+1 yYou know, been scrolling both guys' and girls' comments, both sides hold some validity generally speaking. But I think there's a more endemic issue rooted within a lot of the shitty sides to the behaviors of both genders. The men broadly speaking moan about the effects of feminism and modern cultural standards generally, how women play immature games and expect men to read their minds... And so on and so forth. As a man myself, I can attest at both a practical and intellectual level that their is definitely truth in this.
From what I've seen on here as well as experienced in real life, what the women seem to see/feel (and hate) the most, is that men are generally speaking, quite emotionally shutoff and/or simultaneously too overbearing; too insecure in their own sense of masculinity (cultural emasculation of men: whole 'nother topic) - they get easily threatened by other guys and question, unnecessarily the integrity of the otherwise ernest chick (generally, we also can't deny the cheaters on both sides). That they also act like the bees knees in bed when they're "flops". And so on and so forth...
I personally try to understand both genders as much as is possible for me to do so, I do hear what both sides are saying, both hold some truth. But what I see as more underlying, is that neither gender in this day and age, deserves the title of man or woman, again generally speaking. Both sides suffer both sides' vulgar egos given the fact that women are brought up in a society that pedestals them, men are brought up to be emasculated cuckolds. When both of these ills pair up, we see the equation (discontent, as outlined in the comments) come to fruition.
I'll stress yet again, that I can only speak generally, I don't know all 7 billion of us haha, I could succumb to the old cliche of "good and bad" but I won't.
Some of my own views are that women are:
Often narcissistic.
Lacking in logical control of impulse-driving emotions.
Do indeed sometimes use emotional manipulation to get what they want - under the guise/misunderstanding that its "cute" flirtation - when its just seen mostly as childlike
Complain of lack of emotional intimacy from men, but often times reject/belittle the significance of his feelings - they can barely deal with their own let alone take on someone elses - again childlike in its impotence.
And so on... I do believe men need to lead, women never will be as rational as us, but women need to improve themselves too, as do men.00 Reply
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I have an easier time pin-pointing things I like about women then finding things that are irritating..
I'm sure the things I find irritating are the same thing a woman finds irritating with me.
So here are mutual things that couples have done to each other,,
1. Not paying attention to what the other is saying,
2. Not understanding the circumstances to why we made a decision.
3. Jumping to conclusions
4 Not always having the same priorities.
5. Different parenting techniques, when they should be the same.40 Reply
+1 yWell I'm a female! The 5 things I don't like about guys is that they...
1. They think they are superior to females because they are a guy and they are more stronger than us!
2. They put females in the "I wanna screw you and not get to know you zone" but they get offended when females throw them in the friendzone!!! Those bastards demand respect, although they give very little respect.
3. They spend so much time bitching about gender equality because they are jealous of females. Women rights are more important than guy rights because girls are more delicate than boys... We get all the sympathy, all the attention, and all the praise!!!
4. They don't seem to care what women have to go through! They trivialize our problems and make fun of it but as soon as we cut down their issues; they wanna throw fits like a little spoiled brat.
5. They call themselves a man and they want to he treated like a man but they are weak and sensitive like females. When things go wrong or when things don't go their way; they tend to throw tantrums and blow up...48 Reply- +1 y
I do not agree with your points 1 and 3.
Not all guys are like that. Stop putting labels that women are weak and guys are strong/weak. by the way you contradict yourself by saying guys are strong and weak at the same time.
I personally like girls who are stronger physically- shows that they take care of their body, I don't give a damn about rights and all, I do think everyone should have equal rights because I have seen good guys getting devastated due to girls who take advantage of the "rights" available to them. Please think before you just decide anything - +1 y
@Reduces - I don't care if you disagree with my points. I was not expressing my opinion for your benefit. That is how I feel and I am entitled to my opinion! Just like you are entitled to yours... Anyway good bye and good day
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@ReducesToAsh - By the way I did not have time to read your comment
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And Even I don't give a damn about how you feel or anything. Contradicting yourself makes me question tour intelligence. Get your facts straight before you start bitching about someone
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@ReducesToAsh - Look! Go away and stop talking to me. Just shut the hell up already. I'm not even reading your messages anyway
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@ReducesToAsh - I already said what I had to say. I answered the question so I'm done... And no I do not take back my word!!! I meant everything I said...
Now good bye - +1 y
lol.. Stop replying if you don't want someone to talk. And don't reply if you don't even read other's replys.
bye anyways - +1 y
@ReducesToAsh - Whatever bye dude!
+1 y1) When they complain about bras, makeup, and stuff like that, but then complain that women are ugly without it or say they "aren't put together enough." Make up your mind. Pick one.
2) Thinking that because something isn't important to them, means it shouldn't be important to us. This isn't all men but how many men do you know who trivialize your anniversary or the stupid shit you like to do just because they don't think it's important? Lol.
3) Never planning ANYTHING. Maybe it's just the men I've been with but literally every guy I've been with just expects me to plan everything or just does everything on an insecure whim.
4) Bitching that we're insecure then they turn around and get insecure as fuck about stupid things, like that you're in the same room with a guy for some mundane situation and he loses his mind. Luckily my man doesn't do this but I've seen it.
