Why am I not head over heels for my boyfriend that is legit perfect?

[Anonymous]

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So where do I go from here?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

We’re you used to really toxic relationships beforehand?

[Asker]

Yeah , it’s like I’m more attracted to someone who gives a little drama not a lot, I don't know if u get what I mean by that

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, when you’re used to toxic relationships, drama, and those who give you an adrenaline rush… You’ll be attracted to them because that’s what is familiar to you, and what you crave...

I understand that because I was in a toxic abusive relationship but I realize that I cannot be in a healthy relationship with someone who does those things. I have a good guy, like how you described your boyfriend, and at first I was hesitant to continue dating him, but I deserved him and I knew I truly loved him.

Now, if you aren’t attracted to your boyfriend, you aren’t in love with him, or you don’t feel that spark, I suggest you break up because you’re only stringing him along, and you know that’s wrong to do... But, I will also suggest that you stay with him because good luck finding someone who will treat you like a queen, sooner or later you’ll realize how lucky you got.
You really don’t want someone who treats you like shit just because you get a little excitement out of it.

[VikingWarLord]

You need a hot bad boy instead, I already know it! I KNOW MY WOMEN.
Might as well come be with a prick like me and get it outta your system, you'll end up cheating on the goodie goodie nice guy you're wit now

[Kaamraj]

Because you're young, when you are older, you will learn to appreciate stability, however might be by that time the men will not appreciate you just because you're older. All relationships require compromise.

[TheSpaceGnome]

if you think he's the perfect boyfriend for you, and you still don't want him, you're just being dumb.

[Luckycharms12]

Because you have idea that he is perfect type but actually not

[Asker]

I should have gave more detail, but genuinely he is loyal , romantic, listens to me does everything correct. But, I don't know why I’m not feeling him anymore, I wanna know why I don’t like the “nice guy”

[Luckycharms12]

Because its boring can find good but we all like to be challenged

[Anonymous]

'So where do I go from here?'

Back to the bad boy...

[Wise4myage]

Perfection is a myth, so maybe your standards are too high.

[jahaims]

Probably don't know how to emotionally connect

[Asker]

Yes!! It’s so hard

[Anonymous]

you like bad boys?

[Asker]

Good ones but low key bad yeah know, there not plain stupid

[Opinion Owner]

you dirty slut you >;)

[Iron_Man]

Only you can answer that