Thanks for clarifying your intent with this question. I think your update says it all. You are clueless, when it comes to this topic. In my experience, vilifying promiscuity is as old as language itself. You are just coming to realize the common practice because of your age. It’s not something that’s suddenly happening. Anyway, as for WHY promiscuity is discouraged we could debate for literally days. Perception is everything, by the way...
Simple Each one his tastes If you like to sleep around, u sleep around but u take responsibilities of ur choices. And someone hates it, accept their views they hate it... But do not force anyone to change. Show them the truth pros and cons and let them decide
No problem at all. Just don't come back here on gag and start posting questions, asking where all the princes are because your pussy has become a piece of bacon and you've reached the big ThreeZero so now you want to settle with only one guy. And above all don't ask why no guy does not accept you for what you are (a ho).
It doesn't make lots of sense. Sure it feels great to bang someone new, It's damn near like a drug, and if I wanted a drug, I'd take drugs. And drugs addicts are not good. It's one thing to have a fling here and there, but most people who are having lots of sex in that way have been proven to suffer some disorder.
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Old societal rules: promiscuity left people in doubt about who's the father of the children and thus who's responsible for their maintenance. Condoms were expensive (the ancient Romans had them already) and thus STDs were spread. For the then common STDs, there were no antibiotics.
Because it is evolutionarily bad. One female having lots of offspring and no mate is bad for the tribe. So the tribe shuns the slut. This is hardwired into our psychology from millions of years of evolution.
LOL. One fun fact for you, you precious 17 year old: Women, BACK THEN, were also as promiscuous as men are or even more. But they carried one child per man (obviously). That doesn’t mean they chose ONE man for life. They were equally promiscuous too
That’s so cute. Ugh, I’m blushing. You’re 17 and you already claim you have “extensive” knowledge. I have a degree in psychology and currently in med school. And I still don’t think *my* knowledge is extensive.
It’s okay if you find that hard to believe. Women were in fact promiscuous, and that stopped when agriculture began, aka when gender roles were established.
Even Greeks used to believe that women were more pleasure by sex and sought after it more than men. Now it’s the other way around.
Having the ability to be impregnated by one man and being sexually active are two things that are NOT mutually exclusive. Women were impregnated by one man in one year, sure, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t fuck a lot more. Simple logic, cutie.
"Hating on promiscuous people" is a little too far fetched for me... I just dont want a relationship with such a person and I do not think that should be called "hate".
Everyone has the right to have sex with as many other people as they like, I dont care, just dont expect others to accept someone like this as future marriage-material.
It's all about control. Whether that control is sought by religion or society. Control of lifestyle is the bottom line. There's also the double standards as applied to men and women. Men can fuck around as much as they like, while women will be criticised, and have negative labels applied to them and become objects of derision. Consensual sex between adults and those of legal age never harmed anyone.
Some people don’t have enough going on in their own lives so they seek to manage (shame) other people’s personal choices. I’ve never considered it my business to comment on what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedrooms.
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For me personally, it's because I don't believe in having sex with anyone other than the one you are married to. Even if I weren't religious I see sex as a sacred bond of which to grow intimate with your lover.
I frown upon it greatly, but I won't force my ideals upon others. They can do what they want and I will still respect them.
Out dated opinions travel down the ages unfortunately. Just have consensual sex with who you want, use protection, get checked for stds regularly, and if anyone judges you hop in bed with their dad and become their step mom. 🤷♀️
@lexythelou22, your profile says you're in a relationship so I'm curious about your response to this question and can't help wondering if your partner would agree with you?
