Yes, I am a Feminist and it Doesn't Mean I Don't Appreciate chivalry! (Page 2)
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Chivalry has got nothing to do with special treatment of pussies in the first place.
Chivalry- The methods of training and standards of behavior for knights in the Middle Ages.
In my humble opinion, it’s drastically unfair that men are required to hold up all the responsibility throughout the dating spectrum. Men have to pay, must always open doors, must always pick the women up and take them home, and whilst I think that’s lovely, surely we’re beyond that point now? It’s great when you’re dating someone who cares about you, so realistically, they would of course ensure you get home safe, and do things for you. But it should be because they want to, not because they feel somewhat obliged to.
men pay for dinner with money. ladies pay for dinner with sex. bitches pay for dinner with empty promises. yes pay for dinner. open the door for me. if i don't like you i won't lead you on. if i do like you i'll fuck your brains out. but don't be an asshole and never marry me.
@jennyPuss you only ''pay in sex'' if you really dont enjoy the sex. Women want sex like men do, unless you are a prostitute and have no genuine feelings and you see sex as a ''pay off' seriously, where are women like you in real life? almost any girl I have talked to admit that they like sex. if thats what you think sex is about, then you are just a prostitute
@imbored2252 i didn't say women shouldn't enjoy it. that's just our part. i want a guy to take care of me. and in turn i'll take care of him. that's not prostitution. it's a partnership. prostitution is where you sell the sex. it's merely an exchange of goods. the best partnerships are where both parties bring something to the table that the other doesn't have. it doesn't do much good for two women to partner who have a lot of money but no skills. but if one girl has money and the other knows how to do things- then you can have a business. marriage isn't just romance it's also a partnership. and i said a bitch is a girl who lets a guy keep taking her out and spending money on her but giving nothing back. do you disagree?
@jennyPuss your part? you see sex as a pay off or some ''part'' that you have worked off. you literally said you pay for dinner with sex. its like, ''ok you payed for dinner, now ill repay you'' thats exactly what that is. this is what makes a toxic relationship. you see sex as some material value (such as taking you out to eat) and not something that is a genuine feeling between you two so when you want to act spiteful, you hold if off until something is done in your favor as if a debt is being made and then both you and the guy get angry at eachother for the long term. This literally happens all the time. my question is, what happens if you guys aren't on a date, and you two just like eachother and have known eachother for a while? the way way this is coming off is that dinner is the way to have sex with you? Not trying to be mean.
@jennyPuss That's what prostitutes do. They give sex to people who pay for them.
@imbored2252 ummm no. if i'm not getting along with my man we're not having sex cause we're not getting along. not because i'm trying to manipulate him. i don't make demands on men so your reasoning breaks down there. it's not like 'ohhh you didn't give me money for shopping so i'm not in the mood' and then magically i'm in the mood when i get what i want. that's silly. i do other things to show my appreciation too like back rubs and making special meals. i just know what most guys like best and i'm okay with that. it's more like- this one time my boyfriend was under my car fixing something and watching him work and get his hands dirty just turned me on so much i unzipped his pants and sucked his dick right there. and then i made a little game out of it... and stopped sucking when he stopped working. that was fun. anything wrong with that?
@jennyPuss the way you explain it, when you say ''if I like him and he pays for a meal'' makes sex seem as a pay off. Nothing from my side really breaks down when you say thats what it takes to have sex with you. Your last scenario had nothing to do with your first, which basically was saying you pay with sex for food.
@jennyPuss Sounds to me that you're just a whore. At least you acknowledge your only value as a person is your vagina and it only took you 29 years to figure that one out.
@username97 it's too bad that you can only date girls 'with a great personality'. guys generally really enjoy having me around. you admit that you give guys what they want and get called a whore. that's so weird. i forgot. if i was a good christian girl i would pretend that i don't enjoy sex. because enjoying sex and enjoying making my man happy makes me a whore. no- you have such an infantile mind and all you've ever been with are whores that use abuse and leave you- that you see them everywhere. you know i read in countless articles how men always complain about women who let them pay for dinner but then don't put out. you're just a disgruntled malcontent who can't get laid.
So you enjoy curtesy with expectations and appreciation from men. First of all , I don't believe you are a feminist. Secondly , a good woman already is that way, without calling herself a feminist.. I think what you really should say you believe in is equality for both , which is exactly what a feminist hide behind so they can further their indoctrination you girls.
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For some reason male GaGers don't know about your existence. Really some of these guys need to get out more.
I am not a feminist and I don't shave. The hair is as unhygienic as my eyebrows, eye lashes, and head hair.
Having body hair does not make me a man or change the fact I was born with XX chromosomes.
I just had a co-worker chick tell me how it pissed her off that she was called a "lady" at work. She wants to be called a "woman" at work, and a "lady" in social situations. I just stared at her asked her where the fuck is this rule book. I never got a copy! Most guys don't have a copy!
If you really mean what you say, maybe it's time to leave that hate word in the past where it belongs and stop propagating the desecration of it's corpse when it should have died with dignity when it was no longer relevant.
Men these days are like hungry wolves (wolf is a better word to describe it) when they hear word feminism.
I'm not a feminist, nor do I care about such things, and I agree with everything you said.
You explained right. I'm not a such a feminist but when I'm one I just support women and tell them that they can do it and do whatever and not follow the society. But I usually support them on what is on their mind.
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Look into "difference feminism" and "cultural feminism"
I never thought the day would come I would find a feminist I agree with. I guess today is that day
So, you want you want and you don't give a fuck that you're a flaming hypocrite.
Women these days are making an absolute mockery of women.
I think feminism has turned into something far from what it was meant to be.
A Feminist who likes sexism when it benefits her, at the cost of other people... #shocked
These are the women men have to run from, because I'm sure the moment a guy "expect" her to live up to certain gender roles, she'll cry sexism. I see this all the time from women on GAG
you mean you appreciate the perks of being treated in a chivalrist manner.
''how much control he has over himself as that's the only thing that differenciates a man from other animalistic creatures.''
what exactly does this mean? the only thing?
In other words, you are a men's rights activist.
And I deem you as wrong as a feminist.
"feminism"... we want equality but only the parts that benefit us!"
equity is a better term
@Danielle93 Equity would mean that women wouldn't have the endless list of women only things which make their lives easier than men's.
The clubs, groups, scholarships, grants, programs, funding, social campaigns...
The biased in favor of women... court systems, police system, health system
The biased school system which teaches based on how girls learn and treat boys like broken girls.
The complete lack of father's parental rights.