Women's Best Role: "Becoming a Housewife"

[TonyMetal___86]

😊 The happy housewife 😊

1. You see your children grow up
The biggest guilt working women have to face is the lack of time they have to devote to their children. They are torn between working and being with their children and watch them grow. A housewife is always there with her kids and manages to foster them in a loving manner and witness such moments like their first steps, their first words, etc.

2. You have more time
One of the most attractive and appealing benefits of being a housewife is the amount of extra time you have as compared to women who work 5-9 hours daily. You don’t need to hurry through life because you have no obligation to adhere to time limits and do work in a certain way. You have more time to do things around the house and you are not under the scare of an angry boss.

3. You have more freedom
When you’re a housewife, you’re your own boss. Your house itself is your office and you can even employ people to help you out like maids, cooks, gardeners, etc. You can see TV shows, catch up with your best friends for lunch, get a good night’s sleep, indulge in social networking, and enjoy more freedom than working women who have less leisure time.

4. You feel less tired
A housewife can relax on her bed if she is sick, but a woman who works should have to think of the excuse to tell her boss and fear the consequences she might face if she takes more than one day off. The guilt of giving work priority over family, fulfilling deadlines, work stress, and daily commuting to and fro office are factors that a working woman has to bear, unlike a housewife.

5. Get the best of both worlds
If you are a housewife and you feel the need to economically empower yourself, you can work from home. In this way you’re not caught in the rut of a busy office environment, and you also earn some money while taking care of the house. When you are a housewife, you get the best of both worlds!

This was myTake, on why shall a woman become a housewife if it's possible, these are the most important traits that i can remember till now, feel free to add some more, based on your own experience...

[Secret6620]

Awesome Mytake!!! Thanks for posting!!! Number three is my favorite ✨🧚‍♀️🌸

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome dear jasmine luiga 😊
I'm glad that you liked it, keep smiling nerdy pocahontas 🤓🌹

[Secret6620]

🙊🎀✨ thank you

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome 🙂

[Secret6620]

Thank you for most helpful girl 💖

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome nerdy jasmine luiga 🤓🌹

[SunnyCaliGirl]

I love this

[TonyMetal___86]

Thank you dear 😊

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Thank you for the Most Helpful Award <3

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome dear 😊

[Guy13]

Excellent and well thought out.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks 😊

[BilyanasBeach]

I wonder what you will have to say about this, even though most men don't answer me when my opinion differs on their mytake:

Woman's best role: "Becoming a owner of a business that you are passionate about" (Mine is to own a spa, I'm close to this goal, at first I will work in it but after a few years I will just be an owner :) I'm 19 so by the time I'm married I probably won't work in it)

1. I will see my children grow, 2. I will have more time, 3. I will have more freedom, 4. I will feel less stressed, 5. I will get the best of both worlds (All the things you wrote)

6. My husband will not ever feel like he isn't making enough because I will always be there to help, to buy myself something without burdening his spending plans, he could think of expanding or starting his own business because I have already done it, I will gladly invest in our kids, for example good education, so if we decide to have a lot of kids we can pay for everything much more easily.

7. If I have a daughter I can take her to my spa regularly to meet my employees and be a part of my amazing team, see the exiting things happening in my spa, see how my clients enjoy spending quality time which every woman needs in a spa, maybe even develop a passion for it so I can pass it on to her once I'm old. So she will always have something to fall back on. So she can be proud of me for accomplishing something her friend's mother's didn't because they either work 9-5 or have nothing of their own in terms of a business cause they are housewives.

8. I can marry better, and if I find a rich man, he would not think I'm with him for money, if he owns a business himself we will have one more thing in common, he would appreciate the effort I put in and I would understand everything that he has to do for his business, we would have so much money that we could travel to exotic places more often than most families, maybe even yours for example. But also me, having a traditional view on life, would make him happy for putting our children first.

9. I would have the real best of both worlds, not you improvised version with a work from home which isn't possible in many cases for a housewife, you don't know the chores women must do when cleaning and cooking, it takes at least 5 hours out of their day if it's the little chores, not big seasonal cleanings + preparing 3 meals.

What do you think? What do others think, men and women? Isn't the best role for a woman to find what she is passionate about asap and turn in into a business that the whole family benefits from. Even though it's rare of course, it's not easy to own a business, but since it's rare it must mean it's the best of the best. :)

[TonyMetal___86]

My answer to you is good luck...
If it suits you both than it's okay...
Such things are very hard to achieve ans takes a long time, like i said, i'll never marry a girl who wants to work after marriage...

