He picked Video games over me?

[Darkbrowneyes]

Ok, everyone knows how guys want to keep there "guy" rep. And how attached to video games they are.

I am one of those girls who is also a gamer but when it comes to my relationship I like the holding or making funny jokes or playing a good game together.

But this one day he said he wanted to come over to see me and talk and stuff. As soon as he gets to my house he watches my brother play halo 3 for 30mins.

Once my bro got off

My boyfriend started playing halo3 without me. He started playing at 5pm then he got

Off around 8:30pm, he bothered to come up to my room and be all over me when he had to be home by 9. May I add that while he was playing he wanted me to make him food. And get re-fills.

I have been dating

Him for 4months n' two weeks almost three.

And he has never acted this way.

I

Need help or advice or just an opinion

[germanotaku]

Hmm, this is hard to tell from here because we don't know what's going through this guys mind. He might just have totally forgotten the time (though I can't think of why I would forget time on a video game if there is a wonderful girl waiting next to me...).

First, I wouldn't recommend putting too much thought into it. As long as this doesn't happen frequently it should be fine (I think).

But if you feel too uncomfortable with this, you should talk out to him. Tell him that you didn't like what happened "that day" when he were coming to talk to you and then just played video games.

I don't think you mind making him some dinner, do you? If he asked for it nicely it's okay, he just shouldn't command you to do so!

However, what did you do those 3+ hours? Were you talking to him, were you trying to get his attention? Personally I just don't know how I would ignore a girl like that xD

[Darkbrowneyes]

Those 3 hours I was sitting and watching

Him play. He just constantly said "huh" when I tried to

Get him off

[Sirhc001]

B-slap him and ask him what the H E double hockie stick he was thinking. Lol jk

I have seen this kind of situation actually become a problem before though so if you want to fix it, I would recommend talking to him about it soon

[Anonymous]

Tell him its broken lol.. that's what I do with my 6 year old nephew when I dont' feel like playing.

Its a tough situation, the first time my boyfriend did that when I was over, I just got up and left. He stopped right away and realised I wasn't into that and I have better things to do then watch someone play xbox all night. But since its at your house...maybe just ask him to leave, or invite a friend over and you guys hangout .. he will get the point if you don't give him any attention and don't put up with it.

[sunshine2]

Now this is a good answer. I do this with my boyfriend. Just walk away... go do something else like watch a movie or invite a friend over. what she said.

[EmmaTheTomboy]

It Happened to me Im a Gamer but he Plays game i don't have or like and never wants to play with me online :c I told him that he is " picking a game over his best friend" and he replays " Yes yes I am " so when he is done playing Star Wars I Get on a game he doesn't have and say " Im Bussy " like he always does to me and make him suffer for a little then say " HOW DOES IT FEEL? SAD AND LONLY HUH? " and he ill say " yes " and say sorry :/

[Swenzor]

sounds like he got an addiction, a really bad one of those!

I mean I play a lot but I would always pick a girl over a game, its not something you should struggle to choose its a game, its just pixels forming an object and it will still be there after 2-3 weeks break or whatever.

While a beautiful girl whom you have feelings for most likely will not, its not an option really you just pick the girl over the game the game can always wait!

[Blankname1]

Here's a story...

I have two friends who came over to my home to play Playstaion 2(This was when I was like 17 or 18)

They were playing a lot and then there girlfriends came over to see them and they kept on play while leaving them outside just standing there for a few hours.

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This is example of guys picking games over there lover,but it can happen.

If it happens too much,then that's a problem.

Just talk to him about it if it happens too much.

Peace!

[Idontknow72]

We all get lost in a good game every once and awhile, if this is the first time this has happened I wouldn't get too worked up about it. Just let him know that you didn't like it and that you need some attention too.

[girlygirl57]

should just turn the dam tv off or the xbox 360 off that always works.

[Evil_Muska]

No that's dumb. That's going to p*ss him off and start a fight. If ANYONE did that to me, let alone a girl, I'd go off, especially if I was really into it. You don't want to overblow this situation and cause trouble. Just let him know that this is bothering you, talk to him about it.

[sunshine2]

Yes, that's an awful idea.