4 Ways to Overcome Shyness


Do you feel like invisible? Is it hard to start a conversation? Don't worry, it is quite common thing. You are not alone. The important thing is to recognize it. If you are aware of it then you can get rid of it!

Here are some easy ways for you:

1. Get rid of the negative thoughts
4 Ways to Overcome Shyness

"They will make fun of me."

"They don't care what i say."

These kind of thoughts will restrict you in every sense.

2. Relax

4 Ways to Overcome Shyness

Let's imagine that you have got a public speech today. You go to the room and after seeing the crowd you become nervous. Your face gets red, your hands shake and your body sweats. But why? Because of negative thoughts. Such a serious environment. It is up to you to change it. Let's get out of that serious environment. I can hear you saying "how?" . It is so simple.

Just think about something funny. Imagine all the audience in a funny dress. For example; imagine them wearing a red thong on their pants. It is not that serious anymore. You will get relax a little and have a perfect smile. Ready? If you are still not ready, have a deep breath and think about some good memories.

3. Love yourself

4 Ways to Overcome Shyness

The biggest reason behind shyness is lack of confidence. Just think about your talents. The things that you are good at. And remind them to yourself everyday.

4. Get professional help

4 Ways to Overcome Shyness

If your level of shyness is serious, it is better to have professional help. Because it will effect your physical and mental health by time.

4 Ways to Overcome Shyness
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  • freakyzeaky
    #2 is actually not always correct. Often times it isn't thoughts that cause shy people to freeze up. Most of the time the shy person draws a complete blank. It is almost like a physical symptom manifesting from a subconscious feeling. Fear is usually a feeling as well.

    You can monitor your feelings, just as you can watch and monitor your thoughts. That is a good start. However, it isn't good to try and judge or stop yourself from thinking or feeling a certain way. It is much better just to be mindful, put yourself in more uncomfortable situations, even if it is only a slightly uncomfortable one at first, and keep gradually pushing through.
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  • Anonymous
    shy people are sometimes so cute
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  • 1stranger
    Whaaaat? You stopped being shy😳? Babe are you sure?
    Why don't you meet me? Because you are shy. Am I wrong?🤔

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