Nothing at all, I love the opposite sex, everything about a woman. They are wonderful except those with these irritants: 1-Victimhood written all over them 2-Trying to be a man (do that on your own time) 3-narcissism, arrogance, superiority complex-and worse if they aren’t as smart as they think 4-Tatoos-goodbye I can’t handle it 5-Low self esteem and everyone else is the cause of their problems
5. Thinking girls should stay in kitchen. (We got other places to go besides the kitchen) 4. Being lazy wile their girl does all the chores (You gotta at least help out just a bit) 3. Not showing emotions (It's ok for guys to cry too) 2. Go crazy when a girl is playing video games online (We play games too) 1. Thinking/talking about sex things (Not everyone wants to hear them)
5. You gotta understand though that many women have their periods very painful. I got my own today back, it's not pleasant a bit. I'm not in a mood and I hate that I seem and act offensive but the pain is really making it difficult to be "happy". I'm not saying that a girl has a right to be mean, but guys should be a little more respectful.
@Jemini_Crocket O I know it's painful but some use that as an excuse to purposely act that way and abuse it in a way. I'm not ok with that never will be, don't care how much pain your in it's not a valid excuse.
You don't have to act like the most happy person in the world but don't use it as an excuse to purposely act like a bitch and cunt. I don't care whether your a woman in pain or a man in pain, it's not reasonable either way.
@Jemini_Crocket Yeah and of course the 5th one is not directed at all woman of course just the ones who do actually do that. Which I'm sure they know who they are.
1. Childish behavior. 2. Very high expectations for most. 3. Scream too much (especially in movies). 4. No logic most of the time. 5. Most always wear makeup, at least a small bit of it. 6. They take so long to get ready. 7. They worry too much. 8. They are usually the ones who get divorce. 9. I never heard of guy gold diggers, yet I heard of a few women gold diggers. 10. They're usually the ones who friend zone you. 11. They're usually the ones that have you on their backup list.
And there's more... dont get offended so easily, this is based on the women I know and heard of (including my somewhat ex), thus I'm not saying this about all women. But a LOT of them have the qualities listed above.
1. Never say how they really feel 2. Acts emotionless 3. Insensitive and Distant for no reason at times 4. Thinks they're right when they're usually wrong! 5. Thinks flirting is not cheating.
why is flirting cheating a lot of time it's just friendly talk, obviously if touching a lot is flirting and then cheating, but other than that I don't see it.
"acts emotionless" is a societal burden. From our youth we're told we're the stoic protectors of our family. That means you can't show emotions, as a weakness that other competitors for mates will see.
for me its immaturity and mind games that constantly happen although a fair amount of guys i know pull the same shit so its mutual. massive turn off though
What kind of mind games bothers you the most? 🤔 it definitely is a massive turn off.. especially when they try to make you feel jealous on purpose 🙂💔 more like playing with your emotions but yeah
like ignoring you for days at a time because they have a problem and refusing to explain whats wrong. im a really open and honest person so it frustrates me when simple problems can't be fixed through communication
god i hate people trying to make you jelous, i had a girl holding a guy friend that really liked her over me to make me jelous and saying she would go see him alone when she wasn't happy with me and all it makes me think is if you do that im done 😤😤
I can relate to the first one. There's just two sides to it.. I know when I talk about my problems I'd feel like a burden especially if I went more than 3 days complaining about something, it's even harder to open up about it if it was the same problem 3 times in a row 😬 other times people just do it for you to cling on to them or be extra empathic. The second one about jealousy happens with every couple sadly 😂 it's a self esteem issue really
I can understand that, sometimes it can be hard to open up about something but the way i see it, if you're in a relationship with someone then there shouldn't be anything that you can't talk about, especially if it bothers you. yeah i have self esteem issues so she used that and it's sad how common it is for people to do that
It's definitely something people should change about themselves if they have that quality. Especially if a healthy relationship is something they want.. so I can agree with you 🙄 at least this should also be something talked about with the other person beforehand
I love men, but these are the most common things I find that irritate me about them.
1) They space the f@#$ out often 2) They can be very vulgar when talking about women 3) They aren't great at communicating via text 4) They sometimes make light of serious issues 5) They don't plan anything, they expect you to do that
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1. Not saying how they truly feel because they don't want to hurt you or are scared. 2. Places too much importance on physical intimacy in a relationship. 3. Gender roles. Assuming all women want the same things or all girls are the same. 4. Hot and cold behavior. Wishy washy behavior. 5. Taking me out on a date & expecting something in return.
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They live in a society that babies them and gives them everything, but they act like victims.
They use childish games and manipulation to get what they want.
They expect men to be subservient to them and reward those who do with sexual attention.
Narcissistic entitlement.
They see men as disposable protectors and cash machines.
