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Do you feel uncomfortable when couples argue in front of you?
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Sometimes. Depends on the location and the level of the outburst.
In college I was at my gf's house with a group of our friends. One of her friends was arguing with her on again/off again boyfriend at the time, relatively quietly. No one even knew, until she randomly yelled something. I don't even remember what she yelled. I just remember looking across the table to one of my other friends in confirmation that actually just happened. We went on business as usual as if nothing happened lol. They put their argument aside to have it later in private.
That was uncomfortable, but we salvaged the party thankfully.
But if it's just a couples argument at the bar or something. I don't really care unless they try to blow up. Just last weekend I saw a girl getting carried away by a security guard as she was just waaaailing at the top of her lungs "YOU STUPID BITCH! YOU STUPID STUPID BIIIITCH!". Now that was hilarious, because I just did not think anyone would actually go that crazy lol
I try and instigate further drama. When you see a fire, add petrol 🤭
Lmao 😂😂😂 I'm so proud of you right now
Yeah I hate it so much. It's hella uncomfortable especially if people outside of close family members witness it too. Like that one time when mom was super mad at dad and said some really rude words that I never thought a wife could ever tell her husband, and I hated that the maid in our house saw it all. I don't care that she is here to work and that she lives with us, she still is a person not close to us in the end.
But then, where I live, men beating their wives in public is a thing. And worst thing is some people are even okay with it and think that no one should interrupt because it's their business. I literally cried when a guy told me, his friend once attempted to protect a woman getting slapped by her husband on the sidewalk and the lady slapped him instead saying 'My husband can do whatever he wants with me, what's your problem?'
Gotta love a society where women can't have their own personality and dignity. :'')
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Very. Even just little snips at each other make it uncomfortable, to let it escalate into an actual argument is inconsiderate and, as you said poor control.
You don’t have to be all lovey dovey to be civil to each other until you get home!
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Yes, it's extremely inconsiderate.
Yea.
Feels scary, can't be audience, will pick up their lines and learn how to fight
can't choose a side, coz dont know who is right who is wrong
can't help both, it would be temporary and no much of use if they dont realise.
can't run away, watching something good falling apart.
This weekend a friend invited me to our uni professor's birthday, brought along her kid and husband. Husband called her out for her driving, said "I don't care if you want to kill yourself, but don't do it with my daughter in the car"
I don't really know why I felt like that was nothing uncommon, perhaps after growing up and hearing the same bs not only from my own parents when growing up but over and over. I think people might learn to put masks and wash dirty clothes indoors or not, but this is a really violent world behind the subtleties.
Yes, I always feel uncomfortable when I’m in a situation like that because I can see where the flaw starts but apparently they can’t perceive it. And it’s really sad and upsetting to see a couple reach those levels of disrespect and lack of communication.
There wasn't any correct answer to pick from but myself I believe if it is a situation of spouses arguing, you can sort of give each other that certain look that says we can take this up when we get home.
YESSS, I once was at my aunt's house and she started fighting with her husband in the next room, they were very loud and then they decided to move the fight in the room i am sitting in and it was weird af specially when their sons started screamin at them to shut up and pointed at me saying " you are going to make every body laugh at us, let the young girl know how fucked up we are"
It was very awkward and i wanted to slap them all so they would stfu lol
Very uncomfortable. They can't control their emotions and I don't want to be there for their slugfests, be they verbal or physical.
Yeah its really annoying that they think there personal life is something a stranger needs to know about, take it home and solve it in the kitchen or the bedroom, or just breakup and leave me out of it.
Probably more judgy than uncomfortable, hahaha. That’s not too classy in my book🧐
It makes me uncomfortable, but I realize it's a fact of life.
Maybe if i don't know them. Because you can guage the seriousness of people you know. People you don't you have no clue.
I feel uncomfortable when anybody argues in front of me, as I'm not big into confrontation and not only does it make me uncomfortable but it also raises my anxiety levels.
If it's a little argument, it doesn't much bother me. But if the argument is bigger, or if one of the spouses demeans the other, than it's uncomfortable.
Haha no I love to witness real life drama especially when it’s friends who’ve been rubbing their relationships in my face at every given opportunity (of which I seemingly have a lot) 😂
Very much so.
There is something weird about people who have no qualms about airing their dirty laundry in public. Keep your dirt to yourself. If I want too see couples arguing I can watch a realty TV show.
I find it highly entertaining although it shows they were raised with no social graces. Argue all you want but have the decency not to do it in front of guests or friends
To be honest nearly causes me to have a panic attack remind me of the 16 years I was married it was like that every day
depends, in general yes. sometimes its negotiation at higher volumes. Sometimes I can interject humor into it and it diffuses.
When people argue and fight in front of me, I'll just walk away lol!
Thanks for the upvote @wittymilf 😉
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