My boyfriend just seems too perfect...too good to be true!

[Anonymous]

So like, before we started dating he told me stuff he use to do and since we started dating he told me girls he knew before are trying to get with him.

I'm like really curious if he actually denies them and is telling the truth, so I wanted to create a extra Facebook account as someone else and try to flirt with him and see what he does.

Do you think this is a bad idea?

i maybe be paranoid but urgh..like really have you never been in a situation and be like "THIS IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE"?

Yes create the extra profile and snoop around

No don't create it...it will jeopardize your relationship

[marley86]

this kind of reminds me of an episode of sex in the city. Carrie is so use to dating guys that have something wrong with them, and becomes suspicious of any guy that seems too good to be true. She was staying over at this guys, and he had to leave, while he was gone she started going through all of his stuff trying to find something that proved he wasn't so perfect. She comes across this box that was locked and was desperatedly trying to open it. Meanwhile, he walks in and catches her, and she was really embarassed when he opened it...I think it was like baseball cards or something hahaha. If this guy is flirting with other girls, you will eventually find it out after time. But, unless he really gives you a reason not to trust him, why go searching for something? Be an amazing girlfriend, because he will become too consumed with how great you are he won't even want to flirt. Act confident and if you are jealous don't let it show. Plus, he could be saying that because he wants to talk himself up. My boyfriend is always doing that too, and I call him out on it too. I think it is kind of cute though, because he is just trying to impress me by claiming he is a huge lady's man.

[lovefreakk]

everyone will say trust him and bla bla bla, but you won't know for sure unless you find out. I suggest YOU don't make an account, having experience and knowing people who do thins, youd have to have friends and fake pictures and activity, etc. Have a friend do it, not one he knows very well or knows your close to. If he doesn't know you two know each other, even better! he might not respond since there might be a chance you find out, or maybe he actually is telling the truth. its fine for you to be worried, after all he was the one who put the doubt in your mind.

[suki248]

Sneaking around is just signs that the relationship might have some issues in the future. Try talking to some people he knows. Seriously, open communication is really important. Just ask him to be completely honest with you, express that you feel like he's too good to be true, and tell him that if he is honest now, it will be better for the relationship later.

Just suggesting.

[Thiezz]

Don't do it. Maybe he's just really as awesome as you suspect and if he finds out about your second Facebook account you'll forever be the crazy paranoid controlfreak ex.

[BlackSuperman]

try yer little sting operation... if he's real, then he's real, if he ain't, then congrats, you caught a guy in sum lies

[TayTay39]

I say you should really seriously talk to him about it! And make him listen and try and get him to tell the truth and if you still don't believe him try that idea but be really careful!

[Anonymous]

It's really really obvious if you do that. He'll see right through it. Be a grown up and stop playing childish games