Why It Is Almost Impossible for Arab Girls to Marry the One They Love (Page 2)
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I feel sorry for you. You should stay strong and focused and know your rights. I must add that you should have mentioned that all the evils stated above are a by product of the centuries old pathetic culture and patriarchy and lack of educationa and is infact very much contrary to the teachings of Islam.
yes yes i did,, i did mention it in my article.. also in my comments
Middle ground= tell your parents to grow the fuck up that they can accept your boyfriend or lose you as their daughter easy. My ex girlfriend left me because of her parents did nothing but cry didn't even care how hard it was on me. Now my current girlfriend told her parents to stfu accept me for me or she's moving out. And that was the last she heard of them about dumping me, yes they still take shots at me and talk shit but who cares.
the earth is flat get away from the traditions of the world
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A way to control women.. a case of do as I say or else.. God forbid a woman to have free thought
I sometimes suspect the reason why men hide away women in tent like clothes is to either mask the bruising or to hide t
if you choose to be a slave then you will be a slave. allowing others to choose your life for you is something women have been fighting against-successfully-throughout history. you either attempt to control your life or someone else will.
We have been pitting against each other... today's cultural norms are conditioned over the years... we're just born into it, whether we like it or not... and somehow have to deal with it. Opposing it usually creates friction
That really sucks.
But it is what is to be expected in the 3. th world countries and the practice of the islam. It's actually the very nature of religion to control lives.
Poor women!
I'm sorry i can imagine your struggle but obviously don't know what you're going through.. i hope you do manage whatever happens to be with someone who you at least care for and cares for you.
I cannot relate.
I am glad to have nice parents, who are traditional and has religious values.
did your father choose for you as well?
@Toad-1 I am not married yet. My father would not choose for me. I would tell him when I find someone suitable for me. If he finds someone for me, he would tell me, and I would give my consent if I agree, or I would refuse if I don't like the guy.
But in my family, my mom has more saying on this matter than my father.
I have said it before and i will say it again. arab countries about 300 years behind the rest of the world.
I'm in love with a catholic and I'm Arab Muslim and in the same boat.
it is going to be a very very hard road, trust me
He said he will convert for me , will it work?
Wow, I had no idea, thanks for explaining. Im from America
It's also impossible for a lot of guys to marry the one they love because women aren't attracted to them. Who knew.
Congrats on discovering that some people actually struggle in the dating world. What a huge revelation.
Thank you for posting this. I would never have guessed that dating wasn't super easy for every person in the world until you so wisely informed. What would we do without you anon?
Well at least he allows you to use social media something I suspect a lot of fathers from the region would not.
Not that I am justifying anything, but clearly your father is not completely closed off to change like some men in his position might be.
Perhaps he will eventually change.
It sounds like Arab countries and cultures are just as crappy as I imagined.
but islam says that you can't make your daughter marry a guy if she doesn't want to
Because they get acid thrown in their face or stabbed to death by a relative
@Omar5881 told me this
i think that as long as i use the general as my car insurance provider, ill be ok with her father
it is very rare to see girls dating western guys does it ever happen?