@pierre7i 1.) Did I say that I did this? Point out exactly where I did. 2.) How do you know I'm not in an open relationship and can fuck everyone I want? 3.) I'm single, I just don't give enough of a fuck to change the status on this app. If I do I'll just get triple the creepy guys in my inbox. How about you mind ya business boo 😘
@adeqi another response of someone who's going to end up settling with a dude who can't perform and becomes bitter with life because she never gets off and feels like it's every one else's fault 😗
So false. I'm married and getting off is not a problem. It is only problem to woemn who are sexually unhealthy. They get laid a lot so they can finally get off
@adeqi if you're really so afraid to be a slut I feel bad for your husband. Bet he'd just love a slut like me when you're not watching 😂 go watch desperate house wives and be miserable by yourself
I'm disgusted by sluts. So why would I want to be sluts. See how sick sluts are. They fantasize about getting fucked by taken/married men. Get some help. No real man wants her wife to have sex with another man
@adeqi sorry you're so repressed that you have to blow up on strangers on the internet, go tell hubby you need some dick cause you sound like the only thing up your ass is a stick. 😂
@adeqi who said I'm not loyal to someone I'm exclusive with? 🤔 you came to that conclusion on your own, sounds like you've got a guilty conscience. Oh no I'm telling your husband you asked me to pick your ass, you fucking skank 😱
@adeqi I mean it's one of my kinks yeah, just means our sex is actually interesting. Lemme guess, you're so afraid to be labeled a slut that you and the hubby have vanilla missionary sex once a week and planned in advance? 😂
To sluts sure. But to moral people no To sluts women who have sex only with their bfs or hsubands are dull. All sluts deserve is cuckolds not real men.
@adeqi I'm mature enough to realize that I can do with my body as I please, and I don't need to date or marry anyone. You don't have to be dating someone to have sex. Sorry you have that childish ideology, but I don't, and I realize that I don't need to commit my body and heart to a man just to find happiness. 🤷♀️
@adeqi I'm calling YOU childish, not your "morals". Also, it appears you have no morals since you still feel the need to bash strangers online for what they decide to do with their bodies. You're just a shitty person who defends their shitty actions by claiming they have "morals". You don't have morals, you're an asshole and a prude lmao.
@adeqi morality: having principles about good and bad behavior. Being a cunt to strangers online is bad bud. Here's the definition of stupidity for you too: behavior that shows a lack of good sense or judgment. Like thinking you have proper morals but trying to dictate someone else's body and being generally cunty in the same breath.
@adeqi nah you said there are consequences. Give me a consequence. I've never fucked a taken man in my life (that I know of), you're just sensitive and took my comment seriously. So go ahead. If sleeping around has consequences, name me one. Because I've been doing it for years and still not a single issue?
You're just a slut. Any words sluts use means nothing. I have 0 respect for you because you're a slut. Just trash to me. You are trash for this world. get used by me. That's the only thing this world tolerates you. Be useful, slut
@adeqi pretty sure I have no mental damage, in fact I'm pretty happy My self esteem is lovely, I could pop my top off and show everybody right now and not feel even the slightest bit self conscious, could you? It seems I'm more intelligent than you based on this convo baby girl And your logic is thst you have morals, but those morals only stop you from having sex, not from being a trash human. You're a goddamn idiot 😂
Seems like the only thing you're proud of is spreading your legs to the highest number of different men Good for you, see where that leads Using "getting laid" as a scale of how much a person is worth is just so stupid and shallow it's not even funny lmao, only shows how uneducated you are 🤷 by the way, I talked shit about you because of your shitty personality, not because of your opinion
@Syrian_survivor using "getting laid" as a scale of how much a person is worth is just so stupid and shallow it's not even funny lmao. That goes for seeing people negatively too. You're mad why, exactly?
I honestly wouldn't give a shit who people sleep with, as long as the disadvantages weren't so severe and high-risk
I'm not hating or butthurt, I'm proud of being a virgin and I'm planning to stay one until after marriage, it's not about that
You might be kind and sweet, but the extreme way you talk gives a pretty bad picture For example, you saying "hop in their bed and become their stop mom" I wouldn't hate you for that sentence if it didn't roughly mean "contribute more to dividing society and wrecking families"
I don't mean any hate and I strive to be as kind as possible But someone like you, running wild, and spreading these hate rebellious messages kinda triggers me lol
I hope you understand that I have nothing against you as a person, I just look farther into the greater good, and hate how society is becoming weaker and weaker because of this issue
1.) What disadvantages? How high risk? 2.) Issa joke not a dick, don't take it so hard. If you really thought the step mom part was serious, you need to go back to school and get an education.
Also, I'm speaking so harshly because it's no ones business what someone puts into their OWN VAGINA and it pisses me off when people feel the need to dictate someone else's body. Get a life.
