I would make them less susceptible to herd think. Women are so much less likely to be lone wolves or outliers, you'll never see a group of girls who all disagree with eachother having friendly debates
Damn I'd say its 100% not for me I dont want any of that. It always felt like unnecessary arguing back then and never wanted it in my life again. But maybe some women like it. They become lawyers and stuff so they are out there. Now that I think about it I wiuldnt even want to hang around another woman or man that did that very often , I'm way to chill for that type of talk
I think you're definitely onto something. I've noticed in real life among friends and on social media, say Facebook groups, girls will ask about something, say another girl's new boyfriend, and instead of saying, "what do you guys think?", They ask "what do WE think?" I've also noticed if one intially has an opinion that differs from what the others go on to think they'll morph their opinion to match the others'
@Stonernights chill is almost always a facade. Arguing is just bringing to the surface what already exists underneath. Two people that can be comfortable arguing with eachother are truly at peace and they will learn as well. If you shy away from disagreements you'll never learn anything
Nah I'm good. I've always been this way and I love it 😊 I'm more about my own hobbies and having. I wouldn't even know where to fit something like that into my life
I would give all women and insatiable hunger to receive oral all day ever day. It wouldn't make a lot of men happy, but I would be one of the few for sure!!! The service I offer that gives me a sense of purpose would all of a sudden become a much-sought-after commodity, I would literally be engaged in full-time muff-diving with the women standing in lines. Or lying in rows!
@willisg Some like it clean, some like it musky. Some like the juices, others not. Some will even lick it clean after someone else's creampie. Let me guess. Your way is best.
I wouldn't customize every woman for my own taste, I like the selection part, but I'd fix their metabolism so they could eat as much as they want. Can't think anything more useful on a global scale.
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I like Girls / Women to know , not all Guys / Men judge them by looks , yes i can be attracted to a Girl / Woman who has a fabulous , loving personality
Yes what is that about eh? I have no idea. And I swoon over the smell of leather. I love accessories. I've wasted so much money on shoes that felt fine in the store on carpet but go outside for 30 min on concrete and I want to throw them in the garbage. And I have a few nice handbags but they always fall of my shoulder so I ended up not pulling them out of the box or shelf. Argghhhh. But they're all so pretty.
The way they believe they understand and perceive things with people and situations more than we do, when there are things we perceive and understand that they are completely clueless about.
Yep, saw that. I fear this debate will continue into eternity. Men want directness and women want men to read cues, subtlety, innuendo. Can't both just meet each other halfway, or take turns?
I appreciate your honesty. Many people are nowadays. There are loads of examples (confessions to this) on gag. So good on you (and the others) for being direct. I respect that. Yes, it certainly adds even more necessity to moving beyond subtleties.
The underlying victim mentality that pervades the approach many women take to any gender issue today. It's self-defeating and undermines respect for women as a whole.
I'd fix their communication skills!!! Way too many men just don't communicate how they feel or completely ignore problems which ends up causing disasters.
Actually men do, but women try to minimize what men are going through or even call him being "dramatic" for getting it out. Worse, a lot of women don't want to listen period.
@Ámayas_20 You're totally right. Real women are so hard to find these days. You sift through female co-workers, acquaintances, dates, and you can't seem to find that right one. Sigggghhhh.
@ManOnFire How wonderful to know your memory is as good as your attitude. Stop being so god damn angry and ridiculous, believe me they're not hard to find they just don't want you.
@Ámayas_20 Generally, if I haven't spoken to someone on GaG regularly, I won't remember what we may have discussed. If you showed up in my inbox and we talked one time, then I would remember, like everyone else who's in there.
Nice try, but the women I like and who like me are too far away.
@ManOnFire That's simply because they don't really know you, as a general thing women avoid men like you the ones who don't are the ones you don't like.
A big factor to my communication skills and the ability express my emotional state was the fact that growing up in the environment I did I was told by multiple elders (family, teachers, even strangers) that men are supposed to shut up, and suck it up, I have been punished multiple times for expressing myself, like how me stating that I did not enjoy or understand why I was made to do an activity, or how my female family members got to stay inside and watch TV while I hade to pull weeds, cut wood, work on cars. I have gotten yelled at, hit, and even just silenced for expressing myself. And multiple of my friends have experienced the same situations some where beaten, some got silenced by the screaming of multiple women, I got sent to the basement. I have been punched in the face for expressing myself, I wonder why men hide their feelings. 😂😅 It really isn't anything group in particular's fault more of just as a whole it has been normalized and stated that men and women need to act in specific ways and even though the grip of that disgusting perspective fades into nothing but an after thought it's reminance still remains in society. I wish you a wonderful Easter 😋
@cryokeep Genuinely thank you and I'm so unbelievably sorry this happened to you, it happened to many men I knew and was really prominent in my family growing up, they believed in really harsh gender roles, I think it's a huge issue that boys are taught this is wrong and society needs to normalise boys having emotions. Grown men also need to realise it's their job to work on their communication skills no matter their upbringing, although if your partner had a particularly tough time expressing themselves growing up you should, of course, be more patient.
