Games to spice up a Relationship?

[Owl_from_Mars]

I want to bring a little more spice into my relationship. Any ideas for games? I have looked it up on the net, but only found games to spice up a couples sex life. I don't want that, I am looking for games to bring fun back into my relationship. We have been together 3 1/2 years. I am 15 he is 16 now. I want games to bring the playful aspect back. Rather then watching him fit into my coat and run off lol. Much thanks!

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Kissing games might be good, we ave been far past 2nd base. ummm games that could be played in a wood, or park, with tons of trees, :)

[Anonymous]

I have been thinking of playful type of activities that are not specifically sexual, & do not require conversation, just to get to KNOW someone & I do not see why the same thing could not be used when you already know someone.

I do not know what your monetary situation is, a few require an initial + or - $10 - but just once -then you have them .. E- bay could work too.

So. let me think - This will help me too :-)

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Do you have a basketball court. You could have hoop shooting contest- the winner gets a kiss, or some non sexual prize.

I inadvertently started making up a sign language the other day, cause I could not get my point across by speaking, but I realized it has an advantage of NO OE understanding what you guys are talking about.

Frisbee, tossing is a great way to relax - I actually like to meditate with it, just follow the flow- or switch it up to the real game & it becomes challenging.

Swimming, do you have a gym, or y or something nearby- water games are ALWAYS fun,& it is so safe as far as impact.

Try learning Qi GONG, TI CHI or AKIDO or something similar. You would have fun & have another skill, & another means of protection. (Akido, is based on BLOCKING your opponent, not harming them, Tai Chi & Qi Gong are for meditation focus & improving the flow of energy, & strength. THo I think Tai Chi can be used to protect yourself. ) You could just get DVD, don't even HAVE to go to a class, tho if there are any it might be fun cause you could meet mutual people that way.

Roller Blading.. Roller Blade are a bit expensive, but yu get them once then that is it, tho if it is winter where you are , I suppose that limits you a bit, for a while.

If it IS winter where you are, SLED RIDING.. FUN FUN FUN for everyone. Everyone likes to sled ride.

Soccer, just kicking it & getting a goal & a prize could be fun.

Do you have any trees around, you could climb treats.. YOU could leave little presents secured on a branch & the other person has to find it.

Blind fold someone & they have to find you. Or find something you have left out for them to find.

Painting sketching or sculpting.. Any kind of art really, you have fun & a souvenir of your game / time spent together.

Learn a language, that you both like, languages are usually fun. & You have to figure out what the other person means.

Regular old catch, is a nice way to relax & it is easy & direct & requires O preparation what soever & the ball could be soft so you could do tons of stuff with it.

If you have a 'Pilates Ball', there are all sorts of balance games that you cold invent , that could be solo or involve someone else.

Soft ball, that is fun & you could use a kiddie ball if you do not want to focus & just have fun.

Make a Snow Man - if it is Winter.

Build Something Together :-)

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[Johneyson]

Games... I'm not sure you'll find any beyond sexual games. Maybe you need to change things up, do some things that you haven't done yet or haven't done in a long time. I can't say what these will be, so you may have to think on that or look something up. I'll have some ideas in a sec though.

Have you guys made it to first base yet (french kissing or making out). It might not be what your looking for, but it will bring some life to the relationship, and you won't be crossing that many sexual lines. Just only do it if you both are comfortable with the idea. It will definitely bring spice, but just be careful, hormones are tricky and can be stronger than you want them to be.

As far as activities, try going for walks (beach if you are close, park, etc.), go to the movies, hang out at the mall, have dinner, maybe an arcade if you both like that. Switch between each others houses, watch movies that you both like or haven't seen, play some video games you both like that are multi player, etc. (and sorry if none of these things are helpful, just some thoughts).

Lastly, have you talked to him about it, because he might have some ideas or he should be able to help, he is you boyfriend after all.

Hope this was helpful. Good luck

[Owl_from_Mars]

We have gone almost all the way, 1st base is a thing of the past. We often walk to the park, we both live near parks, we switch between houses everything you have listed. The whole coat thing, was last week, at the park near his place. I am looking for games, kinda lijke party games, maybe kissing games :)

[Johneyson]

Well kissing games won't be too much easier to find. You could try making out in the park (someplace different that usual). You said you've almost gone all the way, does that include oral/fingering/etc., cause that could also be a place to go.

Maybe take a regular board games and changes the rules to make it more sexual (poker for favors, sex yahtzee [roll one dice with different favors for each number, and it doesn't have to be intercourse], any regular party game with different rules)

[Owl_from_Mars]

We have done everything but intercourse. Not intercourse becuase I have not grown enough in that area yet :(. It needs to be a game we can play in the woods, and preferalbly not a board game. I want to it to not be sexual. More flirty fun. We have enough sex, I am looking for something that isn't really about sex, I want a fun physical game, without sexual favors as a part of it.

[Johneyson]

Ok. Well, don't underestimate the fun of some of those child games (hide and seek, etc.). You might enjoy it, might not, just a thought. Hm...

Do either of you have a dog? You can take him/her for a walk or run, play in the park (sorry if you don't have one or already do this).

I don't have much else for you right now, but I'll think on it.

Also, like I said, ask him. Make him aware of your feelings and thoughts, ask him for ideas or his thoughts; He is your best ally in this question.

[Owl_from_Mars]

Okay, Thank you so much, neither of us have a dog. But you have been very helpful, & supportive :) Thanks again, I will talk to him about this, and I think we will try some of the older games.

[MrWizard]

I suggest finding something new to try together. My high school girlfriend and I took a ceramics class together after school. That was something new, different, and fun to do. An art class? coed sports team? a pickup sport? start a band? What suits the two of you?

BTW: Everyone has to deal with this in relationship for the rest of their lives.

[Cheshire_cat]

You're too young to be worrying about spicing up a relationship.

[ladyrose70422]

if you are 15 and he's 16 you should be concentrating on your educate not sex...like I tell my own 16 year old daughter and not be into sex til your 18...

[Owl_from_Mars]

I am not talking about sex. I am talking about a fun activity. I don't want the games to be sexual. Just fun and flirty.

[dctrhu]

I'm not sure ^education^ is quite was she had in mind :/