Why chastity becoming so popular?

[lolian94alexander]

What would be your reaction if your date told you that he his into chastity on the first date would you consider it a red flag and call it off
Or you would take a try and go forward and consider it part of his loyalty?

Call it off

I would like to try

I shouldn’t lose him

[Lliam]

If a girl said that to me, I would call off the date.

I don't mind dating exclusively until we get to know each other and build trust. But I would expect a relationship between two healthy people to graduate to sex eventually.

If she planned on remaining chaste until marriage, I wouldn't waste one minute of time on her. There is no way I would marry someone without knowing if we were sexually compatible or even if she had any libido at all.

I'm turned off by religious hang ups and sexual inhibitions. I like women with self-esteem and self respect who are picky in choosing a partner, but who love sex and don't see it as immoral or dirty.

I don't see virginity as virtuous. Unless a person is young, I just assume that it indicates insecurity, inhibition, and/or lack of libido.

[ProbablyClueless]

I think a lot of people have just started to recognize that sex gets them in a ton of drama and provides very little reward.

Honestly, I've been on a lot of dates with women I found very physically appealing who were just... spiritually gross people.

[SueShe]

I would welcome it of course because, let's be honest, most people are just into fornicating and not really into a deeper, more meaningful relation where fornicating is not the main topic in that relationship.

It is very refreshing to know that there are such people that don't place any importance on copulating and prefer the more important aspects of a relationship which are the mutual understanding and trust.

Chastity has only positive effects. It avoids or seriously limits physical cheating since the sexual act is unimportant. Also, the emotional cheating is drastically reduced as well since watching pornography behind the back of the partner or without the knowledge and consent of said partner is not likely an issue.

[lolian94alexander]

That’s a very good and comforting answer ☺️☺️☺️

[lolian94alexander]

Would you consider it for a temporary period until trust build up , or as long as he wants or you want

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[lolian94alexander]

Your are welcome and your answer was the best

[PeachyPie93]

If it's getting popular, it's probably because people are getting sick of hookup culture. Hook up culture is one of the reasons I am so scared to try dating now. I wouldn't mind waiting until we are in real love with each other but I wouldn't be waiting until marriage. I can't be tied down again to a guy who barely wants to have sex, that's the absolute worst for me especially because I feel love through sex.

[Anonymous]

You better wait a while before you bring that up. If you were dumb enough to talk about that on a first date, it would be over already. It's ok to be into it but you don't talk about stuff like that right away.

[lolian94alexander]

So you would be fine with it , if he brought it up on fourth or fifth date?

[Opinion Owner]

Longer. Months and months down the road before you get into any unusual kinks. There is a level of comfort and trust that should be established over time before that is discussed. Bringing stuff up like that too early says you might be obsessed with it.

[lolian94alexander]

It’s not about being obsessed with it , it’s just to save time , because months and months then getting rejected is hurtful and it feels bad , I always like to be an open book to my date

[Nikki1989]

I would laugh at his utter absurdity.

[lolian94alexander]

Why do u consider it that way

[WonderingManII]

I don't understand the chastity thing.

[In_Trance]

It's not

[lolian94alexander]

It is
Google it 😂😂😂

[In_Trance]

Because everything on Google is accurate...