Slept with my sister's husband and now pregnant. help?

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My sister and I are BFF. I am married and she is also married. A few months ago, I hosted a party while my DH was away. My sister and her husband came. After awhile, my sister left. When everybody was gone. It was just my sister's husband and I. We drinking wine at the private pool. Flirting and touching each other. One thing led to the next and we slept. I am currently pregnant with my sister's husband's child and only he and I know about this. My husband was very excited when he heard the news that I was having a child and he becoming a Dad. 

Please don't hate. 
What should I do?

front2back · Accepted Answer

Glad I'm not a fuck up.

One way or another the truth is going to come out. Sorry, you're an adult, it's responsibility time. So here's a list of what your (and his) actions will cause:
•Destroy your marriage and his.
•Destroy your friendship with your sister.
•Tear your entire family apart.
•If you choose to keep your kid (I'm not giving my opinion on if you should or shouldn't), he'll grow up in a very broken childhood and family. No one in your family will love him. He'll just be a permanent, living reminder of everything I listed above. If you do give birth to him, even the adoption world will be better than any life he'll have.
•I hope you like getting a divorce and all the financial/legal problems that follow it.

Obviously, this is some pretty heavy stuff. These aren't problems you can just runaway from, mentally, physically, or legally. You're going to have to face the facts and come out with the truth. It gets no better from this point on, so you might as well keep your eyes open as your life drives straight off a cliff.

So after a year or so, after all of this fallout has settled down, what will you do? I don't know, that's a good question. My suggestion is to leave whatever life you have, and move up to North Dakota to work in the oil industry. You can get good money to keep going on with life and start anew. Plus there's plenty of men up there so you can find another husband. Then try not to make the same mistake again.

BertMacklinFBI · Accepted Answer

okay im either gonna say you're under 18 how the fuck are you even married to begin with or im gonna say this is what fucking happens when underage kids want to get hitched off of impulse. you know what ill say both.

as for some real advice, tell EVERYBODY, cause you're obviously gonna need the support since you're probably still in high school.

bee-tee-dubs im obviously assuming you reside in the states.

Random_chick_2384 · Accepted Answer

Ok so your thing says under 18... Man life must move fast were u live. And honesty is always the best policy but that would total screw up your life. But there is nothing else really to do unless u lie about it then everyone finds out what happen when the baby doesn't look like him. And this is really horrible. He guys Both cheated and u used your sister Man U messed up her life too! Wow good job👍

Sophie_x · Accepted Answer

So. You're under eighteen years old and not only are you married but you also slept with your sister/bff's husband and gotten pregnant... Girl I'm fifteen going on sixteen and I've never even kissed. But I think you should explain it. And if it even is an option get the child aborted.

Hidden_P · Accepted Answer

Under 18 and married. Right. If this isn't bullshit I'll be surprised.

Anyway. You either have the child and pretend it's your husbands.

Or you have an abortion and claim a miscarriage.

Or you tell the truth.

Which do you like?

CommieDearest · Accepted Answer

They grow up so fast

5k1nny · Answer

Are you serious? Jesus, and people wonder why I have a negative view of humanity, if this is for real you deserve no sympathy or advice on how to deal with the situation you screwed up, what did you think would happen, screwing your SISTER'S husband, I know you probably didn't expect a pregnancy but oh well, maybe it's a funny way of God repaying you for being a low, immoral whore, but you reap what you sow.

TripleAce · Answer

Amazing, absolutely amazing... love it. You are such a clever little one aren't ya huh

What should you do? why are you asking us, you and your new bf decided to play tootsie roll and now your all excited for the new little brat thats about to come in your life... Kids raising kids

What are you really asking us?

Anonymous · Answer

Why you shouldn't let your husband to have sex on next few days and let him cum inside. If you dont you have a problem ahead. Better way to abort it otherwise you have many problems ahead. Talked to your husband properly if he really knows it is not his baby.

I did had sex with my brothers wife when we both drunk, she was on the critical dates and told me to pull it out. But as it was the first time with her we had long and fantastic orasm. We both forget about it and just finished inside her but she didn't complain as she was really happy on the pleasure she got.

I called her and remind her to do with her husband on the following days. She did and she succeeded and no one knows about it. if you do mistake you must know how to hide before others know about it unless dont do it.

Bandit74 · Answer

"I am currently pregnant with my sister's husband's child and only he and I know about this" This sounds like a plot to a Lifetime movie :D

Klaatu51 · Answer

damn... why people don't use condoms to avoid studd like that? anyway better tell your sister because she;ll find it out anyway...:-/

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Hmmm... I smell a troll.  Back under the bridge you go now.

justwannatalk · Answer

You have fucked up, and your sisters husband has fucked up. You both are going to cause strife in the family no matter what. Own up to what you've done. You can do it here or on Maury, you decide.

Star_Lord · Answer

Well, I don't hate you and I don't judgue you, Because this kind of things happen in a party , It really normal. But I hope that guy he can take some responsibility for you and his child. But you have to find a way explain to your sister. Maybe it will cause you and your sister friendship bond broken. But I also hope you can get some help from your famliy. It must be so hard for you, Plus you are under 18, Raise a child not so easy.

26ukdude · Answer

Its called karma for cheating on your husband and betraying your sister, potentially ruining 2 relationships, well done

Rcjh1987 · Answer

clearly you aren't BFF with your sister, you didn't think of that before sleeping with HER HUSBAND. you made your bed your going to have to reap the consequences.

zorro8888 · Answer

How old are you? I don't even know if I can believe this yet...

Mesonfielde · Answer

Congratulations! Why do you even HAVE a husband under the age of 18? Abortion is an option, of course. Do whatever you wish.

yourfriendforever · Answer

Your under 18 and married? :O
Option1-Just carry the guilt all your life
Nobody would ever come to know about it untill your sisters's husband or you tell anyone about it
Option 2-tell your sister and your husband as well and may be spoil all 4 of you guys' family life
A condom if had been used at proper time was the best solution though

Anonymous · Answer

We'll make sure there's no possibility that it can be your husbands baby , assuming you guys have sex? Do the math? When was the last time you had sex with you husband before you found out you was pregnant, same for your sister husband then see how far along are you with the baby , figure out before you say something just to make sure

Anonymous · Answer

If this is a troll please fuck off... and if this is not then hell with you... just go and die somewhere... and please don't even bother to post questions where you are showing you disgusting and slutty character...
I have had enough of you slutty whores...😬😬😠

BumbleDeev · Answer

This is why you don't get married when you're a teenager..
Sorry but I'm not going to feel sorry for you, it was your own damn fault. Just tell your sister, and your husband. Good job ruining 2 relationships and the friendship between your sister

Yeatts · Answer

Uh huh my troll sensors are dinging saying "trollololol alert trollolololol alert"  Yeah try harder 18 and married that is not happening... Unless you live in India.

AsianFace · Answer

Tell someone before it's too late. If you wait too long, things will only be worse. It's better to deal with it now, then have it worse in the future. I'll be hoping for you.

Findingmyway · Answer

Go play in the sandbox.. Troll..  And if it is real... Well.. No words for you accept karma..

Unit1 · Answer

Obvious hate for being 1. Under 18 In combination with being married and 2. nd cheating. Congratulations bitch. You are a failure. Deal with it.

Slept with my sister's husband and now pregnant. help?

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