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DON’T HOME SCHOOL YOUR KIDS PAST ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. After building a strong initial bond and educational foundation, it is essential that they are put in to a public environment to develop social skills and understand taboos. I have a friend who was home schooled and entered public school freshman year and his life is ruined because he is unable to talk to anyone he does not know without losing all composure. He can’t even begin to understand how to approach a stranger to make a friend, let alone a girl. I feel bad for him and took him under my wing because he will most likely be lonely and submissive forever. I can’t bear to tell him this but I know it is the truth. He is doomed to die alone and be bullied where ever he goes. And his younger sister is doomed to the same fate.
Hahahahaha okay... I was homeschooled and turned out just fine 😂😂😂😂 This kinda cracks me up
@Rusty54321 good for you fam.
I was also homeschooled all the way through high school and I'm okay too XD
Your friend is shy and doesn't want to just be friends with everybody. He is not submissive or lonely. He just doesn't fit in with other students. Even if he went to public school in elementary, he STILL would have been awkward. That is just who he is. Respect that part of him or don't be his friend. Best not to pretend you like him like that or else he will sense it and want to find other potential friends who aren't going to force him.
@btbc92 No he’s actually submissive. By dictionary definition. He’s a junior who gets bullied by freshmen. And don’t accuse me of being a fake friend. I was the first and only person to help him and he's admitted to me that I saved his life. Not everyone is a happy introvert. He wanted friends but told me later that he had no idea how to talk to people. he's a cool guy and I’ve known him for a few years now but he still struggles with loneliness and trust issues as he was bullied pretty badly before I took him under my wing. If I had pressured him into something he would have left 3 years ago.
Why is is any of your business? A good friend would help him, not talk about him online like your doing behind his back. He has to LEARN on his own that he is who he is, and he has to accept and LOVE HIMSELF FIRST! Being an introvert is what he is born to be. Can't do anything about that. The problem is other people who can't respect the fact that he's different. That's why he's always getting bullied. I know because I always and still get bullied, so it doesn't make a difference. He just needs to learn to be more confident in himself and tell others who don't like it to screw off. He's also sound like too much of an attention seeker. And that is his MAIN problem. How do I know? Been there, done there, never going back. Nothing good comes out of being fake for other people. It'll just make him even more miserable.
And the only reason why he never left you years ago is that he has low self-esteem and doesn't really know what he wants. He's not submissive. He's too co-dependent. Has nothing to do with being homeschooled.
@btbc92 Okkkkk, sounds like you have some kind of personal stake in this. Maybe you should stop projecting yourself on my friend, also he told me to post the first comment to warn people. So fucking chill dude. Calm your a cup fragile retard titties. So sit down and go fuck yourself fam. Lol. Also don’t get triggered cuz I’m honestly just taking the piss at this point.
I'm not projecting myself on him. I'm telling you to stop thinking your right when you're wrong. And you know your wrong. I can tell exactly how he feels even though I don't personally know him. You just refused to see it based on your own biases. Because I'm sure that if it was somebody else, you wouldn't treat them any different.
@btbc92 you literally know little to nothing about my friend, OWO I mean... u creep’n?
No. It's called being intuitive and discerning. You are just blind like I said before. Because you honestly don't care about that stuff. I can tell by your attitude, and you want to pretend like this is you, when your just not that kind of person. That is the true you.
Your attitude is that of pride, and you think your friend is a loser if he didn't have you. That's what you don't want to really say, but that's exactly what your words are telling me. Your true feelings. Maybe you sincerely don't want to feel that way. But that's what's secretly in your heart. The sad part is, if he never matures and changes from this, you just may be the one to dump him in the end. Know by experience.
Can't tell me how I'm lying now. Your so easy to read like a book. This is who he is. And if you expect to keep his friendship, I suggest that you start getting used to it.
@btbc92 ... so u creep’n?
No. You just chose to reveal who you are without you even knowing it. And by the way, your so-called fake friendship is done out of pity. You remind me of those jerks who do that to me in middle school. I learned my lesson when they abandoned me in the end. And as much as it hurt me, it was a good thing. Because now I ended up with better friends who are still connected to me even now over 10 years later. That is true friendship. They accepted me for who I was and I grew up to be a confident and well-rounded woman while still being true to myself. Goes to show what you really know.
@btbc92 Once again... you have little to no knowledge of the inner workings of the relationship of me and my close friend. Also most of your drama from middle school is likely because you are a girl and I’m a junior in high school so its more than inaccurate to compare the two. Not to mention that I showed him this thread and he laughed his ass of and called YOU the no life loser so... ouch...
OH please. Me being a girl have 0 to do with it because I had male AND female so-called friends. And it has 0 to do with what we're talking about. And if he wants to laugh at it, that's HIS problem. He ain't a man, he's a little a boy who can't stand up for himself. He's co-dependant like I said, and the only reason why he's laughing at this is because, deep down he is an actual coward. What other "friend" he has other than you? Name them all. Let you be out of school on days he shows up and let's see him handle himself then. He just wants to be in the crowd and act just like YOU. Because again, he hates himself. It's not a homeschooling problem or a parenting problem, it's a personal problem. So he can pretend like he doesn't know. But as long as I know, I don't care what lie he wants to tell you, me or others. It's his life, let him deal with it. All I know is that it's fake and if he likes it, enjoy it. Not my problem and it shouldn't be your either. He's just as fake.
