I’m #bigender, why do people think I don’t exist?

[Anonymous]

It’s possible to identify as both genders

[DeviloftheValleys]

Gender is not an identity. Gender is an agreement with society to act a certain way, and have society treat you a certain way.

A woman carries herself as a woman. A man carries himself as a man. The requirements are low and hard to define, but they are there. Society, as a response, treats them differently.

In western civilization, your gender literally doesn't exist. People will always treat you as either a man or woman, think of you as a man or woman. Straight people of one of the genders will be attracted to you, and based on your birth certificate, you may be drafted or not.

Your gender is not yours. It is like your name; it really belongs to society in order for them to have guidelines on how to treat you. If I want people to say two names simultaneously while speaking about or to me, society will cast me out. So don't be surprised when you are cast out for wanting to be treated as both genders.

[Jin-Jin]

You know, eventually it will be illegal to misgender someone. You'll have to change your mind then. Lol

[DeviloftheValleys]

When I am oppressed by a gender based fascist regime, yes. I will have to conform and act as a sheep in order to preserve myself.

"Soon it will be illegal to marry jews. You'll have to change your mind then, LOL"

"Soon it will be illegal to criticise the president. You'll have to change your mind then, LOL"

You are a fascist, who instead of wanting to win fairly in the marketplace of ideas, you want to force others to do your bidding with violence.

[Jin-Jin]

Imagine comparing treating people with dignity and fairness to actual fascism 😂😂😂

[DeviloftheValleys]

Forcing someone to treat people with dignity is fascism, and totalitarianism. It is no business of the state.

[Jin-Jin]

You know, we forced Germany to stop treating the Jews like animals. I guess we're the fascists now, when a minority groups oppressed the best thing to do is just let the majority continue because human life doesn't really matter 😂

[DeviloftheValleys]

You are incredibly dense.

Freedom is what we strife for. Removing state oppression by force is not fascist.

[Jin-Jin]

So it's only not fascist if it's something you personally agree with lol, stop being such a hypocrite

[DeviloftheValleys]

No. It's only fascist if it's restrictions on freedom by the state.

[Jin-Jin]

It would be illegal for me to stab you, is that fascist or is it a fair law, to protect people?

[DeviloftheValleys]

It is required of the state to protect me, because the function of the state is to protect people and their property. Anything outside of that is not their business.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Sticks and stones may break your bones but words can never hurt you.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Look here dude. You're an intelligent guy, I can tell. Go read up on this stuff, and you'll get far. Read John Locke, Sam Smith.

[Jin-Jin]

Implying someone's identity is invalid dehumanises and excuses violence. It's a similar reason to why you don't say the n word or the f word nowadays.

[DeviloftheValleys]

No, it does not. Other people may draw that conclusion, but my freedom of speech protects me. And I do use both the words niqqer and faqqot. Here in Sweden, there is a popular treat called a "niggerball". And as a bisexual guy, I call myself faqqot all the time, as well as my gay friend. Words only have the power you give them.

And all identities are invalid. This is equal. Your identity doesn't mean shit to me. How you act is the only thing I care about. And people simply cannot act as both genders.

[Jin-Jin]

What a surprise, a guy from the whitest country in the world is okay with saying the n word. Try it in America or England.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Are you saying black people have thin skin? That's pretty racist.

[Jin-Jin]

The guy who openly says the n word trying to flip racism on me? No I'm not satisfied that at all, I'm saying that it's incredibly disrespectful and you would probably get hurt

[DeviloftheValleys]

Niqqer is just a word. It holds no meaning that you don't give it.

Being racist is to have an opinion. Saying a word doesn't make you the least bit racist.

[Jin-Jin]

Except words have certain connotations. If there's a word directly related to treating a certain race like property, then it's safe to assume that using that word makes you racist

[DeviloftheValleys]

No. It is very presumptuous to assume that. Blacks have no history of oppression here. The word only has meaning because of American influence.

[Jin-Jin]

So you're intentionally importing a word that has roots in oppression and slavery to a country which has not oppressed them? What does that achieve?

[DeviloftheValleys]

The word "neger" only means "brown/black skin coloured person". It has no other meaning.

[Jin-Jin]

Neger is not the word we're talking about here

[CT_CD]

I think you exist

[LittleBird_]

You cannot be "bigender" There is no thing such as "a person with no genders" there are only XX and XY chromosomes in nature. Therefore you can be a male or a female only. Have you ever heard of a "genderless" animal? Even animals are not dealing wit this stupid shit lel. Other "genders" are mental illnesses. You need serious help. Start wth going to a psychologist.

[Repa33]

Well i personally dont believe in that stuff. Its like someone identify as an otherkin. How does one feel like a dude if gender is a "social construct"?

[Jin-Jin]

If gender is a social contruct then it's completely possible to identify as something other than what society is telling you to.