Not everyone can take that as a joke! Haha, that "joke" might be the trigger for a girl to actually do it xD Check my opinion on this post to know how I think it has lots of disadvantages, I explain everything there and I'd love to hear your opinion on it :3
Well I understand why you'd speak harshly to people who just come bashing at you, and sorry if I was that person 10 mins ago 😂 I was just triggered lmao
I don't think anyone should sleep around. It has a chance to really hurt their future relationships. Say two people click but because the sex isn't good, they part ways. This wouldn't happen if there was no previous relationships that had better sex. If you've only had one partner, you can't really say the sex is bad because you've never experienced anything else.
Because it's not dignified behavior. Giving yourself to multiple partners means your not committed to any of them, and it's usually not based on love in these people but rather carnal attraction and satisfaction. It makes their soul impure, raises the chances of STDs even if they use protection, and can also taint their careers and social image
It's stupid because sexual choices are personal choices. It's up to each individual what they do with their body, how many or few people they want to share it with.
I don't think religion is a good reason at all for frowning upon promiscuity - not everyone believes in religion.
Personally I am careful about who I sleep with, but that's just my choice. I don't care if others sleep around and are ""sluts"", in inverted brackets...
Because nobody wants to end up with a girl who has been with numerous guys if a girl will lay with all those guys she will lay with anyone that is not marriage material that is all I am saying about it people can do it all they want but I don't want anyone like that near me who probably has STDs
People who think it is immoral in that scenario think its immoral because (in their view) its immoral.
There is no logical why. Just like there is no logic to 'I believe in God'. You do, or you don't. These are beliefs founded often in cultural values, upbringing or religion and none of them have a logical answer for why. Its an opinion, thats all.
@adeqi coz the girl can't get guys to ask her out and she hates girls that do go out a lot.
I know plenty. My sister Anna is like that. She is 23yo and had only dated on guy AND he told me she had only had Sex with him one time AND it was all about her, not him ! He stays with her coz he likes her a lot.
I do not have anything against having friends who are promiscuous. But I wouldn't want to date anyone of them. I think that someone who sees sex as a pure physical act is way more likely to go out and cheat while inside a relationship.
There are clear psychological findings that show people who tend to sleep around a lot and don't form lasting, healthy relationships end up more depressed and in worse health.
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Thanks for clarifying your intent with this question. I think your update says it all. You are clueless, when it comes to this topic.
In my experience, vilifying promiscuity is as old as language itself. You are just coming to realize the common practice because of your age. It’s not something that’s suddenly happening.
Anyway, as for WHY promiscuity is discouraged we could debate for literally days.
Perception is everything, by the way...
Simple
Each one his tastes
If you like to sleep around, u sleep around but u take responsibilities of ur choices.
And someone hates it, accept their views they hate it...
But do not force anyone to change. Show them the truth pros and cons and let them decide
No problem at all. Just don't come back here on gag and start posting questions, asking where all the princes are because your pussy has become a piece of bacon and you've reached the big ThreeZero so now you want to settle with only one guy. And above all don't ask why no guy does not accept you for what you are (a ho).
It doesn't make lots of sense. Sure it feels great to bang someone new,
It's damn near like a drug, and if I wanted a drug, I'd take drugs.
And drugs addicts are not good.
It's one thing to have a fling here and there, but most people who are having lots of sex in that way have been proven to suffer some disorder.
Old societal rules: promiscuity left people in doubt about who's the father of the children and thus who's responsible for their maintenance.
Condoms were expensive (the ancient Romans had them already) and thus STDs were spread. For the then common STDs, there were no antibiotics.
Because it is evolutionarily bad. One female having lots of offspring and no mate is bad for the tribe. So the tribe shuns the slut. This is hardwired into our psychology from millions of years of evolution.
Not saying it's right, just saying why it is.
Welcome to 2018 , lol
There is no tribe x
The thing is that our brains haven't evolved in 10 000 years. We act as if there is a tribe.
Lol, i work with the Turkish, there brain work the same, in the past
You need to get laid xx
LOL.
