What does it mean when a guy calls you "Wifey material"?

[Anonymous]

I told a guy I could cook and, bake. He replied by sending a long message. (I'm not going to quote exactly what he said word for word but, basically just sum it up) Did u know you Wifey material your so down to earth and out of every girl I met I'm glad I met you and I'm not just saying that I mean it your beautiful nice and sweet and I would do anything to keep you happy whenever you need me I will be here for you wherever I'm at. I just don't know what I did to make him say all of this.

[OlderAndWiser]

You revealed your domestic side and showed that you are not just interested in a boyfriend who takes you to fancy dinners and good concerts.

[Asker]

Awww okay. That is true

[OlderAndWiser]

If I was 18 years old, you are the kind of girl I would be chasing after! Don't change what you are. Love yourself, embrace being who you are, be confident, and you will have many guys waiting to face your daddy and the shotgun at the front door.

[Asker]

Omg 😂😂 lol. Thanks you

[TupacShakur]

He either really loves you or just wants to hit and ditch

[Asker]

He can't love me. We haven't met in person yet.

[TupacShakur]

Well that makes it different. He just sounds like a creep and you prolly shouldn't talk to him anymore.

[Asker]

😂 Well, we talk a lot. Video chat etc. We met through my cousin. We call each other bae
n stuff so it's not that creepy lol

[TupacShakur]

Hopefully... But always keep an eye open 👀. You never know when something can go left. Good luck

[tomboy41]

Your a good prospect for marriage. Looks like you won't get left on the shelf for too long.

[Asker]

Hopefully not😊

[Deezyy]

It means you got it!! 😉 👌
Men love a domesticated woman.

[Asker]

Awww okay😊

[mangaka92]

He thinks you'd be a great wife. That's basically one of the best compliments you can get from a guy.

[Asker]

Oh, well I'm flattered😊

[mangaka92]

Yeah, "wife material" is a good thing to be called. :)

[Saydou]

He means you are very good and potential wife to him or someone else, usually when we call a girl wife material it means she is very good human being aka almost perfect.

[Asker]

We have never met in person yet. We only texted and, sent videos. We met through my cousin. We live in the same state but, I'm kind of scared to meet up.

[Saydou]

Just be careful with that meeting, specially if he is older than you (5+ years).

[Asker]

He's a year older. I feel a bit safer because, my cousin knows him but, I don't want to meet him alone.

[Saydou]

Good option, another option is meet him public place.

[Asker]

Yea, he was talking about meeting at a mall.

[Saydou]

Looks like he is calm too, All the best :)

[Asker]

Thank you.😊

[Saydou]

It's my pleasure

[Phoenix98]

It means you have the skills necessary to make a good mother and wife in other words wife material.

[Asker]

Aww okay😊

[Prof_Don]

This means he finds u as relationship material and possibly marriage material! 8-)

[Asker]

Aww okay😊

[Prof_Don]

Yup... all good stuff!

[front2back]

It means you'd be an amazing wife.

He probably still only wants to get in your pants though...

[Asker]

Oh no.😞 why would he only want to get in my pants?

[Anonymous]

Means he wants you to think he takes you seriously.

[Asker]

Think? Meaning he actually doesn't?

[Opinion Owner]

I think if a dude actually says that to you it's contrived and not truthful.

[Asker]

Really? Why would a guy lie about something like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, to make you think he sees you a certain way, it's a compliment- a compliment is usually paid to ingratiate.

[Asker]

Oh great.😢 A guy just broke my heart. I really hope this guy isn't playing games. This is why I have trust issues.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't worry about it, having a bit of healthy skepticism is a good thing! Lots of people out there are manipulative and if you can spot some tricks it saves you some heartache.

[Asker]

Yea but, I can't tell. Like it feels so real but, I've been hurt in the past.

[bloodmountain1990]

He sees you as someone with potential to be his wife.

[Anonymous]

Man has 3 basic needs eating sleeping sex and a good cook is always a plus

[Asker]

Okay, good to know.

[Dipsy]

Does this even need explaination?

[Asker]

Yes...

[Dipsy]

Sigh.. What is your iq lol?

Men are very direct, and unlike women, they mean what they say (in the sense of they say what they want).
So if he says he sees you as wifey material, he sees you as a good future wife for him. Was that so hard lol? ;P
(In short: he likes you)

[Asker]

I don't know my iq but, I'm an honor roll student and, at the top of my class. I mean I understand, I just wanted to know if guys could tell if he really meant it or not. Thanks for explaining.

[Dipsy]

I was joking about the iq ;P

If i would say such a thing to a girl i would mean it. Maybe you could tell what kind of guy he is? Is he trustworthy etc? Because if he has the reputation of a player then he might not mean it.

[Asker]

Oh okay lol. I don't know much about him. We haven't met in person yet. We met through my cousin. They were talking but, she was playing him because, she's a thot.

[Dipsy]

Im not English or American, but a thot is a girl who has lots of sex partners right?
If the guy isn't like that, then he should mean it I think

[Asker]

Yes, a thot is slang for a hoe. I hope he's not a player.

[Dipsy]

You can probably ask the girl (cousin) what his personality is like (i think its best not to ask directly if he is a player :p )

[Asker]

True but, she has a big mouth

[Dipsy]

Well if she is your cousin, you can try to have a very private conversation togethet. Then everyone will be more truthful, once you both told each other some secrets during the conversation i think

[Pyrofox]

It's a huge compliment

[Asker]

How do you know if he's being legit?

[Pyrofox]

Trust me your probably super mature for your age. On top of that you can cook geez enough said. guys don't just throw your wifey material around to just any old girl. Most of all he's impressed cause cooking is a skill one is ether are good at or one is sooo bad you can "burn water" ha-ha. For me cooking isn't important but for guys who can't cook more than Mac and cheese. They would treat you with sooo much respect you would get mad at him lol.

[Asker]

Haha wow well I'm glad I can cook

[Pyrofox]

Now enjoy yourself be happy and most of all live your life like its the last day.

[Asker]

Thank you😊 I should start doing that more.