my list I must find an Asian girl ladies help me complete my goal spread the word far and wide
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I'm Indian and I mostly find the Mediterranean/Middle Eastern looking type of men to be the most attractive.
I'm Caucasian person, Caucasian mix with anatolian + arabic ( levanten) + Greek. Honestly I always felt attracted to people in my own and more into to them. Like mostly Mediterranean people first and then other Caucosid people. And Asians were the last in my list all the time. I don't know I never feel attracted to them sorry.
We bleed the same color. and shed the same tears, people fail to realize that. Granted they are some pedos and morons who dont deserve the time of day (and those in that "ethnic" classification or demographic destroys it for others) but everyone is an individual and it is with the company you keep.