You do you, its your body. Its terrible to live the life of a slut. I don't agree with your attempt to advocate for constant searching of temporary pleasures. Moderation is key and moderation doesn't make you a slut.
Aye, it completely baffles me that in the past women wanted men to stop sleeping around, but now they want *more* women to do exactly that. If you ask me, both men and women would be better off being less promiscuous.
(Though the amount of partners that makes someone a slut is subjective, someone who believes in purity until marriage and one life partner might consider you a slut)
I just meant it like, I hope you don’t place double standards on women. Regardless of yourself haha.
Sure, but I wouldn't date a slut, probably wouldn't be friend's with one either. If my daughter was a slut then I wouldn't have too many good words to say to her boyfriend about her.
@bente2 No, I expect my daughter and my son to be respectable people.
I don't see any accomplishment in fucking 20 men, or women for that fact.
I'd see the opposite, they resist easy temptation and commit then I can say that my child does care for you. If they fuck everyone in sight what do I say? "Oh yeah, you're only the 51st.. "
@bente2 It becomes quite questionable. It's one thing to sleep with a few people, but if you sleep with 3 different guys a month , there's something wrong.
Some commitment issues at the least.
I have no real issue if they even just commit to one person not for a relationship but for sex. Okay, so be it.
But 10 people a year? No I'm going to consider that something's quite wrong with them
@bente2 I can respect them for something else, but in terms of relationships and intimacy — no.
My son or duaghter bring home their s. o and we get talking ourselves and they ask what I think, I'm going to say what I honestly think. The goods and the bads. And I would say that he/she is promiscuous, seems to have problems with any type of commitment so keep that in mind.
i really think it is ok, well i don´t like it, but there is nothing wrong about it, i defend your your right to have your own experiences as long as you are not harming someone, destroying things and etc.
I'm sorry but I don't fully agree with your take. But I hate that girls can just sleep with one guy and be called a slut for no reason. Whereas guys can go around sleeping with different girls each month and he gets praised.
Just dont come back here on gag crying and posting questions asking why you can't keep a man for more than a one night stand and why no one accept you for what you are (a whore).
These are all without evidence or emotionally based. Sleep with whoever you want but don't get upset when the guy you actually wanna settle down with won't give you the time of day. No more thots.
Sure it is absolutely i lovem they make worlf gk round an single men happy an married women mad an have gossip to pass on eye opener if men were girls wed all be worst slutd imagineable trust that im jealous wish i was ob how we men all wish lol!!!
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no its not and men actually have to work for sex where as a girl could have it right now if she wanted it thats why guys are praised for it plus opening your legs does not equal being able to open up to someone
No it's not okay to be a slut, It's frowned upon. You should be a good Christian girl with high moral values and be a role model in life to the Future Kids growing up
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You do you, its your body.
Its terrible to live the life of a slut.
I don't agree with your attempt to advocate for constant searching of temporary pleasures. Moderation is key and moderation doesn't make you a slut.
Why don't we promote Guys not being sexually promiscuous and respecting women, before we promote behavior which is detrimental to society, like promiscuity
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#HonorOurWomen
#FulfillMasculineDuties
#StopMediaJews
Aye, it completely baffles me that in the past women wanted men to stop sleeping around, but now they want *more* women to do exactly that. If you ask me, both men and women would be better off being less promiscuous.
@Langseax You are exactly right
Well said
It's okay to be a slut, just as it is okay to prefer not to be with one.
Ya, however, being a slut yourself and then degrading female sluts is wrong to me.
@bente2
Where do I say that I am a slut? I've had only five partners?
Oh, no, I didn’t mean it like that. Sorry.
(Though the amount of partners that makes someone a slut is subjective, someone who believes in purity until marriage and one life partner might consider you a slut)
I just meant it like, I hope you don’t place double standards on women. Regardless of yourself haha.
@bente2
no, i don't. To me specifics and circumstances matter to me more.
Sure, but I wouldn't date a slut, probably wouldn't be friend's with one either.
If my daughter was a slut then I wouldn't have too many good words to say to her boyfriend about her.
If the value of your future daughter is measured by the number of guys she’s been with you should probably refrain from fatherhood.
@bente2 No, I expect my daughter and my son to be respectable people.
I don't see any accomplishment in fucking 20 men, or women for that fact.
I'd see the opposite, they resist easy temptation and commit then I can say that my child does care for you.
If they fuck everyone in sight what do I say? "Oh yeah, you're only the 51st.. "
So people that sleep around don’t deserve your respect?
@bente2 It becomes quite questionable.
It's one thing to sleep with a few people, but if you sleep with 3 different guys a month , there's something wrong.
Some commitment issues at the least.
I have no real issue if they even just commit to one person not for a relationship but for sex. Okay, so be it.
But 10 people a year?
No I'm going to consider that something's quite wrong with them
Ok... so someone with issues doesn’t deserve your respect then? Or am I seeing this wrong?
@bente2
I can respect them for something else, but in terms of relationships and intimacy — no.
My son or duaghter bring home their s. o and we get talking ourselves and they ask what I think, I'm going to say what I honestly think. The goods and the bads.
And I would say that he/she is promiscuous, seems to have problems with any type of commitment so keep that in mind.
i really think it is ok, well i don´t like it, but there is nothing wrong about it, i defend your your right to have your own experiences as long as you are not harming someone, destroying things and etc.
Its also okay to go shopping in your undewear or shit in the street infront of everyone but it ain't a good idea sweetie and so is being a slut.
Coming from a guy who rejected at least 3 slutty girls
Actually, I don’t think that’s allowed in most countries.
I'm sorry but I don't fully agree with your take. But I hate that girls can just sleep with one guy and be called a slut for no reason. Whereas guys can go around sleeping with different girls each month and he gets praised.
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I would not advice casual sex for neither men or women. It isn't healthy at all to the well being of a person.
Nevertheless, if that's what they desire to do then so be it.
You’re one of the first comments that isn’t misogynistic and actually makes sense.
It shouldn't really matter tbh. All long as you protect yourself, and only mess with people who aren't committed then you good fam.
Just dont come back here on gag crying and posting questions asking why you can't keep a man for more than a one night stand and why no one accept you for what you are (a whore).
These are all without evidence or emotionally based. Sleep with whoever you want but don't get upset when the guy you actually wanna settle down with won't give you the time of day. No more thots.
Hope this is a troll.
Sure it is absolutely i lovem they make worlf gk round an single men happy an married women mad an have gossip to pass on eye opener if men were girls wed all be worst slutd imagineable trust that im jealous wish i was ob how we men all wish lol!!!
no its not and men actually have to work for sex where as a girl could have it right now if she wanted it thats why guys are praised for it plus opening your legs does not equal being able to open up to someone
well put. people shouldn't be made to feel ashamed of doing things they enjoy. so long as they practice safe sex what's the problem
Nah. It's one thing to be sexually open, it's another to be a slut.
That's the difference between being a liberator and a terrorist.
No it's not okay to be a slut, It's frowned upon. You should be a good Christian girl with high moral values and be a role model in life to the Future Kids growing up
The double standards exist for biological/evolutionary reasons. So, that one's out...
"You're an expert" is also really unattractive, so... that one's out too.
Other than those two, good list.
It's OK to not like sluts, never want to date sluts, or never even consider a slut for marriage.