Do you agree with the LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY that most straight men are bigots for refusing to date transgender women?

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The LGBTQIA+ community is putting forth these promotions as shown above to make awareness of straight men hatred for transgender women being the main reason that they don't want to date them.

We see evidence of this from the video below. Claire and her transgender girlfriend go to the beach and get approached by 2 straight males showing interest in them. However, both guys turn them down once they realize that they are transgender.

Even on Gag, if we were to show a picture of a good looking woman and tell the male users that she is trans, the vast majority of men on here would deny they find her attractive. Yet, if we post the same woman on her again a few months later and don't give out that info the results are completely different.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

No, I don't agree with that. This is called preference and personal ideals and values. Should we call all LGBTQ+ bigots for refusing to date straight people? God forbid a straight man doesn't want to be involved with or date a trans woman. It doesn't make them bigots for turning them down or rejecting them.

You are attracted to what you are attracted to. You can't force it or change it because now it is based around a lie, inauthenticity. This is just fucking sideshow and further attempt to silence others through means of toxic rhetoric.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

I remember this BS from last year. This is why I don't take the Alphabet People seriously anymore. I wouldn't even date a weekend lesbian (aka "bisexual") and you expect me to date a mentally ill person with a cock? Okay, guess I'm a "bigot" then! ♫ I'm a bigot, you're a bigot, she's a bigot, WE'RE ALL BIGOTS! ♫ Hey look guys! I found the new LGBTQIA+ flag!

letuswaltzforthedead · Accepted Answer

LGBTQIA+ community isn't a community, you know that, right? It's mostly just a bunch of toddlers on social media crying about how they have the moral "high ground" and because of that, are superior to everyone else. There's normal people who are straight cis men or women, there's normal lgbqa+ (removed the letters related to gender).

Missgingles · Accepted Answer

No.

I would never date a transman. I wanna be able to have children in the future and that won't work if we are both biological women.

However I could absolutly be their friend. I dont think its wrong to have any prefrence in dating cause you can't control what you are attracted too. But friendship is different.

Anonymous · Answer

That's no different than saying I'm homophobic, because I won't sleep with gay men.

No, it doesn't. I'm straight. I've always been straight. I always will be straight. I'm attracted to women. Not men with breasts and a custom-built vagina. If you have a Y chromosome, I'm not attracted to you.

That's not hatred, or bigotry. It's fucking nature. Heterosexuality is natural. Homosexuality is natural. Human beings do not naturally have the ability to change sex, so transgenderism is NOT natural, and people shouldn't be condemned for not finding a man with breasts attractive.

I support LBGT-whatever rights, and they can live however the fuck they want, but when THEY don't respect MY rights to date whomever the fuck I want, then my sympathy for them dries up immediately, and they can go fuck themselves.

Sorry, not sorry. Why should I support someone who criticizes me for not agreeing with their goddamned delusions?

GreatBigCircles · Answer

If you let society dictate who you can and can’t be attracted to, then you’ve taken away peoples basic reproductive and social freedoms. Everyone should be free to love their lives, and one persons desire ti dare someone should override that persons freedom to choose.

NamerOfStars · Answer

So every girl who ever rejects a guy is guilty of a hate crime? It's like these people have some kind of religious taboo against actually thinking their statements through.

I feel bad for the trans people who just want to live their lives, and have to deal with crazies like this making everyone think it's what THEY believe. That on TOP of the inherent trans stuff just makes it seem unbearable.

USLegionary · Answer

No they are just Hetrosexual. Are transsexuals bigoted for not dating the sex they were born as. Are lesbians bigots for not having sex with and marrying straight men? Where does it it when you logically think it all through?

jshm2 · Answer

The so called "LGB, whatever it is this week" community need to get their head out their ass. They have a fetish for wedging it up there, and don't seem to use it for thinking any more.

You cannot demand people do -or not do- something, outside of their legal choice.

Transmales and transfemales are for each other, and not others.

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

It's not "hatred" it's logics.

98% of straight men, at some point in their life, are looking for a woman (or women) to have kids with. Probably around 98% of transgender women don't have a womb. As such they don't even make the most basic/simplest criteria for dating potential.

So, to be extremely blunt, why would a guy spend time with her?

AviatorTom · Answer

Traditionally, the main reason for dating is to find a mate, one with which a guy can have a family. A trans woman doesn't have ovaries and a uterus and cannot have a child.

Why would it be bigotry to prefer a woman who can give the man what he's looking for?

NO, it's not bigotry.

LazerBean · Answer

It's not bigotry for a "straight" man to be "straight".

Dingsbums · Answer

First of all I think the number is wrong. Secondly I think it is for a different reason than “hate” those people can’t control their own emotions that’s why everything they dislike they call hate. And all the support they get they call Love etc

DrBanana · Answer

In my opinion no.

I would be a biggot if i hated you and treated you badly because you are trans and different form other people, but with this being said sex is a consensual act between two ( or more i dont judge) adults.

My body my choice applies both ways you could be a super attractive trans person but if i dont want to sleep with you i dont want to sleep with you.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, sexual preferences are genetic, not choice, and thus can't be bigotry.

The 2 written examples you listed mean nothing, because straight men are attracted to the female form only, so of course when anything is revealed as appearing or sounding male, attraction is lost. To expect otherwise is absurd.

There is a reason the term "trap" was coined, because some men look like women from the waste up.

rtj1211 · Answer

They can go shove their opinions where the sun don't shine to be brutal. No man should be expected to date transgender women. They can choose to, but to demand it says you have a need to see a professional psychologist.

Belgie · Answer

That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard, and this is a site which swings pro Trump.

Not wanting to date a penis wielding human doesn't make a man a bigot. Anyone who claims otherwise is a bona-fide retard.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

No, they're just being dumb at this point, like I support gay rights and I'm cool with gay people, but some idiots need to chill the fuck out.

AMGShintaru · Answer

I don’t think it’s transphobic from either of the sexes. It’s just a preference thing. Some people are into it, some are not. That doesn’t make them transphobic. It’s a difficult topic because trans people still face so much discrimination and hate everyday.

Sixgunsound · Answer

You can’t involuntarily compel attraction. Think about the slippery slope legislating attraction would lead down. That would be a quantum leap further toward handmaid’s tale than anything the right is doing right now.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck them. If that's true then they're fucking bigots for refusing to buy into the reality that I see and that pretty much EVERY non-mentally-ill human being sees: namely that dudes born as dudes are dudes and always will be no matter how much they wish they were chicks.

Anonymous · Answer

The only ones who think that straight men are bigots for refusing to date transgender women are the rabid trans-allies,

Men have one biological imperative behind dating, and it is something transgender women are unable to do.

Think it through, I'm sure you'll work it out.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't agree trans women need to stop forcing themselves on men who clearly don't roll like that. I don't understand the insanity of wanting someone who doesn't agree with your lifestyle

monorprise · Answer

Why would I want to date anther man?  I didn't date for "Feelings" I dated to find a wife and start a family and life. Only a real woman can do that with a man.

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