Only when they 1. don't shower and smell badly, 2. show off and are arrogant 3. Curse a lot 4. Are gloomy and pessimistic all the time 5. Are greedy lol
That they like to talk behind their backs That they are so influential to the opinion of their friends. Say things indirectly Give so much value to economic stability I do not know why, but when a guy has a girlfriend he automatically becomes more interesting to them Let them pair up with boyfriends who mistreat them and endure the abuse.
They are indecisive. They say they want it black then later want it white. When a woman that isn't good looking thinks she is God's gift to men. Women who leaves all choices up to the male. Materialistic women. When your ex tries to get back with you realizing they made a mistake in letting you go. If things didn't work the first time why would it work the second time around? Deuces.
1. say what you mean. if I ask what's bothering you and you lie about it multiple times that's your problem.
2. wanting attention on the spot. if I don't text back and I'm at work, don't get mad I'm doing my job. free time is a different story.
3. if you "don't care where we eat" then you are going to the first place I pick. otherwise you do care. see point number 1
4. if your bff Rose is such a bad friend that you don't know why you put up with her, stop making me put up with her too.
5. hearing about your issues finding a nice guy is laughable when most dudes struggle to generate half the interest girls get. at least you have options, even if they aren't perfect.
1. Doesn't talk very much 2. Has no empathy skills 3. Gets angry when I have feelings 4. Acts lazy like I am annoying him when I ask for help 5. Indirectly asks for things, for example: I really like that store, means he wants me to go to the store, or I am having problems means he needs me to help him. When later I tell him that I did what he wanted, he will say he never asked me. But if I don't do what he wanted I will hear complains forever... so annoying.
They expect men to be the one to confront them, they take too long to get ready, they worry so much about they're apearence and they're weight even if they're not even fat. They like to think they can be equal against men when they're clearly a smarter breed and can do better then men um. I don't know I don't have anymore
This goes for both sexes 1. Not knowing the importance of personal space 2. Still trying to get with someone even though they know that person doesn't want them 3. Getting mad when they're rejected 4. Being damn hornballs all the time (not all) 5. Caring about their appearance too much
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just the level of pure confusion and indecisiveness , find women don't make a lot of sense and can't seem to decide what they want
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1. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions
2. Being afraid to show emotion or feelings
3. Short temper
4. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions
5. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions
Nothing at all, I love the opposite sex, everything about a woman. They are wonderful except those with these irritants:
1-Victimhood written all over them
2-Trying to be a man (do that on your own time)
3-narcissism, arrogance, superiority complex-and worse if they aren’t as smart as they think
4-Tatoos-goodbye I can’t handle it
5-Low self esteem and everyone else is the cause of their problems
Nothing irritates me about a specific gender. There are only individuals that get on my nerves regardless of their gender.
Men can be very insensitive... wanna hit em with toast
you hit and i bite, sounds like a plan.
FEED ME
5. Thinking girls should stay in kitchen. (We got other places to go besides the kitchen)
4. Being lazy wile their girl does all the chores (You gotta at least help out just a bit)
3. Not showing emotions (It's ok for guys to cry too)
2. Go crazy when a girl is playing video games online (We play games too)
1. Thinking/talking about sex things (Not everyone wants to hear them)
1. Expecting me to magical know what your thinking and do it like I can somehow read your mind.
2. Have dual meanings for 1 word like shopping then "shopping"
3. Feminism or at least modern feminism anyway.
4. Being blamed for everything by the opposite sex.
5. Using your period as an excuse to act like a bitch.
5. You gotta understand though that many women have their periods very painful.
I got my own today back, it's not pleasant a bit. I'm not in a mood and I hate that I seem and act offensive but the pain is really making it difficult to be "happy". I'm not saying that a girl has a right to be mean, but guys should be a little more respectful.
@Jemini_Crocket O I know it's painful but some use that as an excuse to purposely act that way and abuse it in a way. I'm not ok with that never will be, don't care how much pain your in it's not a valid excuse.
You don't have to act like the most happy person in the world but don't use it as an excuse to purposely act like a bitch and cunt. I don't care whether your a woman in pain or a man in pain, it's not reasonable either way.
I don't think a normal person would act like a bitch/cunt on purpose. It depends on the people you are surrounded by, I guess.
@Jemini_Crocket Yeah and of course the 5th one is not directed at all woman of course just the ones who do actually do that. Which I'm sure they know who they are.
1. Childish behavior.
2. Very high expectations for most.
3. Scream too much (especially in movies).
4. No logic most of the time.
5. Most always wear makeup, at least a small bit of it.
6. They take so long to get ready.
7. They worry too much.
8. They are usually the ones who get divorce.
9. I never heard of guy gold diggers, yet I heard of a few women gold diggers.
10. They're usually the ones who friend zone you.
11. They're usually the ones that have you on their backup list.
And there's more... dont get offended so easily, this is based on the women I know and heard of (including my somewhat ex), thus I'm not saying this about all women. But a LOT of them have the qualities listed above.
