Why do people act so surprised I'm a virgin at my university?

[Anonymous]

I'm a really social guy on campus and I party, drink and do a lot of vandalism like some college kids. I'm 20 and I know I'm immature I also know I'm going to have fun until actually need to act professional. One thing I don't do is hook up with girls cause I am saving myself for my future wife and people laugh at me for doing that and think Im joking. Im not looking for a relationship cause I'm way to young to be in a relationship and I don't want to be considered a player which I have been called.

[chocolatedragon]

Because a huge majority of college men are not known for valuing their virginity to such an extent. And you're using marriage as a license to fuck which totally undermines the legal concept. Like its only ok to bang once you buy her ring, pay for a 10 hour party and surrender half your fortune her. Losing your virginity should depend on you being ready and being comfortable with the person. The fact that people mix a legal bond with sexual attachment is just sad. But go ahead, keep using marriage as a license to fuck.

[Anonymous]

They laugh because it's the only way they can deal with the shame of wasting their virginity on some unworthy person.

[Asker]

I mean I'm an idiot and I admit and have been called a lot of things but indknt want to be called a player. I don't even talk to girls.

[Opinion Owner]

It's just an air you have about you. Congratulations on keeping yourself pure.

[SirenDep]

that's your choise and people should respect it but there is no need to advertise your virginity. I knew a woman who was telling everybody that she doesn't want to have sex untill she was married, and all I was thinking was 'why do you tell me about it? I didn't ask you about it. I don't care about your love life'.'

[Asker]

Well it comes up when girls approach me and take me back to their place. Or when this one girl said if I gave her alcohol she will sleep with me. I told her no and she asked why i said saving myself for the right person. She laughed and walked to the next door.

[SirenDep]

it's your choise and if a woman really loves you she has to respect it, or else she is free to go.

[Anonymous]

Yo I wish I could meet a guy like you!!!

I think that's so sweet and thoughtful that you're saving yourself. I'm a waiting virgin too. People at my college aren't too surprised that I'm a virgin since I'm hella awkward.

I'd be surprised a social party guy isn't a virgin too

[musicbrain5]

Forget those people and be proud. I was a virgin for the first three years of university and was thought of as a stuck up prude for it. I had never even kissed a guy.

[jointhepatriarchy]

Because they're all whores and your chastity makes them feel bad about it, basically.

[moviedude714]

I would have kept it a secret dude

[Asker]

Ya word spreads fast in college she told me very one lol.