I don't need her money and won't accept it!

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂working moms carry a 9-5, and make time for everything else, I say, sometimes you don’t know real pain until you know your momma got up at 5:30, got a shower, got dressed, made breakfast for everyone, packed 4 lunches, woke everybody up, got the kids on the bus, got hubby out the door, got herself out the door, go work 8 hours, and come home to hubby and the kids watching tv. And then she proceeds to make a nice good meal, put the kids to bed around 8-9, spent time with hubby, FINNALLY took her shoes off and went to bed around 10-11. And she does it 5/7 days a week.

On Saturday hubby has a day off, so she goes and works overtime to get more money so you can have nice things, she wakes up at 6, gets a shower, gets dressed, makes breakfast for everybody, then she preps lunch, then she wakes everyone up, after everyone has eaten she heads out. 8-8she works her butt off. She comes home and makes dinner, puts the kids to bed, preps a picnic for her day off, and then finally takes her shoes off and goes to bed.

On Sunday, she sleeps in until 9 and wakes up to screaming children. Once she settles the arguments she goes and makes breakfast and coffee and the normal stuff. She wakes hubby, and eats breakfast, then she showers and starts packing the picnic that she prepared last night. Her and her family spend the remainder of the day at the park, once they get home, she makes dinner, sends the kids to bed, and if she has the energy she might pack her kids lunches for tomorrow.

And she does it every day, with little variety for maybe 10 years.

I don’t want any part of that tasteless life. I hate the thought of it.

[Opinion Owner]

@DapperDinosaur I hope it explains my viewpoint on this shit.

[Opinion Owner]

I would rather kill myself because I don’t have the willpower for that.

[DapperDinosaur]

If you cut the children part out, it seems much better. And with a good college education, you could probably find a job that you'd both enjoy and make a living off of without the 9-5 every day. Then you'd have more time for yourself and to spend with your partner.

[Opinion Owner]

My momma did all that and I’m still fucked up, thanks momma for corrupting my soul and enlightening me as to how lifeless it would be.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t want kids

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm not sure about what your saying,...
Does it means you like to be a housewife or not?

[Opinion Owner]

The answer is OH HELL NAW.

[TonyMetal___86]

Ok baby girl... go get the bottle of milk so you grow up healthy 😄

[DapperDinosaur]

@TonyMetal___86 Don't be a dick

[TonyMetal___86]

@DapperDinosaur i won't be like YOU don't worry 😂

[DapperDinosaur]

Seriously, now. How old are you? Grow up

[TonyMetal___86]

@DapperDinosaur until you do kid 😄

[Opinion Owner]

Tony, no wonder why you failed that test back in 8th grade. I’m not surprised.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah call me tony, as if i was your friend or the same age, say mr tony or uncle tony, little impolite chick...

[Opinion Owner]

Ah thanks son, won’t make that mistake again.

[TonyMetal___86]

Hahaha, your funny... go away little chick and play with your amigas there in the mud!

[Opinion Owner]

Soar above those who flock with chickens.

[TonyMetal___86]

When you grow up, your job will be in the kitchen frying a chicken for your king 🤴

[DapperDinosaur]

You don't have a damn clue what her "job" will be. And it most certainly won't be anything for any sort of "king." How about you grow up yourself before you go around telling others what to do, bud. Now leave her alone. You're nothing but a troll and a disgrace to this community.

[TonyMetal___86]

@DapperDinosaur said who? A little pest! 🤣 f*ck off

[DapperDinosaur]

You are all over the place, man... First, you delete my comments, then you anonymized, and then you un-anonymize... Well, I'll say what I said in my comment of your other question that you deleted: You're a toxic member and a disgrace to this community that's not capable of having a civil discussion, go get a life. I'm glad you think you've won this argument because you've used the most insults and told me to "fuck off" the most times, and that's great for you, but you should really be ashamed of how you're representing yourself here, Tony. Enjoy life in your parent's basement.

[Opinion Owner]

Nearly all of the people here got a “thx for responding “ so why is I you can’t do that too... unless your the dude on the pizza question 👀👀👀 if you are I get that you have beef with me because of the pineapple situation, but dude you literally started the fight and that radiates small dick energy right there. Dude, if you want respect, let me be me, leave your stupid sexist opinions at home, and accept the fact I like pineapple on my pizza. If anything you should be the one to grow up. You are fighting with 2, 13 year old kids. Aren’t you ashamed of that alone?