1. Never say how they really feel
2. Acts emotionless
3. Insensitive and Distant for no reason at times
4. Thinks they're right when they're usually wrong!
5. Thinks flirting is not cheating.
why is flirting cheating a lot of time it's just friendly talk, obviously if touching a lot is flirting and then cheating, but other than that I don't see it.
"acts emotionless" is a societal burden. From our youth we're told we're the stoic protectors of our family. That means you can't show emotions, as a weakness that other competitors for mates will see.
for me its immaturity and mind games that constantly happen although a fair amount of guys i know pull the same shit so its mutual. massive turn off though
What kind of mind games bothers you the most? 🤔 it definitely is a massive turn off.. especially when they try to make you feel jealous on purpose 🙂💔 more like playing with your emotions but yeah
like ignoring you for days at a time because they have a problem and refusing to explain whats wrong. im a really open and honest person so it frustrates me when simple problems can't be fixed through communication
god i hate people trying to make you jelous, i had a girl holding a guy friend that really liked her over me to make me jelous and saying she would go see him alone when she wasn't happy with me and all it makes me think is if you do that im done 😤😤
I can relate to the first one. There's just two sides to it.. I know when I talk about my problems I'd feel like a burden especially if I went more than 3 days complaining about something, it's even harder to open up about it if it was the same problem 3 times in a row 😬 other times people just do it for you to cling on to them or be extra empathic. The second one about jealousy happens with every couple sadly 😂 it's a self esteem issue really
I can understand that, sometimes it can be hard to open up about something but the way i see it, if you're in a relationship with someone then there shouldn't be anything that you can't talk about, especially if it bothers you. yeah i have self esteem issues so she used that and it's sad how common it is for people to do that
It's definitely something people should change about themselves if they have that quality. Especially if a healthy relationship is something they want.. so I can agree with you 🙄 at least this should also be something talked about with the other person beforehand
I love men, but these are the most common things I find that irritate me about them.
1) They space the f@#$ out often
2) They can be very vulgar when talking about women
3) They aren't great at communicating via text
4) They sometimes make light of serious issues
5) They don't plan anything, they expect you to do that
1. Not saying how they truly feel because they don't want to hurt you or are scared.
2. Places too much importance on physical intimacy in a relationship.
3. Gender roles. Assuming all women want the same things or all girls are the same.
4. Hot and cold behavior. Wishy washy behavior.
5. Taking me out on a date & expecting something in return.
They live in a society that babies them and gives them everything, but they act like victims.
They use childish games and manipulation to get what they want.
They expect men to be subservient to them and reward those who do with sexual attention.
Narcissistic entitlement.
They see men as disposable protectors and cash machines.
Only when they 1. don't shower and smell badly, 2. show off and are arrogant 3. Curse a lot 4. Are gloomy and pessimistic all the time 5. Are greedy lol
That they like to talk behind their backs
That they are so influential to the opinion of their friends.
Say things indirectly
Give so much value to economic stability
I do not know why, but when a guy has a girlfriend he automatically becomes more interesting to them
Let them pair up with boyfriends who mistreat them and endure the abuse.
They are indecisive. They say they want it black then later want it white. When a woman that isn't good looking thinks she is God's gift to men. Women who leaves all choices up to the male. Materialistic women. When your ex tries to get back with you realizing they made a mistake in letting you go. If things didn't work the first time why would it work the second time around? Deuces.
THANK YOU!
1. say what you mean. if I ask what's bothering you and you lie about it multiple times that's your problem.
2. wanting attention on the spot. if I don't text back and I'm at work, don't get mad I'm doing my job. free time is a different story.
3. if you "don't care where we eat" then you are going to the first place I pick. otherwise you do care. see point number 1
4. if your bff Rose is such a bad friend that you don't know why you put up with her, stop making me put up with her too.
5. hearing about your issues finding a nice guy is laughable when most dudes struggle to generate half the interest girls get. at least you have options, even if they aren't perfect.
1. Doesn't talk very much
2. Has no empathy skills
3. Gets angry when I have feelings
4. Acts lazy like I am annoying him when I ask for help
5. Indirectly asks for things, for example: I really like that store, means he wants me to go to the store, or I am having problems means he needs me to help him.
When later I tell him that I did what he wanted, he will say he never asked me. But if I don't do what he wanted I will hear complains forever... so annoying.
They expect men to be the one to confront them, they take too long to get ready, they worry so much about they're apearence and they're weight even if they're not even fat.
They like to think they can be equal against men when they're clearly a smarter breed and can do better then men um. I don't know I don't have anymore
This goes for both sexes
1. Not knowing the importance of personal space
2. Still trying to get with someone even though they know that person doesn't want them
3. Getting mad when they're rejected
4. Being damn hornballs all the time (not all)
5. Caring about their appearance too much
just the level of pure confusion and indecisiveness , find women don't make a lot of sense and can't seem to decide what they want
Ooo I could definitely say the same thing 👏🏻