I HATE my sister in law with a PASSION, and I know she doesn't like me or my family either. What to do?

[Anonymous]

I am fed up with my sister in law. She's the most manipulative person I have ever met, she is constantly manipulating my brother and because of her fault my brother is not as close to our family like he was before he met her. She keep manipulating him to like her family more. I keep my distance, but every second I find out she is throwing low blows from a distance. She always has my families name in her mouth. I am sick of her shit.

[Anonymous]

No one can make your brother keep the distance from his family if he doesn't want to. You can blame her all you want and she might be manipulating him, but it's not just her. I have this relative who hasn't seen her son in like ten years. We all know that his wife doesn't want him to talk with his family, but when it comes down to it, it's really up to him, not her. So you shouldn't waste your time hating her. Better use it to honestly talk with your brother and tell him how you feel.

[InfoBot]

Kill her. Make it look like an accident. Spread butter on the stairs.

Okay, don't do that o_O

Seriously though, there's nothing that you can do. We have to accept our family's choices, even if we don't like them. He is a big boy and can work things out for himself. If he lets her pull him away from his family then that says as much about him as it does about her. Give him time to see her for what she really is which, if it's as bad as you say, he will surely do in time.

[Jager66]

play a joke on her and make her believe that you want to have sex with her. Then she will always feel uncomfortable around you and you can have some lulz at her expense.