5) Complaining that they want more sex but in bed they're a sex flop. Again, doesn't happen to me but happens to TOO MANY women I know.170 Reply
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+1 y1. Puts to much importance on sex and not enough importance on love or understanding a woman
2. Assuming you're a feminist if you don't agree with them on certain topic: Ex. Who should pay for dates.
3. Settling cause they think they can't get the super attractive Stephanie girl upstairs so they go for the below average Becky girl a few doors down the hallway. Meh is better than nothing.
4. Stop getting into relationships if you're now serious for a committed relationship, there's nothing bad about just staying single.
5. It's a "preference" when they reject a woman, but a woman preferences are invalid thus she's a shallow bitch.58 Reply- +1 y
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6. Trying play the " you broke my privacy!"excuse when their girlfriend/wife finds incriminating evidence of them cheat on their phones or social media to take the blame off them for getting caught cheating. A lot women wouldn't to do this, and in fact don't want to invade your privacy if you just told the truth straight up. If you don't want to be in a relationship and don't like commitment, then just say it instead of staying around out of selfishness. It's really not that difficult and doesn't require a degree to understand it either. - +1 y
Wonder if there are any users called Stephanie or Becky on this site.
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@SuitAndTie Probably. I'm totally a Becky.. life sucks lol
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Interesting. I'd totally place you closer to a Stephanie than a Becky.
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@SuitAndTie how kind of you, thank you very much.
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Sure. Also, ouch! to all the Beckys out there.
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@BrittBratt2416 Number 5 is my life in a nutshell
1.) I feel like men are mostly just thinking about sex in a relationship unless they're sooo deeply in love but for girls it's way more than that
2.) rudeness and being mean
3.) most but not all are egotistic and assume they are a great catch
4.) they either care tooo much about the way they look or not give a shit altogether
5.) they think girls will fall in love with just one stare or a lie like there is this guy I know that literally said " I'm gonna stare into her eyes with my green eyes and tell her I'm sorry for fucking up and flowers and that should do it" NO just NO we aren't that stupid you know?50 Reply
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u +1 yThese observations apply to many but not all women:
1. They are consistently behind schedule for getting ready to go to an event.
2. In bed, they don't communicate what they want and they don't vocalize to let us know when what we are doing is turning them on.
3. We are supposed to read their mind and know what they want. They can't simply tell us.
4. They will ALWAYS make their adult children or their grandchildren a higher priority than their partner.
5. They refuse to acknowledge that having sex is a wonderful way to resolve an argument! :) :) :)112 Reply- +1 y
Having sex is the best way to resolve an argument. I can't be pissed off if I'm getting banged.
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@unicorn_therapist Exactly!
+1 yI know this doesn't apply to every woman. So this is a list of turn offs.
1.) Misandrist
2.) self entitled
3.) Not visual when it comes to physical attraction
4.) Rude
5.) Cares more about offspring than her boyfriend/husband517 Reply- +1 y
@JetBoy797 They should care about both equally.
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@JetBoy797 So it's perfectly fine for a woman to leave a man for dead?
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@JetBoy797 Do you hate being a male? It's very messed up for a woman to just leave behind a man who is terminally ill. With all due respect, if your girlfriend leaves you just because you are ill then maybe you won't be a feminist anymore.
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Sir, I can assure you I'm not a feminist. I voted for President Trump... need I say more?
I didn't realize you meant "leave a man for dead" literally. No, of course a woman shouldn't leave her boyfriend if he's dying. But if she has to choose between being with her dying boyfriend and her dying kid, she should always choose the kid. - +1 y
@JetBoy797 fair enough, how about if it's not her boyfriend but her husband?
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@JetBoy797 kids before his wife?
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@JetBoy797 So if there is a serious disease around and there is only one dose, he would have to choose to save his kid's life?
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@JetBoy797 I mean if the choice is between his wife or his kids.
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@JetBoy797 It sounds reasonable but it probably wouldn't be easy to make that choice. Alright, we should stop posting replies. I think the original poster is probably tired of the notifications.
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+1 yOnly applies to those it applies to, but in my experience (in no particular order)...
1) Holy fuck, texting is bad enough, but APPLYING MAKEUP WHILE DRIVING? Kindly GTFOH😒😒😒
2) Basing behavior and decisions on emotions rather than the proper basic, raw logic and rational thought. How we "feel" about things is irrelevant to natural reality. Not saying it doesn't have its effect, but those effects are at a personal level, and no personal issue supersedes the order of nature.
3) Many women seem very concerned with what other people are doing. If there's one thing I have a problem with in life, it's people judging or commenting or feeling any type of way about anything I do or say. You do you, I'll do me, and above all else, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.
4) While I'm on board fully with gender equality, you CANNOT pick and choose which things you want changed while simultaneously asking for traditional "special" treatment where it suits you and makes your life comfortable. I'm not a woman, I don't care which things you want changed or not changed, that you gals' call. But to be taken seriously, you have to be reasonable.