If that's what she wants to do, fine.
Any man that goes for it is a complete Fucktard chump. When she gets bored and starts riding strange cocks, the System will make sure she gets rewarded by forcing him to send her a check every month.
Fuck that.
This is so crazy. Studies show women who work out of the home are more likely to cheat. I don't know why so many guys think housewives are the cheaters. Smh.
@bamesjond0069
They are ALL likely to cheat. Doesn't matter if she's a SAHM or works, one sexual partner or thirty, church girl or party girl. She's *going* to cheat.
The only difference is the amount of vagimony that the guy will have to pay. If she works, it won't be *quite* as high.
And "studies"? You're aware that you can find a "study" to back up just about anything, right?
you're absolutely nuts. Not all women cheat.
Nope. Why? Dishwashers, washing machines, clothes driers, refrigerators with ice makers, the internet with youtube videos teaching anyone and everyone how to cook, iRobotic vacuums and mops, no wrinkle shirts, etc. Housewives have been automated out of existence. Now you just have women that that stay home and play video games all day.
It’s funny how feminists keep saying that women should be “free” to do what they want, but many like you freely chose to be a homemaker and they throw a bitchy fit.
A housewife can enable a man to give his undivided attention to his career hence making him more successful.
According to studies, house wifes are more happy on average then women with a full time job and kids.
it's because they don't have to do a double shift are are likely less economically stressed.
What about the fathers? Are they unhappy too?
@LeoElias Fathers are as happy as they want to be. Men generally like to work.
It’s not that. When men finish their shift they can relax, when women do they have to do a “second shift” of housework, cooking and childcare
I truly agree with you, and I respect housewives as well. I would love to find myself a loving old fashioned woman that would make an excellent wife and mother.
I respect housewives very much , while i have no respect for strippers and feminists , they can take care of kids well , I think strippers shouldn't even think about having kids , can't imagine how bad can it be for someone to find out that his mom was a slut.
Well said
@TonyMetal86 thanks
Agreed. I'm a sahm and lots of people give me shit about it. I'm just trying to be there for my kids 100 percent and there's nothing wrong with that.
Totally..
Coming from a guy who does house chores and knows how much life they suck out of you..
Now just add into the fact that it'll only stay tidy for around 2 hours when the kids arrive home from school.
Sometimes I just want to chuck a cup of milk on the floor just to beat them to it. 😩
@Goodwifie
Uggghh,..
And nobody cares to at least put clothes in correct condition!. Before throwing in laundry basket,.. Half of them are twisted tied and inside out.. Last thing I want to do is make systematic the stinky dirty laundry!..
And doing the dishes!..
I mean what will it take to people to learn to put the utensils in a categorized order.. With no food on them..
You go to sink and find a jigsaw of plates! Cups, glassware.. Spoons
And don't even get me started on, since I am doing house chores and maintaining it.. I am the enquiry receptionist to where what is? Every question is in my inbox.. I can't wear headphones, since every 2 mins someone comes looking for something!..
@Goodwifie crap I am beginning to sound like Mom of 2-3 teenagers
I don't get why there are some idiots here that look down at stay at home moms.
I bet they think it's way better to hire and trust a complete stranger to be at your home and take care of your little ones.
I agree with you 100%. The stay at home moms I know, including my own mom, are some of the best and hardest working women I know, and their families are better off because they do what they do.
You can be a housewife, but I love my six-figure career
Not giving it up
We already do. While fathers who pay for everything barely have respects but being portrayed as a lunatic, lazy cunt and psycho in shows and movies, stereotypes and even #endfather'sday is what they get not even demanding for more respect. Sure I respect house wives but respect fathers too.
Can't agree more. Respect to you and your mother.
Very well written.
Of course they should be given respect. It's a completely valid lifestyle that takes time and effort. But women who choose not to be housewives should also be given respect, as should men who choose to stay home.
They certainly do deserve a high amount of respect you hit the nail on the head with this one
They should be given respect! They chose to sacrifice their career as an extra source of income to care for the children. Unless they are being abusive to the children, they deserve just as much respect as a working wife.
I agree. My mom had a "housewife" mode and a "working woman" mode. When my dad couldn't hack it she had to play two roles at once, and I respected her in both. Cleaning and cooking isn't glamorous work, but it has to be done, and it has to be done right. Women who have a presence in their home understand this.
Whether they are exclusively housewives or not, I respect women who take care of business.
If I am at work all day and they expect to use all my money for their own stuff how is that fair whether the man or women works. If you have kids, it misses more since to both work and pay for daycare. 45k+45k -15k for daycare= more than 45k from just one person working b
With all the technology we have these days, taking care of the household is not a day job anymore. Not working and not having any higher education is just pure laziness in my opinion and I will never ‘respect’ it. If that’s what your biggest dream, do it. But don’t expect everyone to look up to you or respect you for sitting around the house all day.