One fun fact for you, you precious 17 year old: Women, BACK THEN, were also as promiscuous as men are or even more. But they carried one child per man (obviously). That doesn’t mean they chose ONE man for life. They were equally promiscuous too
Were as promiscuous as men were*
@latinabutterfly96 I find that hard to believe, considering my extensive knowledge of evolutionary psychology. Source please.
That’s so cute. Ugh, I’m blushing. You’re 17 and you already claim you have “extensive” knowledge. I have a degree in psychology and currently in med school. And I still don’t think *my* knowledge is extensive.
It’s okay if you find that hard to believe. Women were in fact promiscuous, and that stopped when agriculture began, aka when gender roles were established.
Even Greeks used to believe that women were more pleasure by sex and sought after it more than men. Now it’s the other way around.
Having the ability to be impregnated by one man and being sexually active are two things that are NOT mutually exclusive. Women were impregnated by one man in one year, sure, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t fuck a lot more. Simple logic, cutie.
In fact, pregnancy itself increases a woman’s libido. Do you think that pregnant women back then just controlled their hormones? Ha!
Pro Tip: being condescending to get your point across makes you look like you have no ground to stand on. It's hurting your argument.
Repeating a point won't make me believe it more.
@Cookie8888 It’s okay. If I say 2+2=4 in a condescending manner, it is still truth, even if my argument doesn’t make you feel good.
Pro tip: Maybe read the whole thing before getting butt hurt?
"Hating on promiscuous people" is a little too far fetched for me...
I just dont want a relationship with such a person and I do not think that should be called "hate".
Everyone has the right to have sex with as many other people as they like, I dont care, just dont expect others to accept someone like this as future marriage-material.
It's all about control. Whether that control is sought by religion or society. Control of lifestyle is the bottom line.
There's also the double standards as applied to men and women. Men can fuck around as much as they like, while women will be criticised, and have negative labels applied to them and become objects of derision.
Consensual sex between adults and those of legal age never harmed anyone.
Some people don’t have enough going on in their own lives so they seek to manage (shame) other people’s personal choices.
I’ve never considered it my business to comment on what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedrooms.
For me personally, it's because I don't believe in having sex with anyone other than the one you are married to. Even if I weren't religious I see sex as a sacred bond of which to grow intimate with your lover.
I frown upon it greatly, but I won't force my ideals upon others. They can do what they want and I will still respect them.
Out dated opinions travel down the ages unfortunately. Just have consensual sex with who you want, use protection, get checked for stds regularly, and if anyone judges you hop in bed with their dad and become their step mom. 🤷♀️
@lexythelou22, your profile says you're in a relationship so I'm curious about your response to this question and can't help wondering if your partner would agree with you?
@pierre7i 1.) Did I say that I did this? Point out exactly where I did. 2.) How do you know I'm not in an open relationship and can fuck everyone I want? 3.) I'm single, I just don't give enough of a fuck to change the status on this app. If I do I'll just get triple the creepy guys in my inbox. How about you mind ya business boo 😘
a response fo a real slut.
@adeqi sounds like you need to get laid 😘
Another response of a slut.
@adeqi another response of someone who's going to end up settling with a dude who can't perform and becomes bitter with life because she never gets off and feels like it's every one else's fault 😗
So false. I'm married and getting off is not a problem. It is only problem to woemn who are sexually unhealthy. They get laid a lot so they can finally get off
@adeqi if you're really so afraid to be a slut I feel bad for your husband. Bet he'd just love a slut like me when you're not watching 😂 go watch desperate house wives and be miserable by yourself
I'm disgusted by sluts. So why would I want to be sluts.
See how sick sluts are. They fantasize about getting fucked by taken/married men. Get some help.
No real man wants her wife to have sex with another man
@adeqi sorry you're so repressed that you have to blow up on strangers on the internet, go tell hubby you need some dick cause you sound like the only thing up your ass is a stick. 😂
Only sluts think being loyal to your husband is being repressed.
Want to lick the stick in my ass?
@adeqi who said I'm not loyal to someone I'm exclusive with? 🤔 you came to that conclusion on your own, sounds like you've got a guilty conscience. Oh no I'm telling your husband you asked me to pick your ass, you fucking skank 😱
My husband is my first. Sorry. No guilt
@adeqi no wonder you want a strange woman to lick your ass 😂
hell no. I said that to insult you.
