Do strong women love weak men?

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TooHot2Care · Accepted Answer

Controlling women love weak men, but “strong” women….. hmmmm…… I’ve met very few people who were strong and fewer women who actually fit that moniker.

“strong” Women tend to adopt a strong persona and try to take on masculine traits and surround themselves with people who won’t challenge them. That’s not strength, that’s sad.

Strength doesn’t just require physical might.
you can be physically strong and still be a weak person.

A man who is physically strong and then flies off the handle and threatens people and tries to fight his way out of his feelings of inferiority isn’t strong, he is weak.

strength requires four things.

self governance. (Think controlling impulses.)

Growth. (Think not getting defensive or making your ideology your whole mindset or identity.)

Ability to cooperate. ( Social skills and knowing what’s appropriate.)

Ability to reject others. ( Having a spine and saying “no”, or just doing what is best for you first. And following your needs.)

I find that most people tend to lack 2-3 of those requirements , but having all 4 is necessary to be strong.

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Putting aside the bullsh*t that moden feminism is trying to instill into the minds of the braindead Gen Z nowadays, that it's okay for me to show weakness, be fragile, show their feminine side and just act submissive overall, let me tell you something that any REAL woman out there will not only be turned off by this behavior, but will be downright repulsed.

Why's that so, you ask? First of all, it's a proven fact that throughout history, heck, even as far as like 10-15 years ago or so, women have always wanted a strong, fearless and brave man as their ideal partner, not because it's hella sexy for obvious reasons, but also because when you eventually have a family of 4, responsibilities and problems to deal with, a strong man who can take control of the situation and act as the pillar of hope for the family is what everyone needs.

Not some submissive manchild who screams and runs at the sight of the first sign of trouble like someone bigger than him who comes up and threatens his wife and kids.

WriterDreams · Accepted Answer

Who cares if they do. So long as they treat them right and they return the same courtesy.

Love is love. I do wish people would stop making it sound like it's sordid and wrong.

It's doing my head in in my life too. It's childish and pathetic of the world to belittle such a wounderful thing.

Also I disagree with the quote.

In many cases. Some supposedly "weak" men just need to be shown who they can be. Gave another perspective in thire heads.

Others are happy as they are.

If one were to be this way then why not ask do strong men love weak women? I don't mean that as an equality thing but to make a point. Just that it really don't matter. The couple involved are the ones that get to decide what works for them.

If my love and I had listened to the idiots and judgement of society then we would not have the epically wounderful thing we have going now. Sure it isn't flawless or conventional but it is beautiful no matter. Love good not sordid and gross as many try to claim.

There is nothing wrong with a strong woman loving a consider weak man or vus versa.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

There are many weaknesses and no one is really strong because of their weaknesses. A women can love a man with obvious deficits but she has to be very proficient in this topic and the guy has to offer same proficiency in topics where she has deficits.

Anonymous · Answer

Well your question is specific enough. Not every guy that appears weak is weak. And not every guy that appears strong is strong.

A good woman can bring the best out of a good man and a good man can bring the best out of a good woman.

I guess what I'm saying is a lot of women erroneously think they're good women. They deem many men weak. When the reality is they have zero ability to determine what a good man even looks and acts like, let alone have the abilty encourage him to be better let alone have the inclination to do so. Because to most of these types of women a man's ONLY utility is service to HER. Pity her. Because she'll never know what a quality relationship is.

Lliam · Answer

There are some domineering women. I know a couple who are like that. They think they are smart and strong willed, but they are actually pretty stupid. They tend to be "woke". They take on masculine traits. And they go for guys who are passive.

But a lot of smart, motivated, successful women want men they can respect. They want a confident man who embodies healthy masculinity, makes her feel like a woman, respects her, and isn't intimidated by her brains and ambition. They want an equal partner who is a compliment to her strong femininity.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what you mean by "strong". I mean let's face it, most women who call themselves "strong" are just unpleasant people looking for an excuse for why men don't want them.

Strength doesn't mean being a so called "boss bae". Most women who use that term are low quality human beings. True strength includes the ability to get along with other people and treat them with respect. If "strong" women knew how to do that, their actual strength would never be an issue to men.

