Why do I hate my sister so much? anyone can relate?

[my_name_is_name]

I can't stand her bitchy behavior, we were never close and it keeps getting worse as we grow older, we all live together, i can't look at her, she pisses me off so much, i have bent up anger inside me from years of abuse.

i can't hear her voice and cringe when i hear her name, yes its that bad!

i literally have much more love to strangers on the street than her, would literally cheer up if she disappears.

this can be due to still living at home in my 20s and had been single for a really long time, all the frustration building up in me making me so bitter and rude to all my family especially my sister who's also in her 20s.

[Mynameisbobby]

I can relate to what you're saying! After my dad died my older sister would beat me up everyday for no reason. She always hated me because I'm a boy so did my mother who let my sister do whatever she wanted to me. She always said I must have done something to provoke her but I never did! I'd be in my room and she would come in screaming accusing me of stealing stuff from her room, then she'd find it and never once apologized to me. She went to prison for abusing me and my mother said it was my fault for reporting her to my uncle who adopted me when I was 13. She was older and bigger than me so I really couldn't fight back. Today I have ptsd and so much anxiety from her abuse. She got out of prison in April and I'm always afraid she will find me. I haven't spoken to her or my mother since the day she went to prison. My mother always made sure that my sister had the best clothes and I got rags that were too small for me. I'm still in counseling and have come a long way. I imagine it must be harder for you because she is in the same house as you. Did she abuse you when you were younger?

[AmeerX]

I don't hate my family but I feel more love for strangers too.

But hey, stop don't wish that she disappears. You sister is like our sister.

Tell us what happened and please stop this rant you don't want to say something to her which you might regret

[my_name_is_name]

i said every mean word to her, nothing left really, i just want to beat her up but keep restraining myself as it won't be worth it, you're not living with her you have no idea how bad of a bitch she is, her presence boils my blood.

[AmeerX]

Hey, don't beat her up. My sister can be like that too that I want to slap her silly but that's not good.
Control yourself and look into the problem deeply. What is she doing here?

[my_name_is_name]

she knows how to push my buttons, and me being mentally ill i get so pissed off, she's just so unlikable she's miserable also by the way, but slightly better than me in life

[AmeerX]

Hey, what's the problem? Can you give an example of any incident?

[my_name_is_name]

she's irritating, loud, mean, rude, ignorant and ghetto, imagine you have to live with someone you hate to death, she has zero respect to anyone, no real incident i just hate her guts and want to beat her up

[AmeerX]

I know that feel. I used to feel that way till I stopped bothering and letting mine live her way. It's really upsetting 😔

[sheikalana]

Could be as you said related to the last paragraph that you wrote but remember is not your family's fault that you've been single for a really long time and there's so much frustration in your life. You're a grown man if you're not happy where you live get out of there and find your peace and happiness.

[laraWM]

You're really hard on her. Maybe you can talk together if you want to improve the relationship

[my_name_is_name]

nah fuck her, i regret not beating her up, but i keep reminding my self that there is karma.

[laraWM]

I see, could you live at your own place?

[Monalisa77]

Same. Mines so selfish n only puts up with me cos of her kids. She never even looks at my stories on insta

[Iron_Man]

You guys need to talk go to family counseling y’all live together work it out

[my_name_is_name]

my family are backward cunts, they made fun of my mental illnesses that they caused, i hate them, my dad is an abusive ignorant piece of shit.

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that

[Nikki1989]

I never knew my sister much, so nope, can't relate at all.

[Anonymous]

Therapy

[Opinion Owner]

My little brother feels the same way about Mr. I was molested for years before my mom got rid of the molester. My little brother told me to have sex with him so I did. And he hates me for it. But I didn't know anybetter even if I am older. I was sick