Can a guy be too perfect?

[Anonymous]

Well me and my girlfriend recently borke up and she told me that I am too perfect and she only could stay mad at me for 10 seconds lol so here's my question can a guy be too perfect? I am content on getting her back even though we are ignoring each other right now and she says she don't want too loose me I am kinda confused about all of this.

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She also said our relationship was too perfect and it felt fake... even though we had been through a lot and in my eyes was not perfect but evertime when she expected me to get mad at something I wouldn't and I would listen to what she had to say lol

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thanks everyone for the help yeah I am very happy now with the girlfriend I got now and this one I was talking about was just playing me to get back at her x it was just a lot and a lot of drama and I finally realized she was really inmature and a waste of my time it has brought me to my senses now and I feel like I am just a little more wiser than I once was and I learned not to fall head over heels with a girl to fast

[Anonymous]

Yes, you can be too perfect. What your ex means is that you're the perfect guy, just not for her. She had doubts about your relationship because it didn't feel right for her. At least now you can look for your perfect girl. :)

[-StillWater-]

No...I don't know anyone who's perfect, let alone too perfect...

[micricjac]

maybe I've had a girl say she didn't want to be friends with but said it was not my fault she said I was really sweet ect but yh never told me why she didn't want to be my friend anymore

[EddyMetal]

LOL. Leave the broad. Trust me. "You're too perfect," is just another way of saying I don't like you. That mixed with "I don't want to loose you" means she still wants attention from you.

[Asker]

Yess this can make since too I am in a very complicated situation right now I think she needed an excuse to go back to her X boyfriend but wants to keep me around if it doesn't work out though like I said I am still very confused because the night before she was telling me she had crazy feelings for me and how she loved me... so confusin hah...

[EddyMetal]

I've been there. Trust me, it's better you leave a girl like that.

[Asker]

thanks for helping me out and I am sorry that you went through this too don't see what is the point of some of the games girls play... lol

[EddyMetal]

No problem dude. I just went through pretty much the very thing you're describing, and it really sucks. I'm finally okay and moving on now though. If you ever need any help and think I'm qualified, feel free to shoot me a message or whatever.

[TheStrangeOne]

Eddy is right.People regardless of the gender use this phrase when they can't admit the ugly truth which is: "I am just not into you anymore".

[Asker]

alrightt lol

[Enchanted_x3]

I wish I could give you +1,000,000 for this advice Eddy.

[KarKingJack]

Mm. I've heard that happen before. She's maybe got serious insecurities or something. You can't really be too perfect, heh. I think you will get her back. Give her space for a while though.

[EddyMetal]

Lol. I've heard it too :P

[KarKingJack]

LOL. But you've heard it from mad bitches, I've heard it from cool people.

[Asker]

She didn't seem mad at all and yeah I think ima wait till she tries to talk to me again before I try to figure all of this out.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure every woman would agree that no man can ever be perfect for them. I think she said that you're too perfect for her in order to let you down easily and not hurt your ego.

[KarenW]

I agree with anon.

[Asker]

alrightt thanks do you think I should move on and continue to ignore her? its been like 2 days and she text me but I ignored it because I was thinkin if I am to perfect why even talk lol?

[Opinion Owner]

She probably texted you to see how you were handling things. I would try to see why she really texted and then give her a lot of space.

[Asker]

alright thanks that's what I'm doinn

[Anonymous]

Tell her you can change: you can slap her around a bit, get lazy, anything to get her to stay!

[Asker]

yeahh butt I can't act fake for her I care a lot about her I think I messed up and poured everything out to her and she might have got bored with the relationship if we end up getting back togather I am definatley doin things differently lol

[cutekid]

Nobody z perfect,that xplains it all..