5) This is maybe my #1 if I had to call one... So I'm in the "you don't hit women under anything but life-threatening circumstances. You just don't do it." camp. I'll never move off that position. HOWEVER... Ladies... work with us. When I'm arguing with another guy, we each have a line we're not going to allow the other to cross, we both know it, and we know that we're going to give/receive at least a punch in the face if that line is crossed, so we watch what we say or accept/deliver physical consequences. I believe fully in that, I make no apologies for getting violent, because it wasn't for nothing. The problem is, with women, many of them don't respect that line. They will cross it time and again and laugh in your face while doing it. The greatest rages I've ever been driven to, and there's been a lot of other contenders, have been instances like this, a woman basically taunting you because she knows she can do pretty much anything and remain unharmed. That's so unbelievably fucked up I'm at a loss for what else to say about it. I have literally knocked myself unconscious head butting a door jamb in that situation, because I need to hit SOMETHING, and even in blind blackout rage, I apparently don't have it in me to hit a woman, although that is not at all a conscious decision, my lucidity is no longer there at that point.31 Reply- +1 y
So ladies, please don't cross that line, and DO NOT, under any circumstances, put your hands on me. I don't touch you, you don't touch my. Don't take advantage of a lopsided situation (and I'd say the same exact thing to a guy who DOES hit women).
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It feels weird to put every girl in the same basket, but I will say what I think concern both sex in different ways.
1. Emotions
Mens have a tendency to shut down emotions, and I think it leads to a lot of lies that are often seen as "dishonest", when it is a defense mechanism for someone suffering from a lack of self-understanding. When mens show emotions, it tends to be seen as not mature, but again it is because they lack self-understanding.
Womens can feel more open to expressing emotions, but sometimes abuse that unconsciously. Expressing every emotions is showing that there is understanding of the emotion, but that shouldn't give the right to not try and calm thoses emotions. I think mens control too much by lack of understanding. And womens control not enough because some think understanding is enough.
Again, this doesn't apply to everyone, but I think emotions are not well understood between mens and womens. Most mens actually are scared to open themselves, and womens too, but they hide all that in different ways.30 Reply1.) Often lack of logic, rationality and/or judgement in their actions and/or words, which justifiably gave birth to a term "women logic".
2.) Double-standards and self-entitlement -- depends on how much a woman has been exposed to a brain cancer called "feminism". Typically exhibits itself in situations where a woman is all about "equality" and shit (such as being present in a nice office), but as soon as this "equality" provides disadvantages (such as conscription), additional work (overtime, doing things that aren't covered by contract, but need to be done anyway), hard labor (construction, cleaning sewers etc.) and other unpleasant things (fair competition), a woman turns into an extremely self-entitled hypocrite.
3.) Can't tell directly just what the fuck is wrong: every man has heard an answer "nothing" to a simple question "what's wrong", where conversation quickly escalates into a game of a minesweeper.
4.) Occasional desire to create drama for no reason.
5.) Overthinking and overanalyzing.42 Reply- +1 y
Couldn't have said it better myself! ๐
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minesweeper :) hahahah
+1 yThis doesn't apply to all females. My wife, for example, is only guilty of #1. Enjoy!
#1 Too. Many. Damn. Feelings. Crying over things and choosing to feel every event from little to large as if it's YOUR problem. Stop it! The world is hard and full of sucky people. Learn to control your emotional response, rather than letting your emotions control you. This is the difference between an adult and a child, not a man and woman.
#2 Whining about the toilet seat. You have hands and eyes. Look where you're dropping your big butt, and use your hands to correct the situation BEFORE you sit down.
#3 "Anything you can do, I can do better!" See #2, and then arm wrestle me for the last beer.
#4 Claiming sexism in everything. I heard a young lady claim that calling women "hot" is sexist. The irony was that she was reading a teen fem magazine that featured the "10 Hottest Guys in Music" on the cover. Jesus...
#5 Patriarchy. It is not holding you down. It is holding MEN down. Take a look at actual facts before joining the third wave.20 Reply
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I like men in general. I can only say what I don't like in my ex and a few my friends partners. Defo can't say that this is about every men.
Want to be in a relationship but they don't want to make effort or commitment.
Want stay at home and play video games but they don't want you to go out, then complaining we spend too much time together.
Not looking for a partnership looking for a new mum that will wash, cook, clean and serve.
Expect from you to look like model but they not shaving for weeks and wearing the same t-shirt all week.62 Reply- +1 y
Tell me about it...
Maybe I exaggerated a bit with that shirt, but in general the longer we've been together the less he was taking care of himself expecting me to always look ready for a night out.
+1 y1. Acting all macho around their friends.
2. Can't think of losing against a woman in any way - "U hit like a girl"
3. Too proud to have emotions, or admit loving someone - "She's the one stalking me, I'm just being friendly, to not make a woman sad"
4. feelings... ughh disgusting, "I don't like her, why hasn't she texted me?"
5. "I can fix that for u" - no, I can take care of myself thank u!
I've literally heard everything in the quatation marks from my brother, guy friend, ex boyfriends... I just hate the fucking pride, the "I am better than you"-pride.73 Reply- +1 y
I agree fully but why Do you not like the 2nd and 5th one? It shows how eager are and the 5th one is just being nice.
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+1 y1) Women think men are mind readers. The whole "he should know why I am acting like a complete bitch" thing. Sorry ladies, we have no clue most of the time.
2) women blame being super cunts on their periods like that is a real excuse
3) Not saying what the issue is. I guess you could lump this in with 1 but saying "Nothing" is wrong when it clearly is.
Honestly almost all my issues are that women don't communicate properly. Yes, there are exceptions to every rule.
