Would a football player ever date a girl in the marching band?

[davidfan33]

color guard, to be exact (flags/rifles- not an instrument)

oh high school stereotypes. but is it possible?

[AnAnonymousPerson]

Stereotypes of the "jock football player" and the "band geek" are worthless and mean absolutely nothing.

I play football and if I like a girl I don't care if she's not a cheerleader or some overly popular girl. I like her for who she is, not because she has been put into some stereotypical "social status" that should automatically make me attracted to her. In reality these High School social "classes" are not remotely realistic plenty of my team mates are dating girls in the band and personally I find being stereotyped into liking a girl because she's a cheerleader quite insulting.

Kind of a rant but hope it helped you realize it's not just in the movies that anyone can like anyone no matter of what "social status" they are in High School.

[davidfan33]

Your answer gave me hope! hahah even though I really like a football player, I think the boys on the team can be very judgmental and maybe he wouldn't want to put up with their teasing for dating a band geek like me :X

[AnAnonymousPerson]

Aren't most of the people in the world (especially anyone in high school) judgmental in at least one aspect of their friend's decisions or something along those lines? From my experience he won't get anything other than the occassional joke from his team mates especially if they're his friends they will respect his decisions. Just remember other people's opinions only matter when you make them matter.

Glad I could help. Hope things work out between you and him =)

[Anonymous]

Anything is possilbe, if he really likes you it won't matter what you do...

[Anonymous]

I'm in colorguard, and my boyfriend is a football player. If he likes you, it shouldn't matter what your hobbies are. My boyfriend sometimes gets shit for dating a "band geek" or whatever, but he doesn't care. He loves me, and I love him. That's all that matters. Yes, it is 100% possible. One of the other girls in colorguard at me school is dating a football player as well, and they're engaged! It's completely possible! Don't worry!

[amventi]

uhh yeah. my really good friend is in the marching band. and her boyfriend is a starter on the varsity football team.

[jp1234]

yah my friend who is on cg is dating the quarterback

[Anonymous]

That is a very true statement I am in bandband like a football player and he likes me back but we are both afraid of getting made fun of.

[sonic241928]

Yes, it's entirely possible.

[rww003]

no.