Two months ago I allowed my best friend Elizabeth to move in with me. Anyways, I had a thing for her for the past four months, and 3wks ago I drunkenly told her how I felt. She says, I can't get involved with a bff again. The following night we get high, and she takes her shirt off and I gave her a massage. The following Monday I try talking to about what happened, she said "We're cool, I'm over it, but I rather not talk about it." A couple days later on advice from friends I try to a sit down with her, trying to explain how I felt the way I do. How we act like a couple, share drinks, flirt back and forth, use we speak, we also got a dog together. How when we're out, out of the blue she will says 'we're not a couple to people, we're roommates" She blew the whole thing like it was joke and that I was misguided. Things got weird for like a week, but back to normal acting like a couple. This week she started the whole nagging thing, if I do something to upset her. Lot people thinks she’s using me, but IDK. I want more out of this friendship, but she’s IDK. She gets a tad jealous when I talk about or to other girls. I’m a single male in my mid 20’s and she is a single female in her early 20’s.
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additional this really wouldn't bother me if we were at least having sex. Sounds crass but if I'm doing the job of a boyfriend I should at least reap some of the benifts.
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