As a female, do you insist on being pretty and delicate and motherly and submssive, as society tells you to be?
Or do you not confirm to the gender roles constructed by society?

[Iron_Man]

Yeah like Michael Jackson

[jacksmith01]

Of course it is possible to "identify" as both genders but you are either male or female because there are only two genders.

A male that identify as bigender or neither is still a male and a female that identify as bigender or neither is still a female. You are what you are.

[Anonymous]

Gender is a social construct aka it doesent have any scientific basis or biological basis, so you can call yourself whatever you want, your biological sex proven by science is still male or female, so in conclusion gender is a made up word by society so you can call yourself any gender you make up and be technically correct but it really doesent matter because your sex is male or female

[Stoner710]

No it’s not, it’s not possible to switch your gender either if you have a penis your a guy in you have a vagina your a girl, If you think your the other gender that’s called gender dysphoria which is a mental condition you should get treatment for

[Jin-Jin]

Don't listen to most of the comments, they're a bunch of oversensitive trolls who block you as soon as you call them out.

You do you, be yourself. It's not a big deal.

[jimyee]

Sorry but that pretty dumb and I'm pretty open minded.

[BCA6010]

I can also claim to be from another planet. That doesn't make it scientifically true.

[TripleAce]

So you can procreate all on your own... super human 😛
That’s left for alien genetic mutation

[Jin-Jin]

Please do some research before you comment, that's not what bigender is

[TripleAce]

@Jin-Jin yes I get it... identify as 2 genders, male and female
sure yes you seem bigender I think

[Jin-Jin]

Then why do you think identifying as something will allow you to procreate?

[TripleAce]

@Jin-Jin just jokes... its ok you are allowed.. if it makes you happy its fine

[Rogzi]

Because it's stupid. You aren't both genders.
You're either a girl or boy. 1 or the other.

[blondfrog]

That's a new word never heard of this one. Wouldn't even be surprised if you got offended by the fact I didn't know what this word meant.

[100lbguy]

I'm still left wing (centre left), but this shit ain't normal.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Good for you.
Unless you're a hermaphrodite, I don't understand how that's possible, but okay.

[mook123]

i indentify as god people hate me for it to watch the dislikes i get smh

[Iron_Man]

How is it possible to be considered a half male half female

[Jin-Jin]

Bigender is a gender identity that includes any two gender identities and behaviors. Some bigender individuals express two distinct personas, which may be feminine, masculine, agender, androgyne, or other gender identities; others find that they identify as two genders simultaneously.

It has nothing to do with their actual sex.

[Iron_Man]

It's called being a schizophrenic

[Jin-Jin]

No, schizophrenia is a long-term mental disorder of a type involving a breakdown in the relation between thought, emotion, and behaviour, leading to faulty perception, inappropriate actions and feelings, withdrawal from reality and personal relationships into fantasy and delusion, and a sense of mental fragmentation.

Entirely different to a gender identity.

[Iron_Man]

@Jin-Jin dysphoria (GD), is a rare condition characterized by an incongruity between gender identity and biological sex. Clinical evidence suggests that schizophrenia occurs in patients with GID at rates higher than in the general population and that patients with GID may have schizophrenia-like personality traits. Conversely, patients with schizophrenia may experience alterations in gender identity and gender role perception. Neurobiological research, including brain imaging and studies of finger length ratio and handedness, suggests that both these disorders are associated with altered cerebral sexual dimorphism and changes in cerebral lateralization. Various mechanisms, such as Toxoplasma infection, reduced levels of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), early childhood adversity, and links with autism spectrum disorders, may account for some of this overlap. The implications of this association for further research are discussed.

[TheSpartan]

What matters is what someone is, not what they identify as.

[Ephemera1]

No it is not possible to identify as both genders.

[Anonymous]

If its true, send a pic with both you dick and vag in the same unedited picture.

[SkipStop]

Can you explain what that means?

[Metallsturm]

You have XXYX chromosomes?

[CitadelStormer333]

Do your chromosomes also identify as "bi-gender"?

[Jin-Jin]

Your behaviour has nothing to do with your chromosomes. Dumbass.

[CitadelStormer333]

Chromosomes determine your sex. Dumbass.

[Jin-Jin]

Sex and identity are not the same thing LMAO

[CitadelStormer333]

You're biological sex determines how you think, how you behave, how you look, and who you are. Stupid faggot.

[Jin-Jin]

Hey buddy, do some research before you comment, because you sound incredibly ignorant right now.

[CitadelStormer333]

Maybe you should scan a 6th-grade, human-biology, text-book. You may learn a thing or two.

[Jin-Jin]

Maybe you should scan a 6th grade psychology textbook my friend, because gender is in the mind

[CitadelStormer333]

LOL. Is that what they taught you at the leftist, public-indoctrination, center?

[Big-A]

Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve.