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Men or women? Who should be in charge? (Page 2)

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  • Dakoin
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    I think both genders should be equal in the relationship. Now sexually, that's another thing :-)

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    • mooper
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      it was different before 1900. your right, both men and women are in charged.

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  • pikachu1sarah
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    Whoever has the most experience, the gender shouldn't matter.

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  • FurtileSpermRelease
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    Women are always incharge if you haven't noticed. Next time your dick gets hard, thank the woman incharge.

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  • epiman94
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    We need both. Otherwise, all hell and everyother wicked thing would break loose and hit the fan.

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  • Yaeza
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    You are also an idiot if you think that one should be in charge of the other.

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  • FlukenLuke
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    i don't think either gender should be dominant. i think everyone should be "in charge" of themselves.

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  • dudeman
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    If you want to see what its like for women to be the majority vote and head of household. Look at the inner city ghettos. Violent and poor as shit.

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    • Roycaryn
      Roycaryn
      +1 y

      Poverty causes fatherlessness, not the other way around.

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    • SomeGuy37
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      I would argue that 'Irresponsibility' contributes to poverty, with dead-beat dads not manning up, and caring for their kids.
      Poverty is the result, not the cause, or enemy.

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  • Koji8123
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    Both (side by side) should be an option.

    Therefore neither?

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  • chrisbigman
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    Um... well, yes. A man should be obedient to the woman and a woman should be obedient to a man. My answer is both men and women.

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  • Anonymous
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    It depends from their personality type, but I would prefer women, especially those who are organized.

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  • misscocobutter
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    Why does anyone have to obey anyone? Weird question dude

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  • aamy811
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    Why can't they both be in charge, both have good qualities. But I do think men would be better

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  • bunnyy
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    As a feminist I would say both options are wrong. WE need more equality to be able to thrive.

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  • Anonymous
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    I think they should discuss everything. Unless one is a good expert in one thing and the other in another thing. Otherwise it's like secluding one of them from the relationship

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  • Anonymous
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    I am one of the clueless guys when it comes to being social and all of that garbage. But in all realism it's mutual and is equal depending on the situation

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  • drb125
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    Xper 5 Age: 32 , mho 65%
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    Depends on the dynamics of the relationship. That being said "happy wife=happy life"

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  • notgoodwithnames
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    Xper 6 Age: 26 , mho 64%
    +1 y

    they should be equal. for example they should divide everything between them

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  • SecretSomeone
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    The human being with a functioning brain and good intentions should be the one in control, either that human being was a male or a female.

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  • silver_mirror
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    The man is the pilot and the lady is the co-pilot. That's how God made it. I would re-word it as, " the man is the leader" and they both work together.

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  • RayLe
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    I was in few relation ships but i know whoever has a more, outlooking and planning personality is in charge. I have been on both ends; Both were good times.

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  • MakeitOrDieTrying
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    Definitely men... I've seen countless girls freak out over small things and unable to hold their composure. A lot of guys do that but those are the beta ones who "cry like little bitches".

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  • Anonymous
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    Guys should have the final say in the relationship (once married), but I would wanna be able to be in control during sex lol

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    • kep79
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      what do you mean by that?

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    • Anonymous
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      By what? That guys should have the final say? I mean that you should discuss it as a couple, but the guy gets to make the final decision on things.

      Reply
  • ConfusedGrocer
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    Xper 7 Age: 25
    +1 y

    The intelligent ones, duh.

    Sexist fucks = Feminazis

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  • moviedude714
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    i voted Men because thats what the vast majority of women expect and want, but i wonder if 50/50 is possible, like taking turns

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I'm submissive, so I say - girls should be in charge.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I would like to see how women would handle it, because men sure a doing a shitty job.

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      Yeah its not like we created civilization or quantum physics which gives us the modern age. If women were in charge we would live in mud huts

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    • Anonymous
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      +1 y

      Sure, all the wars we have are not because men are greedy and proud.
      Women didn't invent much, because we weren't seen as equal to men until recently, we weren't allowed to do anything, and no one would listen to a woman.

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  • MsAnthropist
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    Xper 6 Age: 48 , mho 65%
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    Why can't we be equals?

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    • MsAnthropist
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      Is this seriously that hard of a concept? Why do men have to submit to and obey women? Why would women have to submit to and obey men?

      I submit to no one, by the way. I'm my own person and nobody is the boss of me but me. The same goes for my husband. I don't boss him around. He doesn't boss me. Neither of us are "in charge", we're partner and friends. He has strengths in certain areas, and I have strengths in others.

