Do men really like weak and fragile women? (Page 2)

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I think men do not actually like weak or fragile women, rather, women who demonstrate femininity. Now, some might say that being weak and fragile is demonstration of femininity but I don’t think that is so. I think femininity, as it relates to what men say when asked what they believe it is in relation to women, is the behavior around being nurturing, loving, worrying, and caring.  A woman can be feminine, strong, courageous, and relentless at once.  I don’t want a weak woman.  I want a woman that can fight.  I want a woman that can persevere through adversity.  I don’t want a woman to be the type to run or leave my side when chaos ensues.  I don’t want a woman who isn’t courageous.  I don’t think men really like weak and fragile women, but if some do then those men are either weak, insecure, or both.  I also don’t think women want to be seen as weak or fragile.  I think some women might find these to be desirable because they think it’s feminine or “girly” to be this way, therefore they act as if they are this way so that they can be seen as feminine.  I like the idea of the warrior woman.  Historians may disagree on certain points on this topic, but perhaps there’s more evidence than not that there were aplenty of warrior women in ancient cultures of the past. These women would fight alongside the men in war and I’m not doubtful that they carried the same ferociousness, courageousness, and relentlessness in combat.  And they’re still feminine, still beautiful, still sensitive, still caring, and still loving.

AzureGirl · Answer

I think it depends on the guy. I don’t think I’m in any way a weak woman and I know a lot of women who are not yet have found happy and fulfilling relationships.

JosyJosy · Answer

I think so. There was one here a long time ago who openly said he was attracted to those. Or they think they just want to help, or what I'm thinking is... that kind of man is too weak to handle a decent woman

PonyCarGirl98 · Answer

I agree 100% ❤ I actually thought this was the case too.. your perspective is so refreshing!

The_little_gay_robin · Answer

Um, I happen to enjoy being lazy thank you very much😂 but I appreciate the sentiment

ChiTown33 · Answer

They don't they just don't want a woman that appears ro be stronger than them. Most good women are strong women though in many ways. Which is why many women play down to the men they desire. To make him feel strong.

Unit1 · Answer

I agree with you there a lot (I just don't believe in those concepts femininity or masculinity). The amazons or shieldmaidens aren't just a word.

Weak and helpless women turn me off.
Strong women all the way 😍😍😍

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

I want a strong woman by my side, not pitted against me by some politically correct manipulation.

A woman who shares the same beliefs and will protect our kids

A woman who isn't afraid to speak up against lies and do the right thing

StephenCF · Answer

I just like women who can be described as feminine/elegant but stops at nothing to live her life, and blames her failures on her abilities and not the patriarchy

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

We cannot deny the fact that stronger women go for more stronger man so what's happening do you think about this? It's more of her Choice than his anyway...

Thatsamazing · Answer

We want *hot* women. They don't have to be weak and fragile-- we just want them to be weakER and more fragile than we are. Males want to protect. Females want to be protected. Just how it is.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

As long as they are submissive to the man who is the head of the household and behave and appear in a feminine way, i dont think there is any problem. Its when they dont look or act feminine there is zero attraction.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

It depents one the but personally I don't think that most of them do.

ValleyofDrakes · Answer

I'll just say that I don't like the aggressive, unapologetic, rude, feminist type woman.

RydiaMagnifique · Answer

I don't know. I like a strong man, that's for sure.

FreyaRed · Answer

Some like others don't do. If the devil wants one guy's soul, he sends a woman.

MissBoogus · Answer

I consider myself very feminine. And although I’m fiery and will always defend myself I’m weak and fragile af. And I love love play fighting but my god it feels like a worm fighting a gorilla

TienShenhan · Answer

Well said. My perfect woman would be a physical specimen, if she's superior to me, then even better.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Overall I agree with your analysis. A girl can be both a warrior and feminine.

OddBeMe · Answer

Fragile about what? Bugs? I hate when people push “obvious” feminine traits without thinking about it first.

Ninjazzed · Answer

Men prefer women that are delicate in appearance but internally strong-willed.

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