I haven't talked to my boyfriend in a week.

[Anonymous]

I haven't talked to my boyfriend in a week.But I know he's been busy the last few weeks.But everyone keeps telling me negative response.So its worrying me a lot I can't leave him any voice mail because it been full from me.Anyways so yesterday after school I looked and found his mom's cell phone number and I called her up.And I told her I was worried about him because I didn't here from him she told me he was good and he was just really busy with school.Doing homework, projects, band etc. But she told me she would tell him I called but that night he never called.What should I do? He has done this before I'm just so worried just tell me what you think? I think I get all upset for nothing and he is just busy.

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he always returns my calls I do just think he is busy and hasn't been checking he's phone.And I know calling he's mom wasn't good but I though something bad happened.

[mayjune22]

Honestly, it sounds like he's trying to 'phase you out.' No matter how busy a guy is, it doesn't take too long to send a text or call you once in a while to remind you that he's thinking of you, or still interested. If he's not returning your calls or making an effort to talk to you, it sounds like he's done. Sometimes guys are cowards and are too scared to break up with a girl, so they stop calling or act like jerks to try and get the girl to end things. I'm not sure calling his Mom was the best move either, that might just freak him out a little. Sorry :(

[Asker]

Yeah I knew it wasn't the best thing but I thought he died LOL...

[Rachael88]

You have to leave it, if he wants you he will call! Its hard but try and be patient, don't chase him!