If you could magically fix one thing about the opposite sex, what would it be? (Page 2)
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"Wait, you are in 10th grade? Ok"
Probably the fact that dads forget their kids age, school, name, or even how many kids they have 😂 that one always bugs me.
I don't find it that bothersome when men forget birthdays and anniversaries, but the kids.. c'mon
A father would not get away with doing that in America. Forgetting their kids' names or birthdays, their wives would cut their balls off lol.
Thinking their emotions entitle them to something or give them special rights. Though I obey the rules of harm-avoiding and comforting etiquette when speaking with women
experiencing strong emotions - I mean the cases when I have to do too much acting, intentionally being not myself - I hate the existence of the necessity to obey them that is imprinted in the gender interactions in critical moments or just moments being hold for worthy by the opposite gender of applying their special rights.
But I'm conscious that if it'd truly disappear our world wouldn't be the same. So I'd be happy if it happened at least if I consider only what It would bring to my life, but I don't want it to happen because many things in the world probably would get out of order if it did.
(And of course it's not only about women, but still the majority of cases - I'm convinced - are them and of course not about all of them, but again probably about the majority. I'm well aware.)
I would wish that every woman could see herself through the eyes of a man in love. If they could do that I think they might be a little less critical of their own body.
Awwwwww. You're so awesome.
I'd give her the power over her ovulation. You don't want a period, you don't have one. Want to get pregnant? Release at will.
Ooooh good idea. I would have been a lot more relaxed in my early years if I had that.
Lol well I would say the fact that I can't have a female friend with out my girl thinking I am cheating. I get along better with females then males and wish I didn't have to argue with my girlfriend over it. I don't cheat and am single cause of being friends with woman. Suks but I can't change the fact that I have female friends
Hmmm yes I see.
There was a q on here very recently, where a guy is upset his girlfriend is still Facebook friends with her ex from 5ish years ago. He found it disrespectful. He wanted her to unfriend him but left it up to her for 3 months. When she didn't, he asked gag, and decided to bring it up to her. She agreed, and unfriended him.
I'm not sure that this was the right way to go with this, but he insisted it wasn't jealousy on his part, and she is loyal and not still harbouring feelings for him. It was more about the ex being able to see all the photos of her new life with the current boyfriend. Thoughts?
I doubt there is anything I could do. The opposite sex is not broken anything I do would only be to change things to my liking. Women are like they are because they evolved that way. Of course I myself am a part of nature. It would be no different than a wind storm or rocks falling down the side of a mountain. Something would definitely change , what the long term result would be I don't know. My inclination is to get rid of sex all together and grant humanity immortality instead. Like the older forms of life had. Without death there is no need to reproduce.
Women would use speech for communicating what they want, and never again think that men read or use "signals"
Oh man, I don't know how we're going to make any headway with that one.
Hmmmm
for guys to feel like their more accepted and that they're able to express their feelings like women are
It could be possible if women didn't attack verbally in/by forming group on man trying to express his opinion. i. e bashing men
Just because you have more supporters doesn't mean you're right. Every opinion is important.
note:here "you " implies women who have group/mob mentality.
Beautiful answer. Thank you, emily.
Wish I could give more than 2 MHOs. Wanted to give you one too.
HONOURARY MHO FOR YOU 💛💯
thank you💞
Their taste in men!
Too many women I know really need to higher their standards. I see so many girls (who once had great potential) throwing their lives away with men who are ugly, immature, abusive, ignorant, uncultured, smelly, poorly dressed/groomed, etc — all while they leave men like me (who possess the opposite qualities) sitting alone & miserable in the gutter 💔
But if it were you you wouldn’t be saying anything like that?
Their tendancy to look in the mirror and see unattractive.
Thank you. Very kind of you.
This isn't one thing, but here's some changes I would make.
-Get rid of menstruation and make the female ovulation cycle more efficient, no more pain or periods.
-Decrease the fertility window to a week every month. It would be possible to have sex and not get pregnant for the rest of the month. On these fertile periods, women would lose their libido and be able to "feel" when they're fertile due to hormone changes.
-Increase their libido, ideally to the same level as ours.
-Make half or 1/3rd of women have pseudo-penises or "dicks"
i would wish that sex wasn't something that controls their mind. I don't really care at this point, but I know that's what I would have said before.
It changes as they get older. At 18ish their hormones are raging. But you'll find into the last 20s and onwards, potentially, their innerworkings and therefore priorities change.
You could date a little older, but at your age, not too much older.
I think girls are way more hornier than guys, we cum once and were done, if we could cum multiple times some of us wouldn’t even leave the house
@chris_987 no they are not usually and they usually want an emotional return. So would you go around sleeping around if you knew afterward your feelings would get hurt, probably not if you had that price to pay.