[TonyMetal___86]

The 2 kids imbecile impolite kids deserves to be smacked, I'm ashamed of myself that i can't reach both of you to teach a lesson of respect... now p*ss off tiny chick!

[elisa_0]

I don’t think it should be called the “best” role because then you’re saying that we can’t be good at other things.

I believe the woman has a choice and I think most of modern society agrees. If you want to build a career and stay at home that is also possible thanks to the growth of online businesses.

But if you want to work outside the home full time that is also the woman’s choice. It’s her life. Both parents should make an equal amount of effort toward their children. They should find a way to make it work without forcing the woman to stay at home.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well that's your opinion and i respect different opinions!
I personally will never marry a girl who wants to work after marriage and it's not a woman' choice either because the husband have to agree or be able to provide for her this opportunity

[elisa_0]

The husband doesn’t have to agree lol. If she chooses to work outside of her home, whether the husband agrees or not she has the right to do as she pleases. 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah she has the right if he agrees...
A woman cannot tell her mam that i love to stay at home and when he marry her, she changes and starts wanting to work!

[TonyMetal___86]

Also if she wants to be a housewife, her husband must agree, like it or not! These are facts!

[elisa_0]

Yes, if she wants to be a housewife then she can also be a housewife. But that doesn’t mean it’s her best role lol

[elisa_0]

She has the right whether he agrees or not, even if he doesn’t want her to work outside the home she is entitled to that decision 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

Your views are different than mine, very simple 😄

[bluehen46]

most people would slam this as sexist but it worked far longer than modern chaos we have. More kids were in school than jail. You had less shootings in general and school shootings were unheard of. Must of what we would call moral though 20 years ago is "old fashioned" "racist" "sexist" "trans or homophobic" today. Not those things are all bad, but it seems the more "progressive" our nation gets the more it goes to hell

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said and if i can still give an MHO, i'd give it to you.

[LizzyHale]

Oh no. You basically invited the feminists to this one LOL. But my mature perspective on it is that, in the situation where a husband and wife are together, the efficiency of there being a provider that gets the satisfaction of coming home to food, clean house, and most importantly (for men) a family atmosphere after a long day of work in return for providing security and opportunity for her and the kids, and providing the roof and food by making money in exchange is EXTREMELY scientifically backed up efficient and how a lot of successful marriages last so long. BUT, if people are single then a women has the same exact opportunities that men have to do whatever they want to. I personally support the idea of a nurturer and provider. Cause men need nurturing or else they get depressed, and women need providing (because what mother wants to be away from her kids for money).

[Ronnie_45]

Feminists are disgusting. They want to work but at the same time they want alimony, at the same time they want to share works at home. Feminists don't want to take any responsibility. They just want to blame men for everything. Feminism should be banned and all feminist rules should be removed. We don't need them. We need equality. Not feminism (misandry and female supremacy)

[TonyMetal___86]

@Ronnie_45 well said

[TonyMetal___86]

@LizzyHale i somewhat agree with you...
The problem is that i'm an anti feminist...
Men and women can never be the same.

[Curabyron]

That is one hella hard as job, you gotta clean, look after the baby/s, clean more, cook and get a meal all in time for the children to come home from school so they can winge like little jerks and not appreciate you and fight at the dinner table with a delicious meal that took her like 2 hours to make

[TonyMetal___86]

That's the beauty of it all, the joy and fun at home, when the man returns to the house, he will eat his little wife and lock the kids with the guiny piggy in a cage 🤣🤣

[Curabyron]

Most husbands aren't like that, they also take their wife forgranted and winge a lot

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't know about others, i know what i'll do 😊
When the king returns to his castle, the kids will behave , micro piggy stops jumping around and the wife run to kiss and hug her kind and her little kidney filled with candies will be eaten 😈

[Curabyron]

hmmmmmmmm, i wish all husbands were like this.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well these days it seems miraclous if a husband provide ans takes good care pf his wife while it was always the norm back in the past...

A husband's responsibility is to work outside to provide for his wife and family, take good care of them and make them happy...

The wife will do her role at home, also the man's mind will be comfortable that his wife is safe and warm at home, also she won't get harrassed... etc

[Curabyron]

TBH i never really saw it from that perspective

[TonyMetal___86]

What's your perspective?

[Curabyron]

i thought most husbands only wanted their wife home so they could clean and cook so once they returned they wouldn't have to do non of that and also so they wouldn't talk to other males

[TonyMetal___86]

Well a decent wife knows her limits while talking with another man and will never allow anyone to cross their boundaries...

