It's Okay to be a Slut (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

While it’s ok to be one but good luck finding a decent relationship after your done with casual flings. Many men same goes for women do not usually want someone who is used so many times and who can blame them while I agree sex is healthy but if you can help it keep your partners down.

You’ll be more respected

[Opinion Owner]

and of course a thumbs down... LOL. its true though

[RegularTK421]

I agree. I wish more women would have sex more freely and with less conditions. Guys, if you want more sex with women, quit giving them a hard time when they do give it up. It's not hard to routinely get tested for stds, and to use protection. As far as people thinking monogamy prevents stds, actually it doesn't. Men and women cheat, and even if you are monogamous, unfaithful partners can infect you just as quickly as multiple partners can. The only absolute way to never get an std, is abstinence. Sex comes with risk, even sex with one partner.

[Sienna-Rose]

I don't think the majority of us want someone who's been around the whole block a few times, regardless of gender. I'd be concerned about their priorities and trustworthiness of a guy like that and I'm sure guys feel the same about those types of girls.

[Goochbreaker]

Everyone take not. The person above is not fit to give advice to ANYONE.

You hear that? ANYONE!!! She gives confidence as a reason... if you rely on sex for confidence you are a BROKEN HUMAN BEING!!!

"but goochbreaker! Wouldn't that mean most of us are broken human beings?"

YES, IT MEANS EXACTLY THAT. Don't listen to this hedonist fool, she may be smart politically or an amazing scientist, but she knows shit all about this subject.

[Jaximus-Lion]

There is always some benefits in something, in this case am 100% sure it benefits to have easier communication to the opposite gender and sex it self.
It is something else when it comes to morals for girls and boys too, if a guy has many girls he is an idiot and be called for typical DOUCHEBAG and for me is the same as slut but for men. The score it's never a good thing in this case.

[NicoletteKomotov]

Nice take. Who cares what societies paradigms are? Most of them just limit people's experiences. Women should be able to be whatever they want to be and not just baby making machines in a patriarchal society.

I especially like the math t the end. (I have an engineering degree and I used that formula to pick guys up at school. "Can you help me solve this integral?" Ha ha ha. It worked.) Enjoy!

[NYCQuestions1976]

Do you still make use of that formula post-college?

[NicoletteKomotov]

@NYCQuestions1976 Not many people would get it. It's pretty much an engineering school formula

[NYCQuestions1976]

@NicoletteKomotov

Engineering school or not, if you show that formula to a guy and he doesn't get it, then he doesn't deserve to "get it"... LOL

[NicoletteKomotov]

@NYCQuestions1976 True

[NYCQuestions1976]

@NicoletteKomotov So what strategy do you use these days? Just say hi?

[Anonymous]

It's perfect to be the most refined, able and sexy slut in your bedroom with your SO.
It's better if you know perfectly how to also be the most refined, able and feminine lady outside the bedroom.
It's even better if you remind your SO that you are the best at playing both roles, and he is proud to be outside with you knowing what you can be at home with him.

[CT_CD]

Keep telling yourself that. No decent, self-respecting man would ever date you. Just view you as a sperm receptacle.

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[carncars]

If a woman wants to be civil then that is ok with me when she is elegant.
At least I know such woman.
Personal I am not the beast in a man , man even many woman like it that way.
Personally I go for the elegant woman.
Personal I feel repulsion for a slut.

[Nina12346]

No sweetheart, many casual flings will ruin you, you might not even get to have a real relationship now cause nobody wants a promiscuous woman. Pick sense out of non-sense.

[levantine99]

and then you realise you get more empty and nihilistic and go back searching for a real meaning in life. cause as you said its freaking short.

[Anonymous]

Nobody is stopping you from being a slut. But you will be judged for it by most of the population, who believe fucking anything with a pulse is unhealthy, both physically and mentally.

A good woman (and man) who respects herself and the concept of relationships will not be promiscuous and she will be a better person for it, and her man will get a better woman in the end.

This is not going to change, ever.

[CubsterShura]

Promiscuous act is never okay for anyone. Be a civilized human being. Does the world really lack other methods of being healthy? I can be healthy without losing my dignity.

[RationalMale]

It's okay to be a slut, sure. No one will fine you or take away your driver's license or throw you in prison.

However, can you be okay with men using *their* freedoms, including their freedom to decide that they don't want to have relationships or date promiscuous/slutty women? There's the rub.

[Purple_Babe14]

No it's not okay under any circumstance. Sure some guys say its okay, just to get in your pants, but sluts aren't respected.

[Purple_Babe14]

I just hate it when girls are like, let me act like a hoe then demand respect.

[Political_dude]

We really need a dislike button for takes smh

[TheClevelander1]

Frivolous anorexic.
Profile pics are me. I don't sext, don't ask.
I write myTakes on things I don't actually believe in just to argue with people. Now you know.

directly from her profile, if you read it

she's basically getting people riled up, just to see their reaction. she's a troll, basically

[Political_dude]

@TheClevelander1 ik. She's either attention seeker or a troll.

[TheClevelander1]

trolling. only trolls pick fights

[myTake Owner]

@TheClevelander1 lol

[markxcds]

perhaps she is just a slut.

[TheClevelander1]

most likely

[Shawn58]

I mean I don't think its OK thats just weird to say. I'm sorry just being real I've met and seen a lot of girls that are quote on quote sluts and a lot of them don't really have a healthy mental state but who am I to judge I won't critize anyone's life style but I will still express what I think and the truth of the matter

[Xavixk]

I agree...
You just have to remember that we are products of the culture we were brought up in...
So the general opinion of the society we were brought up in, will be ingrained in us, whether we want it or not.

[soleil2666]

I don't know why you consider sex and practicing of it to translate into 'being a slut'.
Overdoing it, overtly, and pushing that into people's faces might suit that description - just having sex with whomever you want most certainly isn't.
There seems to be quite a bit of hypocrisy around that in the USA, but for the rest of the world sex isn't half a taboo it is forced to being over there.

[Langseax]

ifstudies. org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/

Yes, being a slut IS harmful for your future. If you ask me, both women AND men should stop being so promiscuous, rather than the other way around.