4) women are scared of commitment when most guys want it. But somehow society blames men for that issue... complete bullshit
5) that sex is so easy for women. You have zero stress. You can have it anytime you want, as long as you want, as many times as you want, at the drop of a hat. All the stress is on the guy, and sometimes we physically cannot do it, esp when we get older.61 Reply- +1 y
I agree with most of what you said except the part about sex. Sure women can control their urges a little better than men (not sure if that's scientifically proven via hormones or just a very accurate synopsis). But guys can climax faster than women, because for the most part they don't require forplay or extra stimulation. So that last reason is a bit iffy imho.
+1 y1. Why can't you just say the true feelings? Like wth you think I will hate you? Just say how you feel! Doh be playing this I am a man. I don't have feelings but
2. Why play games bruh?😤
3. Why not just say the truth? When I ask for it I want it. No matter how harsh like geez😑
4. Guys, just like you can't read girls mind, we can't neither so just say what is wrong at times!
5. Why say you want one girl but entertain others? Like bruh we know there is plenty fishes in the sea buh you can't get one like me57 Reply- +1 y
Are you black lmao
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@Einwindir I don't know maybe it was something on every ones mind so they are letting you
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I am not white. I am from the Caribbean. Where I am from its normal. i am not trying to play black. Ok?
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Didn't say you were just wondering
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Na. I am me. ๐
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Alright keep being you.
I'm not sure about 5, but here's 1:
The inability to answer a direct question. I used to think it was just my wife, but no. My daughter is exactly the same. Example:
Me: What time do we need to leave?
Her: Dinner is at 6:30.
Me: What time do we need to leave?
Her: Well it takes 20 minutes to get there, but I need to stop by the store on the way.
Me: What time do we need to leave?
Her: Oh, I forgot. They're doing road construction on the bridge so we need to leave earlier.
Me: What time do we need to leave?
Her: Well I need to get a birthday card and gift. And remind me toget cat food.
Me: WHAT TIME DO WE NEED TO LEAVE?
Her (now angry): You never wanted to go anyway! Just stay here and I'll go by myself!42 Reply- +1 y
lol ๐
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So true holy crap
+1 y1. Never putting clothes in the hamper. They are always in random places or even on the floor next to the hamper. How hard is it to put it in the freaking dirty clothes hamper?
2. Getting water outside of the shower and NOT cleaning it up.
3. Doing everything the LAZY way.
4. Wanting to play video games all day
5. burping
6. uncontrollable farting.
6.1Farting for fun.
6.2Farting to show dominance... I don't know how that shows dominance but my husband makes that excuse daily.
6.3 farting wars amongst other male specimens.
7. eating everything like a monster
8. Half-assing everything that is not gaming
9. disgusting jokes
yes... I'm referring to my husband.
Surprisingly he doesn't leave the seat up because out of all of these incredibly annoying things... he sits to pee.
I could write a list that goes forever but I also love him to death so we compromise and I deal with a lot of it.10 Reply
+1 y1. They feel threatened or awkward at the drop of a hat & are afraid to talk about that wirh you if you're the subject of that insecurity.
2. They are timid in public speaking & had to be mostly coaxed into talking during college classes that required classrom socratic participation
3. They use cosmetic surgery to 'fix' what often is not broken
4. They use makeup as a crutch sometimes
5. Many of them find female on male domestic violence hilarious or justified. There was a segmemt on this womens show called the talk where they discussed a woman cutting off and shredding her husbands penis in a garbage disposal, & Sharon Osbourne said it was 'just wonderful' to the laughter of the crowd30 Reply
+1 y1. Complaining about not being able to find a good man while also looking for tattooed bad boys. Not a whole lot of overlap there. AKA choosing beggers.
2. "Sassy" behavior. Arrogance and entitlement, especially from overweight women.
3. Complaining about politics or general 3rd wave feminist nonsense.
4. Obsession with food. Posting shit on Facebook with fried chicken pizza or whatever else heart attack Tasty is pushing.
5. Acting like sex shouldn't matter to a relationship or that sex is a gift from women to men.51 Reply- +1 y
I personally think sex don't matter in a relationship, the love is all that count because losing g your virginity to someone that might leave you is the worst feeling of all. And also some people have anerexia so don't ever say we have an obsession with food, some women eat a lot cause it's a side effect of having a period
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+1 yLies
Manipulation
Defiance to accept that she is wrong and most of the time causing problems by making a fuss over nothing.
Thinking women are giving simple hints but they're not e. g. apparently if you text a blue heart to a girl it means your friend zoning them? How are we supposed to know that maybe I just like the colour blue?
The fact women get treated like queens in our species compared to others and take it for granted. Fact is we own the house and have the salary and share it yet were supposed to ask them to share that? And even so we get treated like their the ones doing us a favour and were even paying for their dinner date. I don't think so.
If you look at how other girls are treated in other species they get raped pretty much left pregnant to survive being hunted left to get her own food raise her own kids etc. Do we do that? Nope we give them dinner before sex we stay and get them food when pregnant and cook it we even give them our habitat.51 Reply- +1 y
This is the no1 thing that annoys me the most girls of today have won the lottery and don't realise how lucky they are.