@adeqi sure you did 😉
sluts like you get turned on by humiliation and insults
@adeqi I mean it's one of my kinks yeah, just means our sex is actually interesting. Lemme guess, you're so afraid to be labeled a slut that you and the hubby have vanilla missionary sex once a week and planned in advance? 😂
To me a slut is a woman who has sex with a man who is not her boyfriend or husband.
i'm definitely not a slut
@adeqi not a slut, just dull. 🤷♀️
To sluts sure. But to moral people no
To sluts women who have sex only with their bfs or hsubands are dull.
All sluts deserve is cuckolds not real men.
@adeqi I'm mature enough to realize that I can do with my body as I please, and I don't need to date or marry anyone. You don't have to be dating someone to have sex. Sorry you have that childish ideology, but I don't, and I realize that I don't need to commit my body and heart to a man just to find happiness. 🤷♀️
It is sick calling my morals childish. It's stupid to think that morals are for kids.
You are immature because you think with your instinct
@adeqi I'm calling YOU childish, not your "morals". Also, it appears you have no morals since you still feel the need to bash strangers online for what they decide to do with their bodies. You're just a shitty person who defends their shitty actions by claiming they have "morals". You don't have morals, you're an asshole and a prude lmao.
You don't know what morality is.
You think morality is being nice and that's it. Although you are far from beibng nice
@adeqi morality: having principles about good and bad behavior. Being a cunt to strangers online is bad bud.
Here's the definition of stupidity for you too: behavior that shows a lack of good sense or judgment.
Like thinking you have proper morals but trying to dictate someone else's body and being generally cunty in the same breath.
I have a sense of good judgement unlike sluts.
You do what you want without thinking about consequences. You're just stupid.
@adeqi give me ONE consequence of having consensual, protected sex? 🤔
The word cunt which you used for sereval times shows how trashy you are
@adeqi call em how I see em, cunt
It's not about preotection but the fact that you think it's ok to have sex with taken men
@adeqi nah you said there are consequences. Give me a consequence.
I've never fucked a taken man in my life (that I know of), you're just sensitive and took my comment seriously.
So go ahead. If sleeping around has consequences, name me one. Because I've been doing it for years and still not a single issue?
You're just a slut. Any words sluts use means nothing. I have 0 respect for you because you're a slut. Just trash to me. You are trash for this world.
get used by me. That's the only thing this world tolerates you.
Be useful, slut
@adeqi still waiting for you to name a consequence tho?
Also, did you forget how to English half way through that? Do I affect your mental sanity that much? 😂
I knew you were a slut. Thanks for admitting.
Get used. Get fucked by men to whom you're nothing but a hole. It;s ok to you get used that way.
@adeqi too stupid to come up with a consequence? Now you're mad that you talked yourself into a corner lmao.
Like I said keep on getting used. You don't deserve love. You only deserve loveless relationships. And I get love from my husband cause I deserve it.
@adeqi he's watching porn and fucking his coworkers 😘
The consequnces of your promiscuous behavior are your mental damage, low self esteem, no dignity, no intelligence, no logic.
@adeqi pretty sure I have no mental damage, in fact I'm pretty happy
My self esteem is lovely, I could pop my top off and show everybody right now and not feel even the slightest bit self conscious, could you?
It seems I'm more intelligent than you based on this convo baby girl
And your logic is thst you have morals, but those morals only stop you from having sex, not from being a trash human.
You're a goddamn idiot 😂
@adeqi
I read this whole thread... smh
Eat a dick, bitch.
Why don't you just shut the fuck up and stop? You're utterly disgusting, fucking cum dumpster
@Syrian_survivor at least I get laid 😂
@Syrian_survivor soooo offensive
Seems like the only thing you're proud of is spreading your legs to the highest number of different men
Good for you, see where that leads
Using "getting laid" as a scale of how much a person is worth is just so stupid and shallow it's not even funny lmao, only shows how uneducated you are 🤷 by the way, I talked shit about you because of your shitty personality, not because of your opinion
@Syrian_survivor using "getting laid" as a scale of how much a person is worth is just so stupid and shallow it's not even funny lmao. That goes for seeing people negatively too.
