Where you ever spanked while growing up at home?

[Date_a_Snob]

[curiousmandy]

Yes, my mom was the only one who would. My dad never wanted to lay a hand on me or my sisters

[Date_a_Snob]

same. my dad never touched me or my sisters.

[Date_a_Snob]

did she use her hand?

[Aubrey97]

Nope and I often wonder if that's why I enjoy being spanked so much now as an adult.

[Date_a_Snob]

oh really?

[Rosexøxø]

Yes!

once I even got tired of my dad threatening to spank us, so once my sister was attempting to indirectly hide and avoid a spanking, but I was sooooo furious that he’d try to get something on our emotions, so I stomped up to him and said

”go ahead! Spank me I don’t care! If you’re gonna do it, do it! I’m not going to be scared of you!”

and I stuck out my butt like I was ready! But I was also a bit nervous.

He didn’t hear what I said cause I was so young and saying it over sobs lol 😂 it was an emotional moment of course, and I didn’t get hit!

That time he explained to me something about one of my behaviors and it brought an understanding to me that he didn’t know what else to do and felt obligated to punish me if he couldn’t get me to listen and I did something not exactly right or something that endangered myself.

I didn’t realize until then so after I tried to “help” my parents out and not be so much of a task.

It was a true milestone and life changing moment.

Later on he explained he tried not to laugh cause of the surprise of it, and he had some thought like

“don’t hit her or you’re break her spirit.”

so he didn’t but I really don’t think he could have. That moment for me even as young as I truly was!….

was like that of Denzel Washington’s Glory scene of getting whipped.

Maybe I would’ve cried but it was already in my mind that I was NOT going to let this man instill fear into me for me living my life.

[Rosexøxø]

Another time I got whipped with a belt and I cried myself to sleep. It was the easiest time to get punished because I just got knocked out and the crying was therapeutic. I was like damn! That was easy! 😂

I love my younger self. She was crazy lol I wish I could materialize her and befriend her. There’d never be a dull moment. I know of that much 😂

[sheikalana]

It happened here and then. But when I was 12 I lied to my parents about missing school and my dad hit me really badly. He slapped me, hit me with a belt, kicked me and punched me. I don’t remember telling big lies after that. love him but our relationship was never the same since then even after 20 years.

[ShellyB]

I think one time when I was about 6. Otherwise it did not happen but, I always knew it could happen and I made sure I behaved in a way such that it would not happen.

[chrissykerdock]

my daddy would lift up my skirt and pull my panties to my ankles and spank me with his hand out of love so i was disciplined and courteous

[avery58]

I grew up in a Mexican household, so yes, of course. But the whole chancla meme is cringey and overused.

[rosemilk]

nope but i was slapped

[wiltingrosepetal]

Why is this question only for women?
And yes

[Date_a_Snob]

because men usually dont get spanked

[Date_a_Snob]

I was spanked as well

[wiltingrosepetal]

I really don't see why you'd think that? Boys get physical reprimanding just as often, if not more, than girls 😭

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Date_a_Snob]

good

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, I got slapped instead.

[Booklover_90]

No, but I was threatened. That was enough for me.

[Kelly6]

@date_a_snob Never and it's not good

[katiesmuff]

Yup I sure was!

[Date_a_Snob]

me too

[Account]

Never.

[LaurenM1997]

Yes I have

[AlleyMarie92]

Yes all the time

[Date_a_Snob]

me too