I’m not I understand what you mean,
I won't explain much but if that stops what you are asking for like all will follow MGTOW I am at 100% certain..
@leahzrc
If it wasn't for sex why would they be attracted to you in first place.
You will always be another man for him like friend.
If that's what you want then. I'm pretty certain you haven't seen life of asexual husband and normal heterosexual which equals to divorce sooner or later. No matter How much loving or caring personality husband have.
@Aaron i dont care for anyone to be attracted to me, i dont care to have a husband or marriage either
so you're asexual
OK then you might be right from your perspective.
@Aaron i dont know what i am but i would feel more human if sex didn't rule over their minds
If you're healthy heterosexual person then you can't live your life without masturbating over opposite gender.
If some girl wants to deny it, good for her ignorance but it's the truth.
@Aaron i didn't deny anything, how does what i said make me ignorant
If it was implied to you I would have mentioned your name.
It was for crazy girls who always want to deny opinion of men.
@Aaron_Stone that doesn't mean it control your entire mind, which is all she was saying that some men but sex as TOO HIGH a priority which is totally true, she just worded it differently
Obviously it shouldn't be controlling entire mind. Those are few men who think sex is the only thing they need.
I'm implying Sex as major driving force that can't be denied/separated from human.
@Aaron yeah that's what i would wish
I have one Question:
Why do women deny sex after marriage?
It only takes few minutes or 1hour to get it done. It's not like they don't get pleasure out of it.
Also men are quite happy if they aren't denied for affection. Its way of showing love and lust for partner.
Men get even happier if woman is initiating sex making them feel desired.
Then why the hell women think their partner is only after their body?
and not love them. Why ruin happy going sex life?
If all they wanted was body then they could have gone to brothel or married with sex worker.
@Aaron_Stone they use it as a tool to control men 😂
Then why keep whining about being objectified for body. Aren't they one who are doing it for fulfilling their desires.
@Aakash_Hangargi
Everyone knows they use it for controlling but the way they portray themselves as innocent and victim of male desires is amusing and hilarious in itself. 🤣😆
Before marriage its a different game its new they also want it when you know that it's weak spot not all but some take advantage, objectification is a different aspect and it's biased some like to objectified it sorta gives meaning to them and they use there body to serve that purpose because its easier to get acknowledged for their eatherly beauty, and for some it's disgrace since they can't be that and give value to society in different way
If women were honest enough...
sigh..😔
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but who are we expecting from😆
@Aakash_Hangargi
They play poker in real life to get better deal without exposing themselves.
@Aaron_Stone there are always counter parts there are women who give there 100% but get reject they dedicate there life in service of men but they don't get anything in return it becomes hard for them human behaviour is way beyond boxing into a certain category its on us whom we choose to be with
obviously I'm not generalizing.
We have people of all kinds.
That's why I haven't lost hope.
@Aaron genuine human connection doesn't have to be lustful
that is if those aren't husband-wife/couple.
if there is no physical attraction between couple then they become more of best friend or just brother-sister.
Those people are very dear to us but it doesn't mean we can marry them. Very purpose of man -women coming together having marriage is sexual attraction and emotional bonding to mate and love each other and reproduce.
Otherwise it would have guy-guy best friends together or brothers to live together. That isn't the case with heterosexual majority we see in society.
i dont care if im dating the person or not, sex shouldn't be influencing their thoughts
I didn't disagree with your opinion I said when you fall into relationship it's integral part of it.
But before that there should love and compatibility in order to maintain relationship.
also we get it you're not interested in sex that's your opinion. Good for you.
But heterosexual women around you are attracted to men sexually too. so it's just in our biology.
Speaking of asexual person, your opinion is right from your perspective. I respect that.
i dont think sex should be dominating the mind whether asexual or sexual person
I never said It should be dominating minds. I said it is necessary and essential part of relationship 💏.
You won't understand because seemingly you don't feel those urges.
this question is about the human being, it's not about partnership
I answered that Q earlier.
Why do you think people have partnership, that too male and female. It's because of sexual attraction.
Where does sexual attraction comes from?
All animals have biological desire to reproduce in order to continue their species.
Humans aren't celestial beings. Humans are animals.
Desire for sex completely biological without it you wouldn't be in this world in first place.
okay ill change my answer to i wish men werent sexually attracted
Well I told you already,
you won't be present now if males weren't attracted to females.
people can still fuck without the sexual attraction if we want babies so bad
I believe you have heard term Survival of fittest.
We have animal ancestors. Carnal desires are responsible for finding best genes possible and that requires attraction to be chasing those with best genes.