You're mad why, exactly?
I honestly wouldn't give a shit who people sleep with, as long as the disadvantages weren't so severe and high-risk
I'm not hating or butthurt, I'm proud of being a virgin and I'm planning to stay one until after marriage, it's not about that
You might be kind and sweet, but the extreme way you talk gives a pretty bad picture
For example, you saying "hop in their bed and become their stop mom"
I wouldn't hate you for that sentence if it didn't roughly mean "contribute more to dividing society and wrecking families"
I don't mean any hate and I strive to be as kind as possible
But someone like you, running wild, and spreading these hate rebellious messages kinda triggers me lol
I hope you understand that I have nothing against you as a person, I just look farther into the greater good, and hate how society is becoming weaker and weaker because of this issue
1.) What disadvantages? How high risk?
2.) Issa joke not a dick, don't take it so hard. If you really thought the step mom part was serious, you need to go back to school and get an education.
Also, I'm speaking so harshly because it's no ones business what someone puts into their OWN VAGINA and it pisses me off when people feel the need to dictate someone else's body. Get a life.
Not everyone can take that as a joke! Haha, that "joke" might be the trigger for a girl to actually do it xD
Check my opinion on this post to know how I think it has lots of disadvantages, I explain everything there and I'd love to hear your opinion on it :3
Well I understand why you'd speak harshly to people who just come bashing at you, and sorry if I was that person 10 mins ago 😂 I was just triggered lmao
I don't think anyone should sleep around. It has a chance to really hurt their future relationships. Say two people click but because the sex isn't good, they part ways. This wouldn't happen if there was no previous relationships that had better sex. If you've only had one partner, you can't really say the sex is bad because you've never experienced anything else.
But every guy wants sex yet criticizes you when you have it
How is that the same? Men and women want sex. I don't criticize men who sleep around any less.
Ok I'm glad :) I thought you were enforcing double standards
Because it's not dignified behavior. Giving yourself to multiple partners means your not committed to any of them, and it's usually not based on love in these people but rather carnal attraction and satisfaction. It makes their soul impure, raises the chances of STDs even if they use protection, and can also taint their careers and social image
It's stupid because sexual choices are personal choices. It's up to each individual what they do with their body, how many or few people they want to share it with.
I don't think religion is a good reason at all for frowning upon promiscuity - not everyone believes in religion.
Personally I am careful about who I sleep with, but that's just my choice. I don't care if others sleep around and are ""sluts"", in inverted brackets...
Just because you don't believe in religion doesn't mean I dont believe in it too. I dispise sluts and nothing can change it
Because nobody wants to end up with a girl who has been with numerous guys if a girl will lay with all those guys she will lay with anyone that is not marriage material that is all I am saying about it people can do it all they want but I don't want anyone like that near me who probably has STDs
People who think it is immoral in that scenario think its immoral because (in their view) its immoral.
There is no logical why. Just like there is no logic to 'I believe in God'. You do, or you don't. These are beliefs founded often in cultural values, upbringing or religion and none of them have a logical answer for why. Its an opinion, thats all.
Some of these people are jealous that others of us are more able to get dates than they are.
Sex to me is a vital part of any relationship, but going around condemning other people for things you dont do or like to do, is not fair.
please follow me back so I can ask you a question I am not allowed to post on under 18 questions.
it is not dirty, just a question i have had when i was 16yo
lol why would a girl be jealous of a girl who has many sexual partners?
@adeqi coz the girl can't get guys to ask her out and she hates girls that do go out a lot.
I know plenty. My sister Anna is like that. She is 23yo and had only dated on guy AND he told me she had only had Sex with him one time AND it was all about her, not him ! He stays with her coz he likes her a lot.
I get asked out a lot and I still abhor sluts.
I do not have anything against having friends who are promiscuous. But I wouldn't want to date anyone of them. I think that someone who sees sex as a pure physical act is way more likely to go out and cheat while inside a relationship.
I don’t care what others do I just don’t want to date them. I don’t sleep around so I don’t want to date someone who does.
There are clear psychological findings that show people who tend to sleep around a lot and don't form lasting, healthy relationships end up more depressed and in worse health.
And no self respect