Unique questions to ask a girl in a bar?

[Jer2256]

I'm newly single again after 8 years of marriage and wanted to know some unique questions to ask a girl when having the first initial conversation. I've asked the typical questions like, where are you from, what do you do for a living and what do you do for fun. It seems that girls get bored with these questions after a while and then the conversation turns into silence.

[tsquared]

Not sure if the quetions are as important as how you receive the answers. If you do not listen to her answers then she quickly realizes that you questions are not sincere.

It has always been difficult to begin a conversation. The trick is to expand a conversation once you find some common ground. If you ask a girl what she does for fun and she tells you something, do not move the conversation to something you do for fun. Example...you ask a girl what she does for fun...she tells you I like to ride my bike...well then you have to expand on that and ask her additional questions on that...like where have you ridden, how far do you typically ride...ask her about her bike...but do not...I repeat do not ignore her answer by immediately telling her what you like to do for fun. It just shows her that you are not really particuarly interested in what she does for fun you just want her to listen to you. I hope this makes sense.

[Meggie-Lou]

Yes I agree with tsquared. Make sure you act sincere about the questions and listen intently. You don't always have to open up a convo with a question, anything complementary is nice. "Oh you do smell lovely, what is that?" Personally I think funny guys are the best, come up with something random and nutz. Youll shock them and make them smile which is a good thing. WHATEVER you do, don't start off by talking about your divorce or your ex. Let that be the 2'd date conversation. If a woman asks about it, give her a simple answer and act like its unimportant. No woman likes to be approached by a man who seems like he's not over his ex yet. Makes her feel like a rebound. Hope this helps and goodluck. -Megan

[ziva123]

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[Saavy145]

Hey bro... you are in a very common situation and I think many guys are facing the same problem whenever they met a girl over social networking or in a function or a party.

As per me.. conversation is the secondary thing.. if girl finds you fit physically or the first impression is nice then conversation is not a big concern.

If girl looks interested in you by looks then she will not mind what all questions you ask her... just be normal and ask question you like.. because you a mind set and you can't change it permanently... temporary it can be but you will face issue in a longer run..

so I would suggest that you try to meet only those girls who are interested in you... instead of girls whom you will try to impress...

If you want a time pass then go out a disc or a party you can have any girl without talking much.. and a voda shot or a drink will talk itself...

All the best.

[humble]

There are a ton, in fact there are a series of pages devoted to that on GirlsAskGuys. I have selected a few from one of those lists;

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If you'd like to read the rest, go to Questions To Ask A Girl.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

Not sure if the quetions are as important as how you receive the answers. If you do not listen to her answers then she quickly realizes that you questions are not sincere.

It has always been difficult to begin a conversation. The trick is to expand a conversation once you find some common ground. If you ask a girl what she does for fun and she tells you something, do not move the conversation to something you do for fun. Example... you ask a girl what she does for fun... she tells you I like to ride my bike... well then you have to expand on that and ask her additional questions on that... like where have you ridden, how far do you typically ride... ask her about her bike... but do not... I repeat do not ignore her answer by immediately telling her what you like to do for fun. It just shows her that you are not really particuarly interested in what she does for fun you just want her to listen to you. I hope this makes sense.

[Imagen]

This is just a factor of my personalty, but I sometimes wear clothes as a conversation starter. One of these shirts is red and says "If this shirt looks blue, you're moving too fast". Incredibly nerdy, I know, but I think its a good way to find out if I have anything in common with the girl.

[Donna20]

ask if she comes there often, if so and you don't succeed the first time of getting her attention, you will know that she is there often to retry again. Why not try some place outside of a bar to find a decent woman. There is a lot of ways to meet good women, but be yourself, because when you are not we pick up on that and think all that you say and do is fake.

[EscapedLunatic]

If you saw your worst enemy hanging on to a cliff, would you load your camera with high speed film or just use what was loaded?

[loda1994]

there is a book about just that. it's called "the 4 elements of the game" I think it's one of the best in picking up girls

[mentro]

can I go moterboting between your tata's

maybe they will let you

[DRAGONMASTER]

What is your dream job? What is your most prized possession that you own? What is your biggest accomplishment? Where do you see yourself in 10 years? What do you want to get out off this relationship?

[Anonymous]

Buy me a drink ill consider going out with you