A wife cooks, cleans and does all the house chores because it's her role as a housewife... just like the husband have his role outside...

A housewife is very happy to clean and cook and does the house chores, because she's cleaning her own house, she's cooking for herself and for her husband and family, also she is very lucky not to have to work outside because the negative things that you get from outside are a lot and the pnly positive thing is that your earning an income while a housewife's life is all of it positive and she doesn't even need an income because her man is providing for her and taking good care of her...

[Curabyron]

i meant talking in general. being a house wife is a hard job in general because a few house wifes also get abused or their children abuse one another in her presence making everyone unhappy

[TonyMetal___86]

Such things will happen wether the girl is a housewife or not...

[TonyMetal___86]

The man is the head of the house for a reason, there will be rules inside the house and the kids will respect their mother or their going to be punished, the wife will tell everything to her husband about what's happening inside the house in his absence...

[Curabyron]

i thought most wouldn't care

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe most wouldn't care but i do care, for a simple reason, FAMILY IS EVERYTHING TO ME 🙂

If i was married and had kids, i don't care about losing everything as long as my wife and kids are with me...

There is nothing more beautiful than coming back to a house filled with happiness and joy, the wife will be hugged tight and kissed a lot and the wife put her husband inside her heart and the kids are all happy seeing their father and mother so in love with each other 😊

Also the man's mind will comfortable that his wife and kids are at home warm and safe 😌

[Curabyron]

i wish everyone thought like that

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm glad to make little girl happy, your lucky that you aren't living somewhere near me, cause i'd hug you tight and the creepy beast will kidnapp you so he assures that little girl is always fed well and always happy, also the beast would like to look at the ocean hidden in little girl's eyes and little must know that she is veryyyyyy precious 😊🌹

[Curabyron]

no good potential father kidnaps me without my mother

[Curabyron]

then make her your friend if yous ever meet

[TonyMetal___86]

Hehe, little girl wants me to take her with her mother 😊
I'm sure that your mother is sweet like you 🙂
Who wouldn't be happy to have yoi both, but little girl's heart is tender and innocent cause your still very young, but your mother's heart ain't that easy for sure because she was disappointed in this life and it's hard to have her trust someone again...

[Curabyron]

MY MUM IS THE BEST AND MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD ☺️ AND I LOVE HER 😚

[Curabyron]

nope, i much rather you meet my mum then yous become friend then u come over ever once in a while for a cup of coffee

[TonyMetal___86]

Hehe, than what?
I'd like to know how the story ends? 😄

[Curabyron]

yous become best friends

[Curabyron]

nope, i would never abandon my mum even if things get hard

[Curabyron]

i would still see you but i wouldn't abandon my mum

[Curabyron]

last time i tightly hugged someone i crushed them 😈

[MysteriousDarkness]

@curabyron
So you want a husband that would neglect the kids.

[robertKugler]

How well could u portray this role...

Put your self there day in day out n do a months day to day play by play visualisation.. use serious realistic senerios... n think what modern woman outside a third world country would take that role for the wage that you'd be capable of providing in sickness and health.. that senerio would appeal too... my guess and actual survey would not be far off.
And becoming a staying a house wife.. especially yours... Scotty beaming up is a more realistic aspiration than a woman holding house wife as one any less than of orange county.. as an aspiration..

[TonyMetal___86]

Well that's how you see things, which is different than other people's views...

[MoonNieve]

Hahahahaha yeahhhh... that’s cute.. this was my opinion when I was young and didn’t have kids. This works 100% if you have placid kids, being a stay at home mum to kids with special needs is a completely different goal post 😭

[TonyMetal___86]

Kids or no kids, i'll only marry a girl who adores becoming a housewife, because i want to be her whole world and her everything and she will be very lucky because she doesn't have to work to live 😊

At least when i return home, i find a happy comfortable wife and not a stressed lunatic...

[TonyMetal___86]

By the way boobsee lady, your still young 😌

[Freddy78361]

Well, sure... this works if a woman aspires to be a three sport varsity athlete: concubine, housekeeper, and nanny.

Now that I have the demeaning sexist joke out of the way...

Best is a crappy term because it is an objective metric for a subjective comparison.

Each of us is responsible for living a life we find personally fulfilling. There is no need to go forth and multiply given that there are 7 billion on a planet that can sustain ecological diversity if the human population stopped at about 3 billion.