+1 yComplaints about what each sex has to go through. Or entitlement about what each sex should get. It has caused riffs in the sexes and a sense of spoiled behavior that now our children are growing up to accept. Fuck start being human and quit pouting because something is different because our sexes are different. I think if there was more talk, understanding and praise for our differences, and less complaints and/or belly aching about them, we would have better solutions and mutual care for one another's problems.
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Mystery, nice. Institutional thought is different from individual. A few radical groups are more vocal and get their agendas over represented in media and courts. There's a kid somewhere in Montana with a peanut allergy, so nobody can have a pbj sandwich for lunch at school. I can't just accept others' homosexuality, I have to embrace it and celebrate it. I can't make a joke about anything, because angry people are looking for an offense where none was intended. If I i believe in traditional values and that men should be masculine and women should be feminine, angry fringe people are appalled that our biological sex should create us differently. I don't need the exact same resources or opportunities as a man. Equity. Everybody doesn't get the same but they get what's fair. A man can make more money if he's going to put his life on the line or deal with the crap. If my nephew chooses a doll to play with, he's going to have a 100 trucks, trains and hockey sticks to bury that doll.
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@Fancygoldfish LOL exactly. Sorry for the people that want to "branch out" or that I shouldn't have my own opinion of what should and should be, even though they are trying to sway my own opinions with their own opinions. That's pretty much the definition of hypocrisy. Telling not to opinionate on something, even though you are being opinionated about my opinions.
There are a lot of things that have, I believe, confused things. As well, if I don't like something, that doesn't fit the "traditional" view, I have to shut my mouth, but if someone else wants to go against belief in certain "traditional" values, they are admired and welcomed and put on TV shows or made into a reality tv star or what not. I do believe everyone has a voice and have their own values. Most are pretty good and strong. Others, yes, are a bit extreme and create chaos in society and destruction of humanity physically/spiritually/mentally and in how we interact and live together. These aren't values. - +1 y
These issues aren't beneficial to society, and they are all 'isms. But, I don't believe that creating a sense of an "egg shell" society is the answer as well. This just makes things worse and divides society further. For example, I'm a black man, and I really hate how this past election when media wise. I don't blame the presidential race even for it. I think it was an excused used by the media to shadow how they caused all the SHIT and fallout that there is now. THEY brought up the "devil" in society again. The improvement of cultural relationships was going fine, slowly, but fine, but now, they have digressed back a decade at least. Trusts has been decimated again. It's exact example now of how media can create chaos and doubt. It's something that has destroyed empires and it's destroying us now.
646 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. 1) not understanding simple clues or situations and making things awkward
2) taking rejection way too hard and calling women a bitch etc.
3) ignoring me for ages, then wonder why I'm ignoring them back 🤔
4) treating all women based of their worth. Their worth being how attractive they are
5) thinking they can put their hands on you when they're not invited.613 Reply- +1 y
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6) Awkward Midlanders who bring Toblerones into far too many conversations! lol - +1 y
@Blonde401 Hmmmm you've a questionable plus list! Whilst you're hungry lets go for a chinese to discuss this! lol
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@Blonde401 so when ordering a Chinese are you a sharer or a keep to your own order kinda girl? lol
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@Blonde401 Well we'll break that rule, providing in respect to This is England you bring the vol-au-vents! ! ol
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@Blonde401 coffee whip, vol-au-vents and no chips! Wow! With that menu it's lucky I like you! Lol
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@Blonde401 Well clearly, but hey there's no harm in me keeping that personality on it's toes lol
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@Blonde401 Keeping you on your toes is a tough task but I'm up for the challenge! lol
+1 yMy biggest thing is 1.) Hygiene. (I have a weak stomach and when a man isn't hygienic, the smell is enough to make me run.)
2.) Wandering eyes (I know this is just part of being a man but sometimes us women get really insecure when our men are looking at big booty Judy, even if it's just for 10 seconds.)
3.) Bragging about sexual
experience.
4.) Assuming all women are radical feminists.
5.) Expecting us to be maids, cooks, pornstars and nurses all at once. (One at a time please.)52 Reply- +1 y
I got to get the hang of this eye wandering thing.. a girl complained about it when I had just fucked her this day twice and I didn't even realise I was eye wandering
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@DerStecher a lot of men don't seem to realize or even remember doing it. Seems to be something you mindlessly do haha
+1 y1) Some men don't speak up about their feelings
2) Why do fuckbois exist? I don't even want any near me
3) To men who're obssessed about finding girls who're good cooks/bakers: Shouldn't you be more concerned about a girl's personality, interets, etc? I personally hate cooking. Does that make me unqualified to be a woman?
4) Can't think of any more...
5) I guess that's a good thing. 😅56 Reply- +1 y
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(1) BC you lady's are always right, even when the stubborn man. is right but he is not! Right. we are always wrong
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BC their the sheep, that leads you to the wolf.
+1 yFrom my experiences:
1. When they laugh at you because you have your period. I know we, women, can be quite mean and offensive but if it really hurts, it's very hard to stay "happy".
2. Ignoring me, then coming back to whine about their gfs.
3. Expecting me to be so nice to them as they think they are nice to me. By that I mean when a guy I barely know, tells me "I miss you" and expects me to say the same. Like wtf
But nobody's perfect and we should cope with that.70 Reply5. Thinking girls should stay in kitchen. (We got other places to go besides the kitchen)
4. Being lazy wile their girl does all the chores (You gotta at least help out just a bit)
3. Not showing emotions (It's ok for guys to cry too)
2. Go crazy when a girl is playing video games online (We play games too)
1. Thinking/talking about sex things (Not everyone wants to hear them)80 Reply
+1 y1. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions
2. Being afraid to show emotion or feelings
3. Short temper
4. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions
5. Lack of understanding of women's feelings and emotions90 Reply- 599 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.
