Other than the title, that's mostly nonsense. It's not an accurate representation of the issues at all, rather it's regurgitating a feminist narrative.
To be honest I am just the way I am, you like it good, you don't good. I am above that stupidity of i am alpha... i am beta, i am gamma, like wtf!!! live and let live.
IT's the men in the comments upset I'm talking about men's issues for me... they complain women don't care about their issues but when I write about them some get so butthurt child I can't
I've NEVERR SEEN SOMETHING SO TRUE IN MY LIFEE😭😭 as soon as we talk about women’s problems they have to big there's up? Like dude I am tired of the male species
I actually agree with your statement. I say who I am at face value and it's bothersome that I always see that certain women are too picky like broaden your horizons
Nice thoughts but not applies at real life. Only manly men in real life get dates , love, sex , affection. Women do care of other time of men but not when they are young and only one to settle down and nothing else... Thats majority
Lol, I have long hair and painted nails and I have a wife and kid and a house dude. Just be yourself, whatever that means for you. If a woman doesn't want you cause of something as minor as being your authentic self she's not gonna be a good person to spend your life with
Well, I'm 19 even been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we wanna get married after school. he wears nail polish and had long hair. I wear suits to my job there's no big deal he's still the man in my life and I would still love him if he showed up in a dress
@ThiccOrc You sound like you have a great life :D and tbh yah, I think sometimes people to blame gender norms when they that's not the case every interaction I've had with a "manly man", he's either tried to assault me or downplay my intelligence so not super keen on that
Heh, I still won't associate with sensitive timid men, I dunno maybe because I'm stoic myself and as a strong woman, I hate to babysit a boy. Yes I am very hard heartened, but that's because I'm a proud feminist!
Personally, I think it's just personal it's just you think to figure out and again that the point of my paper, guys should be able to choose for themselves, I don't think that just cause I am a woman saying "hey guys it's cool to just be yourself, you don't have to try so hard". makes it any less
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I agree. More often than not though, take this situation for instance. when i was 22 a girlfriend of mine just left me. I was crying. The women in my life told me to "Man the F Up". My friends though took me out and we played pool and blew off steam. Not one single one of them told me to man up... In my life its always been women that wanted to force some kind of idea of masculinity on me, not guys.
That's fair and i do think women do play a role in it, I've never really seen my boyfriend cry even though we've been together for a long time. I know he has cause he does when I cry and when he worries about me, but he's never actually let me see it, I think women need to let the men in their lives be vulnerable, I think it's empowering to cry it's healthy for everyone but regardless, I'm sorry that happened to yah
Of course, all my best friends are guys and I've over the years gotten to see how bad they get it sometimes, I kinda wish guys wouldn't blame feminism... cuz the reality is gender norms seem to do a lot more harm than good but regardless, I'm happy you feel seen :D that's why I wrote this in the first place for people like you :)
I don't blame feminism for anything. But O do blame me sometimes for not being manly in some situations as I should be. It's just not the way I am. It feels so good to hear that is fine. That I am not less of men for that.
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Other than the title, that's mostly nonsense. It's not an accurate representation of the issues at all, rather it's regurgitating a feminist narrative.
Ummm okay whatever
Good augmentation...
To be honest I am just the way I am, you like it good, you don't good. I am above that stupidity of i am alpha... i am beta, i am gamma, like wtf!!! live and let live.
You are my spirit animal
Girl, you're my spirit animal. I love watching you drag people it makes me laugh
LMAOOO I drag them so hard that they don’t dare come back😌
IT's the men in the comments upset I'm talking about men's issues for me... they complain women don't care about their issues but when I write about them some get so butthurt child I can't
I've NEVERR SEEN SOMETHING SO TRUE IN MY LIFEE😭😭 as soon as we talk about women’s problems they have to big there's up? Like dude I am tired of the male species
Earth is the ghetto I need a nap
I nap all the time I have no problem sleeping my life away😂
I actually agree with your statement. I say who I am at face value and it's bothersome that I always see that certain women are too picky like broaden your horizons
I think it should be addressed, I know some women like more "traditional" men and that's fine I guess, but there's a lot more out there
Yeah that's ture
*true
"Society actively promotes to young boys that violence is the only way to get a girl"
Which society? I do not see that at all.