      This "in charge" bullshit is really juvenile. How old are you? 16? Try having a grown up relationship.

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    • MsAnthropist
      MsAnthropist
      +1 y

      Ohhhhh, I see now. The yoga pants. You're into forced submission and feminization. Gotcha.

      Reply
    • clampfan101
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      @MsAnthropist well said. I agree. :)

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    • SecretSomeone
      SecretSomeone
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      Because there is always that one person with a dominance fetish but too shy to admit it so he\she just say that his gender is the one that should be in control.

      Reply
    • MsAnthropist
      MsAnthropist
      +1 y

      But that's a case by case basis. You can't make sweeping generalizations about ALL men or women. I was the dominant partner in previous relationships, but to say that all women should be in charge is ludicrous.

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  • thinkdothink
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    Xper 5 Age: 65
    +1 y

    It depends on personalities, birth order, life experiences. Some men and some women are good leaders, and some men and some women are better followers. And some are better at equality and give and take.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    In general men make better leaders. In my experience most women believe that too; they are just reluctant to say so publicly. Most women HATE female bosses, for example.

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  • HenryHark
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    Xper 4 Age: 36
    +1 y

    It's been shown through out history many times that women should be in charge. Men are just to mean to let them do anything I guess.

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  • Klaatu51
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    Master Age: 34 , mho 33%
    +1 y

    i'm a submissive guy so... girls XD

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  • ghostsandfireworks
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    Xper 5 Age: 34 , mho 34%
    +1 y

    Both, we work better when we work together

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Its and equal partnership. Neither should be in charge.

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  • MattJaylen
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    Xper 5 Age: 31
    +1 y

    i think it should be equal but i voted females cause they are usually right

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  • thisiscreativity
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    Xper 4 Age: 26
    +1 y

    I think it's cool if the man is in charge, but not like a boss. Just a manly guy who can take care of his girl.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Why did you exclude the 50/50 option? Means either you are full of crap, or you like being emasculated.

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I think men should be in charge, and women should be obedient. It just works better that way

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  • Shaun0fthedeaD
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    Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 55%
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    Equality, brother. We're all humans.

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  • Uriahrk47
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    Xper 5 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Neither. Fuck it. Lets be equal.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Both can be in charge by sharing responsibilities. Why asker didn't mention the third option?

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  • Victoria_xoxo
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    Xper 6 Age: 34
    +1 y

    I want a man to be in charged

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  • kittykatbrat
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    Yoda Age: 36
    +1 y
    634 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

    ... neither.
    I believe in total self agency.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    In my opinion, the best way is Dutch treatment, you don't take advantage of each other, someday when you break up, you will have no money disputes.

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  • MJas16
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    Explorer Age: 29
    +1 y

    doesn't really matter. It should be equal

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  • SpareMeYourBs
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    Xper 5 Age: 48 , mho 53%
    +1 y

    it's not some kind of game. It should be equal

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    I can't be arsed. Women. lol

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  • Pinkbeauty
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    I think it should be guys cause guys can be smart

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    • Bysshe
      Bysshe
      +1 y

      Seriously?

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    • ShaeNielson
      ShaeNielson
      +1 y

      .. And women can't?

      Reply
    • kep79
      kep79
      +1 y

      she has the right to want a guy to be in charge of her

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    • Pinkbeauty
      Pinkbeauty
      +1 y

      well woman can be smart to but i would think that guys are probably smarter

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  • atomique
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    +1 y

    The most qualified should be in charge

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Neither should be completely in charge. Everyone should be equal

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    • mooper
      mooper
      +1 y

      you got it. CIVIL RIGHTS

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  • AdamThomas
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    +1 y

    I'm in charge. Submissive men make me cringe.

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  • DumpliingPrincess
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    +1 y

    Why can't we just be equal?

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    • SomeGuy37
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      +1 y

      I agree. Why does one have to be dominant? What happened to mutual trust, love, compassion. . .

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  • clampfan101
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    Master Age: 38
    +1 y
    1K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

    Shouldn't both have equal power?

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  • 275153
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    +1 y

    I like a woman who lets me be dominant.

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  • Fernanda_Aristegui
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    +1 y

    Men should be in charge.

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  • HoneyButterCup525
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    Yoda Age: 34
    +1 y

    Women lol it would be Much better for us.

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  • Iron_Man u
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    10.5K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

    Men are

    ,,,,,,,,,,

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Why are there no other options.

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  • phantasy
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    BOTH of them i think !

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  • Morava
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    It takes all kinds.

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  • SomethingWicked
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    Equal partnership.

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