+1 yNothing at all, I love the opposite sex, everything about a woman. They are wonderful except those with these irritants:
1-Victimhood written all over them
2-Trying to be a man (do that on your own time)
3-narcissism, arrogance, superiority complex-and worse if they arenโt as smart as they think
4-Tatoos-goodbye I canโt handle it
5-Low self esteem and everyone else is the cause of their problems50 Reply 6.8K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. 1. Expecting me to magical know what your thinking and do it like I can somehow read your mind.
2. Have dual meanings for 1 word like shopping then "shopping"
3. Feminism or at least modern feminism anyway.
4. Being blamed for everything by the opposite sex.
5. Using your period as an excuse to act like a bitch.64 Reply- +1 y
5. You gotta understand though that many women have their periods very painful.
I got my own today back, it's not pleasant a bit. I'm not in a mood and I hate that I seem and act offensive but the pain is really making it difficult to be "happy". I'm not saying that a girl has a right to be mean, but guys should be a little more respectful. - +1 y
@Jemini_Crocket O I know it's painful but some use that as an excuse to purposely act that way and abuse it in a way. I'm not ok with that never will be, don't care how much pain your in it's not a valid excuse.
You don't have to act like the most happy person in the world but don't use it as an excuse to purposely act like a bitch and cunt. I don't care whether your a woman in pain or a man in pain, it's not reasonable either way. - +1 y
I don't think a normal person would act like a bitch/cunt on purpose. It depends on the people you are surrounded by, I guess.
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@Jemini_Crocket Yeah and of course the 5th one is not directed at all woman of course just the ones who do actually do that. Which I'm sure they know who they are.
+1 y1. Childish behavior.
2. Very high expectations for most.
3. Scream too much (especially in movies).
4. No logic most of the time.
5. Most always wear makeup, at least a small bit of it.
6. They take so long to get ready.
7. They worry too much.
8. They are usually the ones who get divorce.
9. I never heard of guy gold diggers, yet I heard of a few women gold diggers.
10. They're usually the ones who friend zone you.
11. They're usually the ones that have you on their backup list.
And there's more... dont get offended so easily, this is based on the women I know and heard of (including my somewhat ex), thus I'm not saying this about all women. But a LOT of them have the qualities listed above.00 Reply1. Never say how they really feel
2. Acts emotionless
3. Insensitive and Distant for no reason at times
4. Thinks they're right when they're usually wrong!
5. Thinks flirting is not cheating.92 Replyfor me its immaturity and mind games that constantly happen although a fair amount of guys i know pull the same shit so its mutual. massive turn off though
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What kind of mind games bothers you the most? ๐ค it definitely is a massive turn off.. especially when they try to make you feel jealous on purpose ๐๐ more like playing with your emotions but yeah
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I can relate to the first one. There's just two sides to it.. I know when I talk about my problems I'd feel like a burden especially if I went more than 3 days complaining about something, it's even harder to open up about it if it was the same problem 3 times in a row ๐ฌ other times people just do it for you to cling on to them or be extra empathic. The second one about jealousy happens with every couple sadly ๐ it's a self esteem issue really
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I can understand that, sometimes it can be hard to open up about something but the way i see it, if you're in a relationship with someone then there shouldn't be anything that you can't talk about, especially if it bothers you. yeah i have self esteem issues so she used that and it's sad how common it is for people to do that
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It's definitely something people should change about themselves if they have that quality. Especially if a healthy relationship is something they want.. so I can agree with you ๐ at least this should also be something talked about with the other person beforehand
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+1 yNothing irritates me about a specific gender. There are only individuals that get on my nerves regardless of their gender.
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+1 yMen can be very insensitive... wanna hit em with toast
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you hit and i bite, sounds like a plan.
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I love men, but these are the most common things I find that irritate me about them.
1) They space the f@#$ out often
2) They can be very vulgar when talking about women
3) They aren't great at communicating via text
4) They sometimes make light of serious issues
5) They don't plan anything, they expect you to do that30 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 y1. Not saying how they truly feel because they don't want to hurt you or are scared.
2. Places too much importance on physical intimacy in a relationship.
3. Gender roles. Assuming all women want the same things or all girls are the same.
4. Hot and cold behavior. Wishy washy behavior.
5. Taking me out on a date & expecting something in return.40 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThey live in a society that babies them and gives them everything, but they act like victims.
They use childish games and manipulation to get what they want.
They expect men to be subservient to them and reward those who do with sexual attention.
Narcissistic entitlement.
They see men as disposable protectors and cash machines.90 ReplyOnly when they 1. don't shower and smell badly, 2. show off and are arrogant 3. Curse a lot 4. Are gloomy and pessimistic all the time 5. Are greedy lol
70 ReplyThat they like to talk behind their backs
That they are so influential to the opinion of their friends.