Nobody (man or woman) should be chained into a particular role because someone else thinks it is 'best' for them.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well peoppe are free to choose, we also don't have to listen to someone like you who thinks that everyone should listen to him and agree with his views 🤣

[Freddy78361]

Reminds me of the statement:"Always remember that you are unique. Just like everybody else."

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah just like you

[BlueScorpio]

I'm not possessed to either one , if you want to work or do the housewife thing then do whatever works best for the family then do it. If i was to have kids then I probably would stay home just cause i wouldn't want to leave my kid with strangers. But the thing is... do men today really want the housewife back? Cause some men are calling this golddigging or being golddigger.

[BlueScorpio]

opposed.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope the majority wants the working woman, i personally want the housewife back...

The happiest role for a woman is being a housewife, it's hard in these days but it pays off 😊

[elisa_0]

@TonyMetal___86 You don’t get to say what makes all women happy or what doesn’t.

[TonyMetal___86]

@elisa_0 i get to say what i want to say...

[TonyMetal___86]

Try to google about it and you will what is the best role for women and what makes them the happiest women in the world!

It's build on a worldwide statistics, which means if you hate being a housewife than it doesn't means that everyone else are the same as you.

[MannMitAntworten]

The happy housewife has a maid, masseuse, a persona trainer, and a pool boy. She also has her own Maserati whilst coming and going as she wishes. Further, she has no children unless you count her small dog (s). I have known these women... no thanks. Actual housewives are not what I would call, “happy”. Grumpy maybe, but not happy.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing but your talking about gold diggers while i'm talking about real devoted housewives
...

[MannMitAntworten]

I wish I could agree. I know housewives... they are NOT happy.

[BlueScorpio]

people forget, kids are work. Obviously it's not the same level as some of the deadly jobs like coal mining, but it is a lot of responsibility. You have to feed the kids, they get fussy cause have to take a nap/don't want to take a nap. You got to keep your eye on them 24/7 to make sure they aren't doing anything potential dangerous etc. And you have to do that everyday, that can be a lot especially if you're barely getting sleep already cause you have to stay awake all the time to watch the kids

[TonyMetal___86]

@BlueScorpio true, but it's rewaring job and it has it's benefits... also kids won't stay babies all these years...

[BlueScorpio]

True but kids don't grow into adults over night, so during the time from a baby all the way up until teenager hood is when you have to keep your eye on your kids at all time.

[TonyMetal___86]

@BlueScorpio that's true and your going to do with wether your working or your a stay at home mom, so you must send a big thank you for the man who made all this possible and this man is your husband who is all your life!

[MountAverage]

Weird how you project your personal conservative preference onto what's supposedly "best" for women. I guess you're desperately looking for legitimization. But why? It's okay to have preferences. I like things in women that a lot of women wouldn't want. I don't try to tell them they should, just because I like it. I just try to meet women who are compatible with me.

[TonyMetal___86]

I do agree with you about your choice and i'm rhe same but i don't know why you assumed that i'm like that...

You built a scenario that doesn't exists and shoved me in it!

[MountAverage]

What are you talking about? I'm responding to the things you said in your myTake and especially to how you said them. Your whole take is about what is supposedly best for women. And I'm telling you, you're projecting your personal preferences here. Your personal preferences are not what's best for women, they're just your personal preferences. You try telling women that how YOU want them to be, is what's best for them in general. It seems like you're trying to legitimize your preferences.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well i'm saying and stating the facts, not only my personal opinion, like it or not, a lot of women adores this...

[MountAverage]

Facts? Are you retarded?

[MountAverage]

Wait, let me answer that for you - yes, you are retarded. You're incapable of separating your personal preferences from general fact. You're intellectually so crippled that your simpleton mind can't deal with the fact that humans have a variety of preferences and what's best for some is not best for others, and you the fact that not everyone shares your reactionary, emotionally driven preferences, frightens your little man-ego.
What a pathetic little worm you are. 😅 Goodbye.

[MzAsh]

These points conflict with what stay at home moms actually experience, and I’m the one who spent over 10 years as a babysitter to those women. Nice try though.

[KrakenAttackin]

Do you have your own children?

[MzAsh]

No, not yet. I love my niece and I like being around her. But I enjoy not having kids at this time.

[TonyMetal___86]

@MzAsh if you could just calm your attitude a little bit and stop saying "nice try"... etc

I respect your opinion so try to respect other people's opinions too, that's all...

