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Are men & women who refuse to date trans women & men, respectively, insecure bigots? (Page 2)
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I couldn’t date a trans gender because I’d still see them as their original gender. It would make me extremely uncomfortable.
Now that we have our answers; the next question is, How do you handle the situation after you thought you were dating a real person for a year and found out you're getting married and they finally tell you that they're a trans? O_O
And by the way, I would rather date a real girl. And not one who had "her" penis chopped off... 😲😦😬😧
Cuz, I'm a real boy!! ( get it? Line from Pinocchio? Lol)
I respect your decision if you wanna be trans but I'm not gonna date a trans. I want someone who has been a guy sence birth. If that makes me shallow then so be it. Who cares
You can change your body, but not your brain.
I have been asked out by very handsome "men," had penis surgery and all, but there are subtle hints transgenders give off, suggesting their true gender.
Example, the guy who asked me out, had very delicate movements and feminine aura. Conversation gave it away, his voice was deep, but women communicate in a slightly unique way to men.
I can suggest you go too your nearest GIC as trans people brains are in fact the gender they identify with, for example Morden medical science can tell which babies are going to transgender in their adult life by looking at the brain, a trans woman’s brain, is is structured the same way as cis woman’s brain which results in a female outlook on life, it also results in a female personality. Today’s GIC study and deal with trans people and the information you are going by is outdated by nearly a year 😌.
From what I can tell I can blend into female society very easily and have had many men and woman shocked too the point of attacking me when I tell them am trans, so even in a social setting your wrong and what you "experienced" is either false and you made it up or you were just picking at someone after you found out. ^^
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No, you can tell. And if trans brains were the same as cis brains, transgenders wouldn't have to learn opposite gender behaviors and mannerisms. A trans has to train their body to move and function like their mental gender, and even their thought processing lol
Being a woman doesn't mean having a higher voice and wearing makeup, or being catty.
And I actually asked them if they were trans when I picked up the vibe.
Its okay, I dont know why trans people get so butt hurt over people realizing your trans. Its what you are afterall.
I addresd trans persons by their appearance, as not to be impolite pronoun wise.
But yeah, big difference in brain and internal points from cis females and trans. Thats why they can tell a baby will be trans, due to these differences.
But a trans person still has traces if their birth gender, which is why questions like this are even asked.
@BesrkirAstrid
I also think its not cool if someone just dates a trans as a fetish
As a trans woman myself I can tell you I never learned female mannerisms or behaviours you information seems confused, however I have the professionals give me the information they researched through years and years p, as a trans woman I can blend in really well and no one can tell that I was born as male, the brain function is very real and all trans woman only need too practice their voice and nothing more, again am going the process and am not on HTR yet so hopefully this conversation will point out being female is about the brain and we trans woman have that however your entitled too your views and am not criticising you and simply sharing what information I have through experience and research I was given.
On that one point we agree it is never right too be someone’s fetish ^^.
No.
I'm not homophobic for refusing to date a guy.
Some people are just put off by dating someone who wasn't born as their current gender, with some refusing to even consider them their new gender.
No. Someone has the right not to date someone, for whatever reason.
Look, I am super open minded & easy going but you’re basically saying it’s okay for me to reject a woman for not having the body shape I prefer but I can’t reject trans for having the wrong genitals or perhaps sounding like the wrong gender? That does not make sense.
Side note: I would cut way more slack to someone who lived as the other sex since childhood than someone who started doing it when they were 25 or whatever. But I would not go looking for trans.
I have seen some trans that you can't even tell they were born a male so for. me to say i wouldn't date one is questionable , just like anyone it depends on the person and the attraction as long as she has a vagina and tits and ass i would be good lol
Im sorry but im not dating a dude nope nope nope nu uh nope nope no sir nope nope nu uh not today nope if that makes me a biggot than so be it
No they're not it's just everybody has a preference you can't get mad at somebody because they have a certain type of person that they day they just don't want to date anybody trans cuz that's not there and there's nothing wrong with that. You can't force your lifestyle upon someone else no more than they can force their lifestyle upon you.
No, they just respect human biology and aren't bisexual/homosexual.
If you think i should date someone who fucked their body up for what? To fix their feelings? You can't even use the new additions like a real man / woman.
The penisses made from vaginas are hideous and the fake vaginas can't get kids what's the fucking point.
In my opinion, it's a preference case. I wouldn't date a trans person and I really don't care if they think I'm a bigot because of that.
Haha, nope, and it's one of the most ludicrous notions I've ever heard.
Personal taste can never be discriminatory, and "trans" people are just mentally ill fucks and should be locked up in a mental institution, while sex change operations should be forbidden worldwide.
If it makes me a bigot then yes I'm a bigot however I don't care who you are I will treat you as that gender that you want to be identified as it's about respect
Dating should be based on your personal preferences, not political correctness. Otherwise you are suggesting that, for example, if a straight man asked a lesbian out on a date, she wouldn't be able to refuse for risk of being called sexist.
I plan to father children, so I would want a real woman with proper reproductive organs (reconstructive surgery does not give a man who decides to be a woman reproductive success, at least as far as I know). Even if men who become women can reproduce, it is something I personally think is unnerving. To each his own... I would prefer to be in a relationship with someone born naturally as a woman without a surgery.
I am heterosexual and I love to date trans women. Whether other heterosexual men who refuse to date trans women are bigots or not is not really an important question. It's like asking whether refusing to date black women makes you a bigot. Dating trans women is a preference. Whether that makes you a bigot or not is not important.
If you date a trans woman... you aren’t straight.
@Rissyanne Yes, dating a trans woman makes you straight. You are dating her because she looks like a woman. A gay person won't want to date something that looks like a woman - he will want to date something that looks like a man.
Dude she has a dick... that makes you gay. How are you going to have sex with him? He can put makeup on and get in a dress... he’s still a guy. You are just in denial of your sexuality. Just come on out.
@Rissyanne Bitch, use your brain, a gay person wouldn't want to date someone that looks like a hot woman. You date a person, not a sex organ.
Bitch I don’t care how much he looks like a girl. He has a dick. You are gay... just come on out of the closet already.
Look you fag... you like dick so you are gay
@Rissyanne Fuck you cunt bitch. Apparently logic was something you failed in class. Fucking dyke.
Wow I must have hit a faggot nerve. You keep sucking those dicks lol
@Rissyanne No bitch, you just verbally attack people without being able to intelligently debate. That means you already lost the debate. So you are saying if a guy dates a person that looks like a man, but has a vagina, he is straight. Your brain is fucked up, that's why you don't have common sense. Oh, fuck, I just ejaculated in your mom's mouth.
You want to date a man in a dress and you say my brain is fucked... ha ha. You are so twisted... and gay. Go suck your tranny’s dick. lol
You wouldn’t like my mom. She is a real woman. You want a guy in a dress.
This is what you like.
https://youtu.be/JdnBV-S-RXk
The only bitch here is YOU
Everyone should be free to propose and reject whoever he/she likes.
Anyone who says otherwise gives low value to freedom.