Tldr. Thanks for giving men the okay, we will now stop trying to be so manly. Because you told us we don’t have to be.
It's just an option Jesus
Nice thoughts but not applies at real life. Only manly men in real life get dates , love, sex , affection. Women do care of other time of men but not when they are young and only one to settle down and nothing else...
Thats majority
Lol, I have long hair and painted nails and I have a wife and kid and a house dude. Just be yourself, whatever that means for you. If a woman doesn't want you cause of something as minor as being your authentic self she's not gonna be a good person to spend your life with
Totally wrong dude.
Well, I'm 19 even been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we wanna get married after school. he wears nail polish and had long hair. I wear suits to my job there's no big deal he's still the man in my life and I would still love him if he showed up in a dress
@ThiccOrc You sound like you have a great life :D and tbh yah, I think sometimes people to blame gender norms when they that's not the case every interaction I've had with a "manly man", he's either tried to assault me or downplay my intelligence so not super keen on that
Heh, I still won't associate with sensitive timid men, I dunno maybe because I'm stoic myself and as a strong woman, I hate to babysit a boy. Yes I am very hard heartened, but that's because I'm a proud feminist!
Everybody says that until there's a Transformer explosion or 30 tons of steel falling your way.
I love how you don't see the irony of a feminist promoting toxic masculinity and shaming "weak" men.
Honey I'm sorry but you're not a feminist, that's literally the opposite of feminism
@Nick568 What irony? Isn't that the perfectly normal, default feminist mindset?
idc.
if any man comes and challenges me I am proving my manliness to the bastard
Sounds Rapey, ngl.
@Ryfyle I was thinking about that
The hardest men I have ever met have always appeared rather modest and polite,,,
If they have to prove it or try to prove it, then they are not manly, just acting.
I would agree with all of this, but add that women dont get to define masculinity for us.
Personally, I think it's just personal it's just you think to figure out and again that the point of my paper, guys should be able to choose for themselves, I don't think that just cause I am a woman saying "hey guys it's cool to just be yourself, you don't have to try so hard". makes it any less
I agree. More often than not though, take this situation for instance. when i was 22 a girlfriend of mine just left me. I was crying. The women in my life told me to "Man the F Up". My friends though took me out and we played pool and blew off steam. Not one single one of them told me to man up... In my life its always been women that wanted to force some kind of idea of masculinity on me, not guys.
That's fair and i do think women do play a role in it, I've never really seen my boyfriend cry even though we've been together for a long time. I know he has cause he does when I cry and when he worries about me, but he's never actually let me see it, I think women need to let the men in their lives be vulnerable, I think it's empowering to cry it's healthy for everyone but regardless, I'm sorry that happened to yah
No disagreement.
"Violence is the only way to get a girl..."
What, really?
I don't understand why manly man linked to violence... I hate this
Good take..
thank you :)
Thank you x x x
Anytime :) real feminism talks about men's issues too 😊
Thank you for this.
Anytime :)
Have a great day :D
You too.
So glad to see you and many other girls here agree with you. Makes me feel better.
Of course, all my best friends are guys and I've over the years gotten to see how bad they get it sometimes, I kinda wish guys wouldn't blame feminism... cuz the reality is gender norms seem to do a lot more harm than good but regardless, I'm happy you feel seen :D that's why I wrote this in the first place for people like you :)
I don't blame feminism for anything. But O do blame me sometimes for not being manly in some situations as I should be. It's just not the way I am. It feels so good to hear that is fine. That I am not less of men for that.
You're not you're just you and that's okay
Again thank you for this.
Yes! I completely agree. God bless you, ma'am.
@Jamie05rhs awn thanks, I'm happy you liked the article 😂💛 sir
Merry Christmas! <3
Merry Christmas :))
Showing emotions as a man isn't feminine at all!
lol agreed, it's natural if men won't meant to cry sometimes then they wouldn't have tear ducts
Right.
and girls shudent either!