Why is it the most sweet hearted people are the most mistreated?

[Anonymous]

I was once a sweethearted girl no coldness towards others what so ever. Until I hit 10 years old I bullied people for most of my life on a regular basis. I got defensive when I got called a bully too. But I played the victim card and I still do. But why is it sweethearted people get treated so badly by others they have to turn into a bully? Not saying all do but I am saying kids who are a bit different, stand out somehow, have a learning problem, etc.

[micheal727jovanie]

I used to be inoccent and make people laugh once I hit high school I was a loner distant with my own friends. Why do people do it is because they are the easiet person to take advantage of.

[Anonymous]

Because being different is a sin.

[Account]

I've never met any truly sweet hearted person. They are like... dinosaurs or something.

[Asker]

Oh there out there. Real people are dinosaurs.

[FallenAngel92]

I don't know any good hearted people who turned into bullies?

[Asker]

Well I grew up being bullied by my family members. I was a very sweet and caring girl but abuse that I endure changed me for the worst.

[FallenAngel92]

I'm sorry that happened to you, but you need to find that kindness and sweetness in yourself again. Be better than the people who abused you, don't be just like them and let the cycle continue.

[Asker]

It is not that easy. It changes your personality as well as misfortune.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Because sweethated people forgive. If people know you're gonna fight back, if people think they will pay for bad behaviour in return , they don't mistreat you.

[Anonymous]

I've refused to become a bully because I know how it feels to be bullied
But I am someone who is honestly kind and sweet, yet I always seem to get all of life's shit and I don't know why

[gobsmacked3]

Because most people do not respect kindness, and instead see it as weakness to be exploited

[dartmaul15]

Bingo. This is why.

Sadly it means you either have to pick who to be nice to, or be tricked until you harden...

[the1998]

I don't know maybe your a jerk and your just making excuses maybe you were always a jerk

[Asker]

Lmao at least I passed English class. It is you're not your.

[the1998]

😂 lmao i don't bully people

[Asker]

Bully others or be bullied for being overly nice/different. People are cruel in today's world.