Feminists need to stop trying to shame men for "being intimidated by 'strong' women" and focus instead on helping women be better women and better human beings.

Anonymous · Answer

Weak men are the only viable option for dominant and controlling women who want a man. There are two reasons for that.

First, there is not room for two dominant personalities in a relationship. I've seen women like that in relationships with more dominant men and they always fail.

Second, no self-respecting man would allow himself to be dominated and controlled by a woman. He would lose respect for himself, and she would lose respect for him as well, and that's a recipe for a failed relationship. There are no winners in that scenario.

So it's not that dominant women love weak men; they neither love nor respect them. But they have no other option for romance, other than lesbianism, which is the path many dominant women take.

sage2021 · Answer

Personally I do NOT!

A guy like that will always turn to you for guidance and then it feels like you are raising a child, which leads to bad sex in the bedroom.

My Mom would refer to a weak man as a limp noodle, not a real man.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I’ve found that women who are cheated on will go for a beta because they know he’ll never leave. My coworker was this obese guy & I met his wife I was like wtfs going on here? She was a 15 out of 10.

He explained how she was married & cheated on they divorced & so she went for him.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Heck no women don’t like weak timid unattractive poor non ambitious and feminine men. If so then they would just be lesbian.

trust me I’m this guy I also speak very softly and don’t like projecting my voice people always ask me to speak up or that they can’t hear me which annoys me having to repeat over and over again. I also hate my voice because it outs my gayness, so I try to avoid talking in general.

shades777 · Answer

manipulating women are like that, unless your talking physical strong women, yea if they think they can compete with you, then possibly they think your weak. I've gotten that a few times in life, bug fat burly women think thats the same as a buff dude, they don't realize I can squat the whole rack and press 125lb dumbbell, looking big ain't the same being strong

mobiusforniner · Answer

From experience, this is a strong no. If anything, her idea of a man is even more selective than the average

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I think some people just like to have a weak partner. I've noticed this with men, woman, gays and straights.

Anemone978 · Answer

I would love to have openness.. I just wish men would be open and honest..  But no they always have to lie and act like they don't care or have feelings, which ruins shit a lot of the time.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends how you define "weak," I suppose.  Are you talking mentally, physically, financially etc etc.

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Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

I’ve heard strong women just want an extra strong man.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

No. I’m a strong woman and I want to be with a man who’s even stronger than me. Because I want to know he’s got me when I need him.

Exterminatore · Answer

Sure. They love little pansies who they can cuckhold. Gets em real hot.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Weak in what way? Cannot lift a stone? Cries when he sees an injured child? Is afraid of everything?

SirJohn42 · Answer

can't answer for all women but I do know some women like to take advantage of weak guys.

fonduegirl · Answer

Weak how? Does he like bondage or does he have low self esteem? Fine line.

Dargil · Answer

Nope. The look at them as pets or service animals.

Anonymous · Answer

Even the so called 'boss babes' what a strong men in a traditional role, they may say they want a 'man in touch with his feminine side', but they be cheating on him before to long.

OddBeMe · Answer

There are usually ying yang traits in couples. Sometimes more meek people go for more dominant spouses. I think the average is 50/50.

stoicity · Answer

You're way too generic with your words. Toxic masculine women would prefer weak men. Most of them are having either bpd or npd

Hulk30 · Answer

Strong women generally pick weak men to control em

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, to an extent, yea. However, he cannot be physically weak

Anonymous · Answer

A strong woman who needs a weak man is not a strong woman. A strong woman who needs a strong man is a strong woman.  -Ancient Chinese Proverb

Anonymous · Answer

They don't. Those women who say yes want someone to take advantage to.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Depends, weak in what way?

PragmaticProfit · Answer

Nobody loves a weak man.

Greenbean27 · Answer

The answer is it depends on the woman.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I think dominant women like submissive men.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, so she can beat him up.

dudeinohio · Answer

I'd say they seek out someone to dominate.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No. They like even stronger men.

Katebfun · Answer

😅😍😌NO

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Some do.

Unit1 · Answer

Irrelevant

_Ashley__ · Answer

No, obviously

Anonymous · Answer

I think so. opposite attract

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