[MzAsh]

I respect your opinion. I said nice try because it sounds like you’re trying hard to convince women of a life that many just don’t see appealing.

[TonyMetal___86]

For you it doesn't sound appealing since you will never have it but for the other billion girls, it's a dream come true...

[MzAsh]

I could have that life if I wanted. All I’d have to do is just say the word. But I just don’t want to.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yeah, where can i find this genie that grants you your wishes 😂

[MzAsh]

I mean my husband lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Hahaha, your husband eyyyyy!
Do you both play clowns in the circus? 🤣

[MzAsh]

Sometimes our bedroom is like a circus.

[TonyMetal___86]

If i had a wife and she speaks like you, i'll burn her alive in my circus and tell her, sorry i spilled the benzeen by fault on you 😂😂

[TonyMetal___86]

The best thing you can do for your husband who is a crown on your head, is to make him a decent sandwich and serve it to him while jumping in the rings of fire to show him that your willing to be burnt to make his tummy full 😌

[MzAsh]

Only if he does that for me first.

[MzAsh]

And he has. That’s why our marriage has lasted so long. Take notes.

[TonyMetal___86]

Hahaha, only the man is the head of the house, your husband must be a c***, anways i'm glad that your still together... the circus have always some positive sides 😂

[MzAsh]

One of the things I love about him is that he knows we’re equal. I am too much for someone who thinks they’re over me. You choose to live your way and I’ll choose mine. Good luck. I hope you find the success I have found and that you’ll make some little good girl happy in her cave someday.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks, all i have to do is pick a girl that suits me, manybwishes to be with me but it's not all about being a housewife, there are a lot of other things...

I never said that a female is less than me, no man would provide for his girl, takes care of her or feed her if he doesn't see her as a real princess...

We are equal but with different roles ans behavior

[Meatunnel69]

Cost of living is much more expensive today than it was in the hayday of stay at home moms.

[TonyMetal___86]

True...

[Ninjazzed]

Sorry but I don’t agree with this.

The most women have ever accomplished is in the modern day when they weren’t stuck in the house.

The housewife status is just a way for men to trap and keep women subservient and powerless to achieve their own aspirations.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's your own opinion and you don't have to like it or even support it, i'm glad that we are totally different 🙂

Your just another washed up lost person!

[Ninjazzed]

I’m not washed up nor lost, you are clearly delusional and need to get your head out of your ass. We’re living in 2020, come join us.

[TonyMetal___86]

I won't join an impolite girl like you, i better keep you in my a*s so you keep you mouth shut... blocked!

[Justintheking]

You kids think u know everything.

[not329446]

Your reading too much science fiction. Life for some mothers is far from anything you envision. Careing for a family is a full time job. There's no time for naps, no sick days. It's a 365 day a year job unless you end up in a hospital bed.

[TonyMetal___86]

I never said that she won't work at all, she have responsibilities that needs to be done towards her husband and family and her house!

I never said it's easy, but at least it's rewarding and it ain't horrible the way you mention it...

[Shutupman]

Don't have kids.
I have more economic freedom and personal freedom when I work, make friends and have social stimulation. I can spend my own money on what I want and my own spending won't ever put any strain on my relationship.
I enjoy staying busy, being a housewife gets boring real fast.
Most women I know would not enjoy being a full-time housewife. It's very isolating.

[TonyMetal___86]

People are just different, what's bad and boring for you might be the wish of another girl...

[Shutupman]

Sure thing, but on average women do not want to be a stay at home mom. At least not in Western Europe.

[TonyMetal___86]

Like i said, it's just your own opinion while many girls from the west of Europe and the usa told me the opposite 🙂

[Shutupman]

It's not an opinion if the majority of women I have known want to work lmao. There are exceptions of course! But the general rule is women here want to work and be financially independent.

[TonyMetal___86]

Good, i prefer to see the ones who are on my side and the others are free to choose their path as long as they don't interfere with mine...

[hellish-kitty]

If this is genuinely what a woman wants to do with her life, obviously she can/should, but if she doesn't want to, she shouldn't have to, and it isn't better than any other life path. Personally, I'd rather die, lol.

[Justintheking]

Are you mormon? Only Mormons believe woman should be stay home moms and raise kids and be there for husband.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope i'm not, from where did you come up with these thoughts?

[Justintheking]

I hear it from people

[TonyMetal___86]

They are like that and the amish are like that and people from all over the world, from all religions and even atheists are like that... it's a preference and not related to a ritual or a MUST...