Say things indirectly
Give so much value to economic stability
I do not know why, but when a guy has a girlfriend he automatically becomes more interesting to them
Let them pair up with boyfriends who mistreat them and endure the abuse.30 Reply
+1 yThey are indecisive. They say they want it black then later want it white. When a woman that isn't good looking thinks she is God's gift to men. Women who leaves all choices up to the male. Materialistic women. When your ex tries to get back with you realizing they made a mistake in letting you go. If things didn't work the first time why would it work the second time around? Deuces.
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+1 y1. say what you mean. if I ask what's bothering you and you lie about it multiple times that's your problem.
2. wanting attention on the spot. if I don't text back and I'm at work, don't get mad I'm doing my job. free time is a different story.
3. if you "don't care where we eat" then you are going to the first place I pick. otherwise you do care. see point number 1
4. if your bff Rose is such a bad friend that you don't know why you put up with her, stop making me put up with her too.
5. hearing about your issues finding a nice guy is laughable when most dudes struggle to generate half the interest girls get. at least you have options, even if they aren't perfect.10 Reply1. Doesn't talk very much
2. Has no empathy skills
3. Gets angry when I have feelings
4. Acts lazy like I am annoying him when I ask for help
5. Indirectly asks for things, for example: I really like that store, means he wants me to go to the store, or I am having problems means he needs me to help him.
When later I tell him that I did what he wanted, he will say he never asked me. But if I don't do what he wanted I will hear complains forever... so annoying.10 Reply
+1 yThey expect men to be the one to confront them, they take too long to get ready, they worry so much about they're apearence and they're weight even if they're not even fat.
They like to think they can be equal against men when they're clearly a smarter breed and can do better then men um. I don't know I don't have anymore10 Reply
+1 yThis goes for both sexes
1. Not knowing the importance of personal space
2. Still trying to get with someone even though they know that person doesn't want them
3. Getting mad when they're rejected
4. Being damn hornballs all the time (not all)
5. Caring about their appearance too much10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yjust the level of pure confusion and indecisiveness , find women don't make a lot of sense and can't seem to decide what they want
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Ooo I could definitely say the same thing ๐๐ป
+1 y1. They get turned on by every little thing. Everything seems to be sexual with them
2. Not being able to take rejection well
3. When they assume all girls are emotional
4. Hypocrisy- saying they want the natural look but will go for a girl with a full face in a heartbeat
5. Complaining about the friend zone40 Reply528 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I can't think of anything thee than being excluded from certain social and work gatherings or conversations because I'm a woman.
I've had two very close male friends for 15 years and they usually treat me like one of the guys but not always.
I grew up with brothers and I've dated many different personalities. I can't think of anything that annoys me that they all share.
I work with guys and it's all good. Pack mentality once you get a group forms but same with women.00 Reply
+1 yI hate the way that women take a vantage of nice guys... and the way they lie to you... and think that they're smarter than you and don't think that they're going to get ever caught on cheating when they lie to your face... sorry about that but I had to get it off my chest...
00 ReplyJudging a book by its cover (a guy doesn't need a six pack to be a decent person), women with an inch of makeup to feel attractive, women who don't approach men they like (leaving it all to the man). That's only three I know but that's as far as I got lol
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+1 yFor me, I wouldn't really associate it with the opposite sex itself, but probably to certain people of that gender who just do it a lot.
But it would probably be that some sag their pants, some act completely different around their friend, some aren't as considerate, chivalry is dying with most, and most have the mentality of being a player or that being tied down isn't a good thing.07 Reply- +1 y
women are encouraging that behavior, there would be no supply without the demand.
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@MackFreeze encouraging what behavior? Like the mentality of being a player or that being tied down isn't a good thing?
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Well, its not all women's doing. Men used to have to raise their standards to get a women for the most part. From what I chalk it up to with the sexual revolution and other events, women now have casual sex and give themselves away so easily. Now, men don't have to try at all since some women want sex as well and just don't care. If you think about it, why would a man treat a women so chivalrously if the woman themselves give up everything instantly to anyone. What reason would he have to treat a woman better than she treats herself. Woman need to respect themselves and have personal standards. Gain some confidence besides giving it away to every man. Save many a lot of pain and other issues too.
I would also say some women have sex early so they get the man's attention and a relationship in return however this method doesn't work at all.
This would be why some men aren't so chivalrous, women give it all way and have no respect for themselves.
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@MackFreeze this is really eye opening from a different point of view. I mean, I've always known/believed women shouldn't give themselves up so easily. But to hear this whole opinion is really eye opening and I completely understand why/how men have changed their standards.
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Totally! I am glad you can see whats going on!
If all women, raised their standards, we would follow, trust me.