All I want is for my man to talk to me when something is bothering him. He shuts himself off and I know that it isn’t personal, but I would like to just listen to him vent.
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I would make them less susceptible to herd think. Women are so much less likely to be lone wolves or outliers, you'll never see a group of girls who all disagree with eachother having friendly debates
Interesting. I grew up watching the men in my fam debate all the time, I absolutely hated it even as a tiny one.
@Stonernights debate is healthy for everyone, women too
Damn I'd say its 100% not for me I dont want any of that. It always felt like unnecessary arguing back then and never wanted it in my life again. But maybe some women like it. They become lawyers and stuff so they are out there.
Now that I think about it I wiuldnt even want to hang around another woman or man that did that very often , I'm way to chill for that type of talk
I think you're definitely onto something. I've noticed in real life among friends and on social media, say Facebook groups, girls will ask about something, say another girl's new boyfriend, and instead of saying, "what do you guys think?", They ask "what do WE think?" I've also noticed if one intially has an opinion that differs from what the others go on to think they'll morph their opinion to match the others'
@desperatelyhungry Ay yay yay. This makes me cringe.
@Stonernights chill is almost always a facade. Arguing is just bringing to the surface what already exists underneath. Two people that can be comfortable arguing with eachother are truly at peace and they will learn as well. If you shy away from disagreements you'll never learn anything
Nah I'm good. I've always been this way and I love it 😊 I'm more about my own hobbies and having. I wouldn't even know where to fit something like that into my life
I meant to write my own hobbies and having fun.
I agree with all your comments here Shamalien. Imagine that! We're on the same page.
I can imagine it, my beliefs are only truth so unless you're completely and totally separated from reality you'll agree with me at some point :P
I appreciate the word choices. Could have been a whole lot worse said another way.
hahah yes lots of backspacing
I would give all women and insatiable hunger to receive oral all day ever day. It wouldn't make a lot of men happy, but I would be one of the few for sure!!! The service I offer that gives me a sense of purpose would all of a sudden become a much-sought-after commodity, I would literally be engaged in full-time muff-diving with the women standing in lines. Or lying in rows!
No screening all welcomed right? Mr. VD , Mr. Genital warts, Mr. Herpes
@willisg Some like it clean, some like it musky. Some like the juices, others not. Some will even lick it clean after someone else's creampie. Let me guess. Your way is best.
Hell yeah!
Ask a Gynecologist. The cleaner the better.
Uh oh, are you a Gynecologist! Oops I'm sorry, your the man.
I'd just give them infinite happiness because everyone thrives off of that shit.
Awwww. What a great, magnanimous offer.
I don't see it as inherently "magnanimous" because that would imply men are my rivals or a person not nearly as strong as me.
I just see it was the best, viable option.
Well I meant it in the more general sense, of being generous and giving.
Increase the logic to feelings ratio. Seems to be around 25/75. At least 50/50 would be nice.
I wish this was not true. It would simplify relationships.
I wouldn't customize every woman for my own taste, I like the selection part, but I'd fix their metabolism so they could eat as much as they want. Can't think anything more useful on a global scale.
I like Girls / Women to know , not all Guys / Men
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a Girl / Woman who has a fabulous , loving personality
I wish, they would have no interest in shoes or handbags ;)
Why the winky face?
@desperatelyhungry I use it to indicate a 'witty' smirk
Yes what is that about eh? I have no idea. And I swoon over the smell of leather. I love accessories. I've wasted so much money on shoes that felt fine in the store on carpet but go outside for 30 min on concrete and I want to throw them in the garbage. And I have a few nice handbags but they always fall of my shoulder so I ended up not pulling them out of the box or shelf. Argghhhh. But they're all so pretty.
For girls to less critical of guys and just open and willing to give them at least one date to get to know them.
Ouch... I feel like I made a wrongful assumption there
The way they believe they understand and perceive things with people and situations more than we do, when there are things we perceive and understand that they are completely clueless about.
I would change the fact that they don't express themselves when something happens. Also, faithfulness please, at least if the girl being faithful
I just really wish women were more direct in what they want.
