Being a so called " bad bitch"

[Anonymous]

I saw the spoken word poem on YouTube called "bad bitch". And one of my favorite part of the was when this man said " Bad bitches is caught up between clubs and churches, bad bitches rather be strippers than nurses.". My problem is this why are you allowing yourself to be treat like a bad bitch. Just because that's the thing you see on TV. So you say to yourself "hey I'm one bad bitch". How about saying " hey I'm one beautiful girl/queen/princess." You do think like this because your mind is so focus on being the top chick. But think about like this. How far is being a bad bitch gonna take you.

This are part I like me was when he said " real ni**** is fucking it up for real man. So to all you man out there thats in the drug game you think just because you got that money you can treat a girl like shit, and call her a bitch and think it's ok. We live in a world today were calling a girl/woman beautiful is a way of being " thirsty". What every happen to the day when we guys would open the door for ladies, making sure the ladies goes ahead of the guy in line.

GUYS AND GIRL y'all NEED TO WAKE UP AND REALIZE THAT LIFE IS GOING TO GET HARDER. LADIES STOP LETTING THESE DUDES CALL YOU A BITCH. GUYS YOU NEED TO STOP CALLING THEM THAT NAME AS WELL.

[PrettyBama]

RESPECTABILITY POLITICS!!! one of the prolems with the black community is that some people want to pretend like we ALL came from royalty! we didint!

people are so pro black but constantly want to belittle the black people who 1. speak 2. act 3. live 4. think differently than they do.

"bad bitches rather be strippers than nurses" that line belittles strippers while praising nurses and erases the fact that most strippers dont aspire to be so.

the word bitch has been reclaimed. just like the word nigga.

[myTake Owner]

As a black male, I see your point. But think about like this. Stop letting this rappers tell u how to live.

[PrettyBama]

what do you think rappers are rapping about though? shit that happens. even if it hasn't happened to them. it happens. lol and even bad bitches go to college. the people who are stripping and hoeing usually dont have a choice so there's no reason to belittle them.

[YourFutureEx]

I liked it. You made good points :-)

[sandyyy_]

But "bitch" is a reclaimed word. Just like some black people say nigga. Of course you wouldn't like it if a white person said nigga to you because white people's history with the word isn't very nice but with your black friends it's cool (i'm assuming you're black). That's just how the word bitch works. If some random person says it to you, it's an insult but if you're calling yourself a bitch, are you harming yourself? You're not using it as an insult and you're not degrading yourself by saying it. And by the way, not everyone has the opportunity or desire to be a nurse.

[Miss_Rendezvous]

This is a complicated topic. "Bitch" can be used to call someone bossy, or crazy, or worthless. People tried coining "bad bitch" as a way to take it back and use it as a term of self power instead of something to degrade.
I mean if a girl wants to be a ceo instead of a stereotypical nurse she'll usually be called a bitch by her employees because women have to asert they're comand and men don't like it.

[Hannah591]

I don't think I'm a bad bitch, I think I'm a bad person. It's a completely different thing. Women should respect themselves more though.

[GlassHeart]

Bitch has been seen over the years as a negative term towards women. rappers use bad bitch to describe a women they dont respect.. But she l

[GlassHeart]

Looks good to them.. Either way its offensive

[Anonymous]

I don't really get the point.

[myTake Owner]

The point I'm tryingnto make is stop letting these disrespectful dudes treat you any type of wayb

[tenofthepeaks]

OK. ... is there a point here?