Are games over text a good way to build rapport and nurture attraction with a girl?

[Anonymous]

This girl is already interested in me. She's agreed to go on a date with me, but thus far, we haven't found a good time for it. I met her at work (I'm a bouncer, she was a customer). We chatted a few times before I eventually asked for her snapchat.

I feel like if we end up having to wait 3 weeks to meet up, she'll get bored and lose interest. But, im really bad at texting. I figured playing games like truth or dare, or would you rather over text would give me branches to flirt off of and sexualize. To keep her interested/increase her interest.

Any players out there have feedback on this idea, is it stupid, or will it be helpful?

[meetkitty123]

🤦 omg you want to snatch that sexual attraction fast you better do more than flirt. You got to get into her head. JUST invite her to do things virtually. You can watch a movie over Netflix. Make sure its a free movie and if its not offer to pay the small rental fee (or dont) there's also card games you can play online. Ask her if there are any games she likes to play. Me personally... I like Nintendo I also own a PlayStation. Im really into a silly innocent game called Wildcraft but now a days there's Roblox and Minecraft.

If she's not a gaming girl have a virtual date. You offer to buy her dinner having it delivered at her door (or not) she can get her own food but the main point is you ask her "over" for a virtual dinner date. Set the phone computer or tablet in a spot in front of your meal and eat together virtually. You can keep it casual or whip out a candle and a glass of wine...

The point is if you want the girl you need to stand out from other men. Find something unique. When I couldn't be with my boyfriend due to distance we would vid chat... Go for walks or jogs together... Go out for coffee... Or even found movies that started at the same time in our separate locations and we did everything over vid. Its possible today and you are only as limited to the extent of your imagination.

[spartan55]

@meetkitty123
Very interesting and creative approach to dating. Do you think that is better for a ldr situation, or local leading up to an IRL meeting.

[meetkitty123]

@spartan55
I think it can work for both. Some people can be quite busy between work or school or both. So it can work out for people with extremely busy sechedules or long distance.

[spartan55]

No, no, no... nail that date down ASAP and do not try to get to know her by text or (even worse) stupid Snapchat. If you know you aren't good at something (like texting) then take that tool out of the bag.

[Asker]

How do I nail down a date, if she's not quite interested enough/too busy to commit to a day?

[spartan55]

Did you ask her on a date after you got her Snapchat, or at the same time?

[Asker]

After. She said yes, but upon trying to set a day, she explained that she's not sure when she has time. Due to various commitments

[spartan55]

Oh no... that means she really doesn't want to go out with you. I HATE IT when women do that shit. Instead of just declining in the first place, they agree, and then pull shit like this. It's happened to me a few times over the years... sucks.

[Asker]

Given how much effort she has put in to me, I would be inclined to disagree. She's too invested to just be an attention seeker.

[spartan55]

Hey, I hope I'm wrong! So how is she not able to set aside 1-2 hours this coming week to go get a drink (or whatever you are planning) for your date?

[Asker]

For starters, I work 6 days per week, and work mid-day, evening and night. So that cuts down the available time frame to 2-3 days (Monday, Wednesday night, or Sunday evening). She also has a job, which at the moment has an erratic schedule, because she's resigning. She also has various other appointments throughout the week. So I genuinely do believe it's difficult to schedule given that context.

I'm just trying to maintain her interest until we can find a time frame that fits.

[In_Trance]

I don't think so