What’s up with the pink downvote, is someone afraid to admit that women have their flaws too?
Yep, saw that. I fear this debate will continue into eternity. Men want directness and women want men to read cues, subtlety, innuendo. Can't both just meet each other halfway, or take turns?
I try, but I’m oblivious and a little Autistic, so hints just simply won’t do.
I appreciate your honesty.
Many people are nowadays. There are loads of examples (confessions to this) on gag. So good on you (and the others) for being direct. I respect that.
Yes, it certainly adds even more necessity to moving beyond subtleties.
It would be either "stop overthinking every damn thing" or "just be up front".
Very good ones.
The indecision. It's not that hard to know what you feel.
The underlying victim mentality that pervades the approach many women take to any gender issue today. It's self-defeating and undermines respect for women as a whole.
I'd fix their communication skills!!! Way too many men just don't communicate how they feel or completely ignore problems which ends up causing disasters.
Actually men do, but women try to minimize what men are going through or even call him being "dramatic" for getting it out. Worse, a lot of women don't want to listen period.
@ManOnFire I don't know what kind of women you know but not any that I or anyone I know does that.
@Ámayas_20 Chicks on GaG have got stop giving this copy-and-paste answer.
@ManOnFire Men on here really need to try talking to some real women once in a while.
@Ámayas_20 You're totally right. Real women are so hard to find these days. You sift through female co-workers, acquaintances, dates, and you can't seem to find that right one. Sigggghhhh.
@ManOnFire That attitude is why the decent women stay away from you. I'm really not interested in having this conversation with you, again.
@Ámayas_20 Yep, they're hiding under a rock. I don't even recall having it the first time.
Oh, you can block me if you need to. I'm fine with that.
@ManOnFire How wonderful to know your memory is as good as your attitude. Stop being so god damn angry and ridiculous, believe me they're not hard to find they just don't want you.
@Ámayas_20 Generally, if I haven't spoken to someone on GaG regularly, I won't remember what we may have discussed. If you showed up in my inbox and we talked one time, then I would remember, like everyone else who's in there.
Nice try, but the women I like and who like me are too far away.
@ManOnFire That's simply because they don't really know you, as a general thing women avoid men like you the ones who don't are the ones you don't like.
@Ámayas_20 I know you worked hard on this, but it's not working.
@ManOnFire Worked hard? Lmao don't flatter yourself, just because you can't handle that you're the problem.
A big factor to my communication skills and the ability express my emotional state was the fact that growing up in the environment I did I was told by multiple elders (family, teachers, even strangers) that men are supposed to shut up, and suck it up, I have been punished multiple times for expressing myself, like how me stating that I did not enjoy or understand why I was made to do an activity, or how my female family members got to stay inside and watch TV while I hade to pull weeds, cut wood, work on cars. I have gotten yelled at, hit, and even just silenced for expressing myself. And multiple of my friends have experienced the same situations some where beaten, some got silenced by the screaming of multiple women, I got sent to the basement. I have been punched in the face for expressing myself, I wonder why men hide their feelings. 😂😅 It really isn't anything group in particular's fault more of just as a whole it has been normalized and stated that men and women need to act in specific ways and even though the grip of that disgusting perspective fades into nothing but an after thought it's reminance still remains in society. I wish you a wonderful Easter 😋
@cryokeep Genuinely thank you and I'm so unbelievably sorry this happened to you, it happened to many men I knew and was really prominent in my family growing up, they believed in really harsh gender roles, I think it's a huge issue that boys are taught this is wrong and society needs to normalise boys having emotions. Grown men also need to realise it's their job to work on their communication skills no matter their upbringing, although if your partner had a particularly tough time expressing themselves growing up you should, of course, be more patient.
All I want is for my man to talk to me when something is bothering him. He shuts himself off and I know that it isn’t personal, but I would like to just listen to him vent.
This is somethin' I struggle with to be honest. I've got the mindset that I don't want others to to worry I guess.
Their need to fix and micromanage people, sometimes we don't need to be fixed... Love us for who we are.
I wish you could make it impossible for them to not explain themselves. This is tough one though bc there is so much I'd like to fix
could I also make them honest, and mark the disloyal ones with an X
okay can I change mine to men having the exact same emotional attachment that I get after sex
Nice one...
Or just force the cheaters to be tattooed with the word CHEATER on their forehead. X looks too cool for that.
Girls get 100 likes on Tinder a day and guys have to make 1000 likes to get one like back, this ratio should be equal to both genders.
What I'm hearing is hook up app issues are your concern
It is true gender inequality
Must be rough