The overarching theme is the Pursuit of Pleasure in America, Destruction of the Family Unit, Etc. - +1 y
@MackFreeze well not all women have to raise their standards in order for men to follow, but a good majority yeah
- +1 y
For sure, there are plenty of great, wonderful women!
one thing that bothers me ( and ik this isn't all women just my expierence ) is when there is a pointless lack of comunication do to assumption without clarification. e. g. I've never been the best with comunication ( i am getting better) so my words dont aleays come out right and i have to ecplain myself. But its usually taken wrong before i have the chance to
20 Reply1. Thinking that they are entitled to a man that is loaded with money because of her beauty.
2. Hypocrisy
3. Lack of validation for mens emotions.
4. Always looking to be dominated.
5. Extremely dishonest
80 Reply
+1 yThey criticize my body and then wonder why I'm so insecure and turn off the lights during sex 🙄. They try and boss me around and then call me stubborn. There are other ways to do things besides their way. Smh
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 y1. Tantrums
2. In general, I think women stay madder for longer than men
3. Playing coy [it's cute sometimes, but it's very frustrating]
4. Taking so much advice from your friends
5. When you start whispering around us [believe me, we can hear it, and we don't know if you like us or are laughing at us].32 Reply- +1 y
I'm a girl and that whispering shit annoys the hell outta me! It's so rude ๐ Especially when it's around a guy that may like one of them. And half the time when a girl is whispering (to me, at least) it's something idiotic that doesn't need to be whispered. ๐
Opinion Owner+1 y@AquaScorp07 I didn't know that.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 y1) Taking advantage of societal double standards that they did not earn, but still enjoy due to the fact that they have a vagina between their legs
2) Women will dress up so innapropriately with their ass and boobs hanging out, but then get mad when a guy shows interest. It's like tying a piece of meat to a dog's tail then getting mad at him running in circles trying to get it
3) I hate how they think the vagina gives them some kind of divine privilege to get paid for on dates. No, you pay for what you ordered, I'll do the same and it'll be even.
4) Women fight for equality, but the catch is, they only fight for the convenient equalities. You'll never hear a woman say that she wants to be able to get punched in the face the same way men so without her vagina shielding her from that
5) Finally, feminism.00 ReplyDisclaimer: I understand this isn't true of all women.
1. Y'all speak in code. Like, the word "fine" has 9645856 different meanings when it's used by women.
I'll come up with four more later.21 Reply- +1 y
Bro... and whattup, by the way, been a while, my man๐๐... I say to my girlfriend ALL THE TIME when she says it : "You mean guy-fine? Or GIRL-fine?"๐
523 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Make-up , materialistic, fake stuff ( nails, contacts), bleach blonde (seems like every woman has blonde hair), tease you just to tease you, not saying what they really think, making you play the guessing game.. etc.. oh giant hoop earing... are they expecting a bird to land in them? Lol
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+1 ytantrums
double standards
wanting to be vulnerable and control everything
saying they want a nice guy and passing loads of them over for a schmuck that will treat them like shit
the fact that they think they have to spend hours putting on makeup and clothes or no one will like them10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yGetting child support... like if you want custody... shits on you.
Feminism obviously
The attitude some women walk around with... mouthing off. like 90 percent of dudes can't physically whoop the ass of 90 percent of females but it's illegal to throat punch them so they talk shit.
The term fuck boy50 Reply- 645 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.
+1 yAssuming we are all sex crazed morons. Being treated with contempt by women JUST for being male , however , to be fair , this is mostly due to " media " & feminist anti-male propaganda. As has been posted numerous times , being expected to read female minds. I don't have 5 !!
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y1. They think with their dicks 2. They're lying cheating losers who manipulate your feelings 3. they dont understand that exes are off limits 4. thy dont understand why you're upset 5. they're stupid, or at least play stupid to get what they want
54 Reply- +1 y
Wow. Bad experiences much?
Opinion Owner+1 y@Dave134 Yeah, that line is usually by the "Im a nice guy but I'll have a hissy fit if you don't date me" guy. However, since you're both kids I'll cut you slack and say please don't do any of the above. It's heartless and disgusting.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 y1. Small penis
2. Small penis
3. Small penis
4. Small penis
5. Small penis106 Reply- +1 y
ok...
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haha you bitch ๐๐๐๐๐
- +1 y
I'll bite. define small.
- +1 y
Okay. So guys with at least an average-sized penis are perfectly fine? Awesome. Great. Thanks. Have a nice day.
Opinion Owner+1 y@RiskMaster Thanks, you too.
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1.) Periods
2.) Entitlement
3.) Annoying voices. Too high pitched
4.) Not funny
5.) Not logical
6.) Too sensitive
7.) Take too long to get ready
8.) Too submissive
9.) Materialistic
10.) Get sex very easily
11.) Love creating drama
12.) Acting like sex is a gift from women to men
13.) Too emotional
14.) Too fake. Makeup, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows, etc... e
15.) Can't cook15 Reply- +1 y
Period? You find periods gross? What a turn off you're! Closed minded guys who aren't mature and can't accept nature and find nature gross are such a turn off!
If you don't like submissive women, it means you're a man who isn't dominant and doesn't enjoy taking lead, which also the biggest turn off. - +1 y
I'm a girl and the only thing I have in your list is periods (and wtf, we don't choose to have that). What you said is stereotypes, not all girls are like that
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Your list is really contradictory. Smh maybe you are interacting with the wrong type of women.
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@bananajams77 the wrong type of women get periods. lol
also dude, what does #11 "get sex very easily" mean? She gives it to you easily? so you're doing the same... giving it to her easily as well right? If you have that sort of thinking, doesn't your #12 make sense then :)
Most women are unsure of what they want. Women are very emotional. Women are more sexist in Western countries, they are fickle about the kind of sex they prefer at the moment (it switches from BDSM to passionate sex) and they expect the guy to mindread what they want and if the guy can't mind read, they throw a tantrum and give you the silent treatment.
00 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. 'is my dick big enough'
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