Sexual attraction is just biological mechanism to identify fit genes.
im very fit i dont need sexual attraction
I think you should read about Darwin's books and watch videos of animals mating i. e Animal Planet channel.
Most of your doubts will be cleared.
That's why I said you won't understand it cause you don't have those urges. Those are very real.
You're asexual so you don't feel those that's it.
i get that sex is vital for a species to survive but if i have to live a life where everybody has sex leading their interactions with me, i dont want to live anymore
You don't get it. People don't interact with you just because they want to have sex.😅 Sex is just part of life.
Even animals don't have sex everytime they are close to female.
You're misinterpreting that every man that talks to you want to have sex with you.
he will only desire sex only if all other things are in check.
i. e personality, attraction, your love towards him etc.
i didn't say that every man wants to have sex with me, i know that men will glance at body parts no matter his interest, any guy could have a slight thought about something sexual with a girl no matter his interest
Well you know it. So just go with life.
why bother about , what person might be thinking deep inside his mind.
No one knows what person in front them is thinking.
i know but too many times i found myself being misguided by people who i thought were genuine and i dont care anymore but it would have been hard for me to keep on trying to remain friends with foolish horny shallow people
Continue the journey don't loose hope you will find someone of your interest.
i dont want someone of my interest i just want all people to live without having a dirty mind
well I don't think that's gonna happen. All you can do is wish for yourself.
Reality isn't always how we expect.
it's not going to happen, that's why it's a wish, not a force. i obviously expect reality more than i expect my wishes...
Straight answers please? I can never get a solid answer out of almost any woman I've ever talked to, especially when it came to romantic feelings. I was (un) intentionally led on for like 4 years because of this crap...
I upvoted you and sympathize because you said it nicely, but I'm sure there's just as many females who would say this about men. It's really unforttunate this is so common.
Oh I don't doubt that at all. I can never get a straight answer out of my brother for even some of the stupidest things unless I straight up demand it, and some friends of mine give me the runaround until I pester them enough to get an answer. But I've seen it a lot with women on most subjects, especially romantic feelings. Why can't we all just be okay with saying what we want to say?
Preach, brother.
Eliminate menstrual cramps and mood swings and the pain of childbirth while magically still being able to reproduce.
I dont like that idea. Women go through the pain of child birth to have a preview of what the next 18 years are gonna be like.
I'm sure some women would love this but to me everything has a purpose. Even if its painful
@Apple1996 Would you deem this natural purpose so useful as to refuse all anesthetics in the process? Because I just want to give you the analogy of a super anesthetic that takes away all the pain. I just don't want to see you suffer.
Yess its pretty useful if you're gonna be the main ones raising the kids. They cause lots of pain and stress but its mixed with moments of joy too. I have two kids, one with pain meds and one without and I really preferred going naturally. Definitely taught me how to be more patient and that helps in the long run
@Apple1996 Well, I want to share in the difficulty at least. I can't shoulder any of the pain here so my wish is to take it away. Perhaps there are some pros to surviving the experience in strengthening fortitude but there might be some cons too like it might really make women terrified and averse to having children.
Some women have a fear of childbirth. Personally I think those women shouldn't be moms. If they can't handle childbirth they prob not gonna be able to handle all the other things motherhood brings like breastfeeding, sleep training. Those two things brought me many more tears then giving birth did
@Apple1996 What about splitting the pain as a compromise? Somehow, magically, men will now suffer half the pain of childbirth while women suffer the other half.
Nah I wouldn't be into any of that. Birth is perfect the way it is
@Apple1996 Might have some interesting benefits though with the split thing like it might make men more cautious about who they sleep with unprotected.
Seems like child support is already having a similar effect on men😆
@Apple1996 That does seem to discourage it somewhat :-D
I would give both sexes the forsight into how their words and actions will affect people
Oh good one!
Approaching.
I've never dated before or anything, so based on what I've HEARD, guys are expected to approach and women like it when guys do and don't often approach themselves, so assuming that's true, I think it'd be nice if women themselves would approach, if they're interested.
Ditto! I was going to say that.
I would change that women don't expect men to know what's on their mind or how they're feeling. As I've grown this has become less of an issue but whenever I talk to someone younger it seems that they expect me to be a mind reader.
I wish they'd be more sympathetic to periods/hormones/pregnancy/childbirth. Maybe even have to experience it for like a week to see what we go through. Also not be creeps (not all men are creeps, but a lot of the creeps seem to be men)
A volume dial for women.
With a remote for men.
*Click, click, click* "Your lips are moving, but I can't hear you, sorry."
Oh that's terrible. And funny.
"Why can't a woman be more like a man?", Henry Higgins, My Fair Lady.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Doz5w2W-jAYThat song speaks it all LOL!